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Hey guys, just looking for advice. I have been talking to an Awesome Bull lately, but I think I have pissed him off because I am scared to meet. This is all new to me, I just feel something deep inside that tells me this is my future and my destiny. I would love to talk with Bulls or other cucks. you can email me directly at [email protected]

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Yep trust Wild Thing.  First though, ask yourself; what is it that is so frightening?  would it be different if it was someone else? if it isn't the bull perhaps it isn't the time to make this move, however why not talk it through with your mate?  explain your fears which I suspect have something to do with losing her.

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On 3/31/2022 at 1:09 PM, faggothusband said:

Hey guys, just looking for advice. I have been talking to an Awesome Bull lately, but I think I have pissed him off because I am scared to meet. This is all new to me, I just feel something deep inside that tells me this is my future and my destiny. I would love to talk with Bulls or other cucks. you can email me directly at [email protected]

Just out of curiosity how does your wife feel about everything and what does she have to say about it all?  
  it’s for both of you but ultimately for her pleasure.  

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12 hours ago, Naughty Nicki said:

Just out of curiosity how does your wife feel about everything and what does she have to say about it all?  
  it’s for both of you but ultimately for her pleasure.  

Exactly. Being nervous and anxious whilst also being turned on by the idea is all part and parcel of being a cuckold. The most important thing is communication. You and your wife should talk in depth about what you both want out of this and how far you want things to go. I let my wife pick her own men when it came to her going elsewhere for sex.

A wife confronted by a husband trying to get them to have sex with another man often wonders if you are just looking for an excuse to fuck other women yourself or fear that you can't love them anymore if you are willing to let them do that. They will need a lot of re-assuring that yes, you will still love them, especially after they've done the deed and that no, you will remain completely faithful. Once it's done it's done, so be careful what you wish for. She can't be "unfucked", so she'll always now be what society regards as an unfaithful wife. I like that in a woman though!

My experiences with my now ex-wife Debbie are well documented on this site and I admit there are things I'd do differently, but hindsight is a wonderful thing. I'm now working slowly on getting my new girlfriend into the lifestyle perhaps. She currently has two online black "boyfriends" that I'm quietly hoping becomes more and when I asked her if this meant I'm allowed girlfriends she replied, "No! Most definitely not!", so that in itself is promising.

Good luck though and keep us informed on how things go.

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If your fear is about your own safety then leave it alone, there are many others who are safe.  If your fear is the excitement if coming to realize your first cuckold experience that would be different!

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I am not afraid of my new Bull...rather i am afraid i will love it too much.

My wife dominates me in bed and denies me release sometimes. Other times she paddles and spanks me...not sexually...but because i am such a whiny bitch sometimes and i am not performing for her like she wants.

She insists i eat her pussy often....and after she cums will tell me to go away.

I think i want to see her pleasured by my Bull...but like i said... i may love it...instead of just being turned on by seeing her satisfied by the cock of another man.

Will she fall in love with him...and not need me anymore? Will she only want him inside her pussy and never me again. Will i turn gay also loving his cock and getting my only pleasure from sucking him...getting fucked by him...and receiving my cum-reward at the tip of his superior cock?

I want his cock in my mouth SOOOOO bad...and i want him to fuck my beautiful, darling, smart, sexy, wife. 

PLEASE tell me I'm not alone to feel this way....please tell me i'm not the only guy who wants to guide another man's cock into his own mouth...and beg him to fuck his ass.... to make him feel unworthy as a husband and sex partner.... i CRAVE my Bull's cock inside of me....and i've never even met him yet... but he says the right words that make sense to me...and my little dick twitches when i see a text from him..... and if im honest..... i'm kinda falling for him emotionally...because he seems to understand my thoughts and does not judge me......

Hell...my wife and I may both fall in love with him.....

What is wrong with me????

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1 hour ago, faggothusband said:

I am not afraid of my new Bull...rather i am afraid i will love it too much.

My wife dominates me in bed and denies me release sometimes. Other times she paddles and spanks me...not sexually...but because i am such a whiny bitch sometimes and i am not performing for her like she wants.

She insists i eat her pussy often....and after she cums will tell me to go away.

I think i want to see her pleasured by my Bull...but like i said... i may love it...instead of just being turned on by seeing her satisfied by the cock of another man.

