For those guys that are unsure....

[RobJohnson]

I can imagine there are hundreds of guys on here, not contributing, but taking in what goes on. They are reading and  learning, and wondering what is best for them.

I can imagine there are loads of guys who worry what their wives get up to, they are desperate to keep their beautiful wives to themselves, but deep down they know it’s a  struggle, so they come on here to learn how other guys cope with it.

For those guys that are unsure, I just want to try and give some comfort.

It was plainly obvious my wife was a strayer. A true flirt, beautiful and obviously would be hit on wherever she goes. The anxiety attached to this is a problem, and you are constantly worried, and looking back on it now, you are just trying to stop the inevitable happening.

You can’t stop it. If they are attractive and naturally promiscuous, you might be able to stop one encounter, or delay an encounter, but you will always be trying to stop the inevitable. 

Your wife will want other men, men will want your wife, it is going to happen if it hasn’t already and so it’s much better for you both if you learn to accept it and let her enjoy what she craves.

The reasons I give for this are:

1. You benefit massively. If you learn to accept it, which is a very achievable objective, all the anxiety goes away. Yes you have to learn, but once you have learnt you just feel so much better and more relaxed. It’s like a weight gone off your shoulders.

2. Your relationship improves as your wife is happy having her lovers. She also appreciates you not trying to stop her, so she appreciates you more. Your relationship gets stronger as there are no worries, no fights, no questions. She has better sex (elsewhere) and a better relationship with you, what more could you want. 

3. You get pleasure in knowing you have allowed your wife to have the ultimate pleasure. You feel strong that you have allowed it to happen and have learnt how to deal with it.

4. There are bulls out there that can help. This isn’t something I have benefitted from personally, but I would like the situation where a bull could take control and so it takes even more pressure off you. Let the bull and your wife decide everything, it just takes all pressure away from you and makes everybody happier, your wife, the bull and you. 

5. If others are having your wife it makes you want her more. It’s natural that you will want her more, the more others want her. You know you have a lady that everbody wants to fuck, so it makes you feel lucky to be involved with her.

It all just makes sense. You become a better person by your learnings, and all that anxiety that goes with trying to keep a beautiful woman to yourself disappears. You wife gets what she needs to, so it just makes obvious sense now. 

I