Will she fall in love with him...and not need me anymore? Will she only want him inside her pussy and never me again. Will i turn gay also loving his cock and getting my only pleasure from sucking him...getting fucked by him...and receiving my cum-reward at the tip of his superior cock?

I want his cock in my mouth SOOOOO bad...and i want him to fuck my beautiful, darling, smart, sexy, wife. 

PLEASE tell me I'm not alone to feel this way....please tell me i'm not the only guy who wants to guide another man's cock into his own mouth...and beg him to fuck his ass.... to make him feel unworthy as a husband and sex partner.... i CRAVE my Bull's cock inside of me....and i've never even met him yet... but he says the right words that make sense to me...and my little dick twitches when i see a text from him..... and if im honest..... i'm kinda falling for him emotionally...because he seems to understand my thoughts and does not judge me......

Hell...my wife and I may both fall in love with him.....

What is wrong with me????

Nothing wrong with you at all!  It sounds to me like you are becoming the perfect cuckold bitch hubby.  I have had many of those feelings!

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3 hours ago, faggothusband said:

I am not afraid of my new Bull...rather i am afraid i will love it too much.

My wife dominates me in bed and denies me release sometimes. Other times she paddles and spanks me...not sexually...but because i am such a whiny bitch sometimes and i am not performing for her like she wants.

She insists i eat her pussy often....and after she cums will tell me to go away.

I think i want to see her pleasured by my Bull...but like i said... i may love it...instead of just being turned on by seeing her satisfied by the cock of another man.

Will she fall in love with him...and not need me anymore? Will she only want him inside her pussy and never me again. Will i turn gay also loving his cock and getting my only pleasure from sucking him...getting fucked by him...and receiving my cum-reward at the tip of his superior cock?

I want his cock in my mouth SOOOOO bad...and i want him to fuck my beautiful, darling, smart, sexy, wife. 

PLEASE tell me I'm not alone to feel this way....please tell me i'm not the only guy who wants to guide another man's cock into his own mouth...and beg him to fuck his ass.... to make him feel unworthy as a husband and sex partner.... i CRAVE my Bull's cock inside of me....and i've never even met him yet... but he says the right words that make sense to me...and my little dick twitches when i see a text from him..... and if im honest..... i'm kinda falling for him emotionally...because he seems to understand my thoughts and does not judge me......

Hell...my wife and I may both fall in love with him.....

What is wrong with me????

 

1 hour ago, cucksean said:

Nothing wrong with you at all!  It sounds to me like you are becoming the perfect cuckold bitch hubby.  I have had many of those feelings!

I'd echo what Sean said; nothing wrong with you.  Stop worrying about labels.  Most cuckolds I've known tell me it felt like a weight was lifted off their shoulders when they learned to enjoy it all

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3 hours ago, faggothusband said:

Will she fall in love with him...and not need me anymore? Will she only want him inside her pussy and never me again.

I had these thoughts, and others, a couple of days after my wife had had what I thought at the time was her first extra-marital sexual experience. This was the day after her 35th birthday and she'd agreed to go on a date with a young 23 year old customer from the shop she worked in, which was basically a few drinks after work, then back to his place for sex. He'd fucked her 3 times before he let her go home to her husband and kids and I was fine with it when she got in and the next day, but suddenly that "cuckold angst" kicked in. Was he better in bed than me? Did he have a bigger dick than me? Would she leave me for him? Despite her saying all the right things to ease my anxiety all these questions fuelled my insecurity and like an idiot I asked her not to see him again. Hindsight is a wonderful thing, but looking back I wish I'd held my nerve and let it carry on, let my wife have the toyboy "bit on the side" we'd talked about. Him not contacting her didn't help, my wife now feeling dirty, used and stupid for being such an easy lay. He did get in touch again eventually, hoping for a repeat performance, but she'd agreed to stop and he got sent packing.

As time passed I regretted being so hasty and eventually started to suggest we try it again. We were older and wiser now, but my wife's initial reaction was, "I'm not going down that road again!" Gradually though, her stance softened to a "maybe", until she finally said, "Are you sure you could handle it better this time?" Assured by me that, yes, I'll be okay this time and with the internet, social media and online dating sites now emerging, Debbie embarked on this again some 9 years on, this time much more successfully, with an ex-workmate of mine, another couple of much younger lads and her mate's step-dad.

I never got to watch Debbie have sex nor suck any of her lovers' cocks, but the thought did turn us both on. She'd "make" me take our sex toy in my mouth, encourage me and give me tips on how to suck cock like a "good boy", even making me wear a condom once and slowly feeding me the contents by smearing cum on my lips and having me lick her fingers clean. Years later I did actually get to "scratch that itch" when a male masseur offered up his erect penis to my mouth and I eagerly sucked it for him. Just like Debbie, he told me what a good boy I was as I ejaculated into his hand.

So don't fret about these feelings you're worried about. It's all perfectly normal to feel the way you do, but please talk to your wife. If she's already dominant in bed with you she may well be very pleased that you want her to be fucked by superior men, if indeed she isn't already. It turned out that what I thought was my wife's first encounter wasn't, finding out only a couple of years ago from the guy concerned that she'd told him we'd split up to ease any guilt he might have had about fucking a friend's wife when she didn't so much offer him sex, more demanded it. He of course obliged and why not?

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8 hours ago, Peter C said:

I had these thoughts, and others, a couple of days after my wife had had what I thought at the time was her first extra-marital sexual experience. This was the day after her 35th birthday and she'd agreed to go on a date with a young 23 year old customer from the shop she worked in, which was basically a few drinks after work, then back to his place for sex. He'd fucked her 3 times before he let her go home to her husband and kids and I was fine with it when she got in and the next day, but suddenly that "cuckold angst" kicked in. Was he better in bed than me? Did he have a bigger dick than me? Would she leave me for him? Despite her saying all the right things to ease my anxiety all these questions fuelled my insecurity and like an idiot I asked her not to see him again. Hindsight is a wonderful thing, but looking back I wish I'd held my nerve and let it carry on, let my wife have the toyboy "bit on the side" we'd talked about. Him not contacting her didn't help, my wife now feeling dirty, used and stupid for being such an easy lay. He did get in touch again eventually, hoping for a repeat performance, but she'd agreed to stop and he got sent packing.

As time passed I regretted being so hasty and eventually started to suggest we try it again. We were older and wiser now, but my wife's initial reaction was, "I'm not going down that road again!" Gradually though, her stance softened to a "maybe", until she finally said, "Are you sure you could handle it better this time?" Assured by me that, yes, I'll be okay this time and with the internet, social media and online dating sites now emerging, Debbie embarked on this again some 9 years on, this time much more successfully, with an ex-workmate of mine, another couple of much younger lads and her mate's step-dad.

I never got to watch Debbie have sex nor suck any of her lovers' cocks, but the thought did turn us both on. She'd "make" me take our sex toy in my mouth, encourage me and give me tips on how to suck cock like a "good boy", even making me wear a condom once and slowly feeding me the contents by smearing cum on my lips and having me lick her fingers clean. Years later I did actually get to "scratch that itch" when a male masseur offered up his erect penis to my mouth and I eagerly sucked it for him. Just like Debbie, he told me what a good boy I was as I ejaculated into his hand.

So don't fret about these feelings you're worried about. It's all perfectly normal to feel the way you do, but please talk to your wife. If she's already dominant in bed with you she may well be very pleased that you want her to be fucked by superior men, if indeed she isn't already. It turned out that what I thought was my wife's first encounter wasn't, finding out only a couple of years ago from the guy concerned that she'd told him we'd split up to ease any guilt he might have had about fucking a friend's wife when she didn't so much offer him sex, more demanded it. He of course obliged and why not?

Peter, that is excellent, well thought out, advice as well as an insightful account of your experiences. I would strongly encourage the O.P. to read and comprehend

 

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4 minutes ago, Cuckcuple11 said:

It’s not up to my hubby when we meet a new bull. I make all those decisions. But my hubby has been a very willing participant in any situation I have instigated. He prefers I take charge.

Wow wish you and my wife were friends!

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Thanks guys....its been helpful....

I confess i am chatting with other bulls on undernet and Wifelovers...and i get so hard and their words and Dominating language arouses me so much i NEED  their cock...but they are so far away in other states...and i remember that i have a BULL right here down the road....who understands me and my urges...he says he knows what i want..... and so far he has....

I think i reach out to other guys cause in my heart i know they arent close...but why did i advertise on Doublelist in my own city if i dont truly want a man to own me and eventually my wife and sleep in our marriage bed while i wait in the hall???

I am such a sissi faggot....i need another man to completely emasculate me and make my wife his whore....my darling beautiful, sweet, mother of my children...  ....wife.

I am open to suggestions as to how to admit to my wife Michelle that i want cock...more than her...and i want her to spread her legs for other men...real men...men who are able to please her properly.... because i know she is unsatisfied with my 4.5" man-clit.... she has a bigger dildo...and she loves it...and the best i can provide is frequent oral on her.... i know she deserves more...and better....

Please tell me and even have your wives tell me the best way to broach this new lifestyle. 

She has stripped off all her clothes when she gets drunk and danced in front of our friends...but has never crossed the line. I want help her bulldoze over the line and blow it up....

Please help me...email me direct...

I also want to be able to express my feelings for another man...more than just sucking his cock.... i want to offer my ass and surrender myself to his superiority.... what can i say to him that he will understand and believe my sincerity...

I need his cock......

[email protected]

Faggothusband

 

 

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I get upset when I make an appointment to meet someone and they do not show, or ghost me.  I also get upset if they stop communicating for weeks then come back to communicating as if nothing happened.

 

In short there is a limit to my patience.  I find many in the lifestyle just want jackoff material.  I am not here to be your personal porn factory.  I am here to fuck your wife, and if that means helping you to get her on board I am willing to take the time needed for a good outcome for all three of us. 

So look at your communication with this bull.  If the communication was leading to a meeting, and especially if you arranged a meet then backed out, I would say you need to examine if you really want your wife to be fucked by him, or if you just want to jack off while talking about him fucking her.

 

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On 03/04/2022 at 22:46, faggothusband said:

Merci les gars.... ça a été utile....

J'avoue que je discute avec d'autres taureaux sur undernet et Wifelovers ... et je deviens si dur et leurs mots et leur langage dominant m'excitent tellement que j'ai BESOIN de leur bite ... mais ils sont si loin dans d'autres états ... et Je me souviens que j'ai un BULL juste ici sur la route... qui me comprend et comprend mes envies... il dit qu'il sait ce que je veux... et jusqu'à présent, il l'a fait...

Je pense que je tends la main à d'autres gars parce que dans mon cœur, je sais qu'ils ne sont pas proches ... mais pourquoi ai-je fait de la publicité sur Doublelist dans ma propre ville si je ne veux pas vraiment qu'un homme me possède et éventuellement ma femme et dorme dans notre mariage lit pendant que j'attends dans le couloir ???

Je suis tellement une pédée de sissi....j'ai besoin d'un autre homme pour m'émasculer complètement et faire de ma femme sa pute....ma belle chérie, douce, mère de mes enfants... ....femme.

Je suis ouvert aux suggestions sur la façon d'admettre à ma femme Michelle que je veux de la bite... plus qu'elle... et je veux qu'elle écarte les jambes pour d'autres hommes... de vrais hommes... des hommes capables pour lui plaire correctement ... parce que je sais qu'elle n'est pas satisfaite de mon clitoris de 4,5 pouces .... elle a un plus gros gode ... et elle adore ça ... et le mieux que je puisse lui fournir est une elle... je sais qu'elle mérite plus... et mieux...

S'il vous plaît dites-moi et demandez même à vos femmes de me dire la meilleure façon d'aborder ce nouveau style de vie. 

Elle a enlevé tous ses vêtements quand elle s'est saoulée et a dansé devant nos amis... mais n'a jamais franchi la ligne. Je veux l'aider à franchir la ligne au bulldozer et à la faire sauter...

S'il vous plaît, aidez-moi ... envoyez-moi un e-mail directement ...

Je veux aussi pouvoir exprimer mes sentiments pour un autre homme... plus que simplement lui sucer la bite... je veux offrir mon cul et m'abandonner à sa supériorité... que puis-je lui dire qu'il comprendra et croira ma sincérité...

J'ai besoin de sa bite ......

[email protected]

Faggothusband

 

 

 

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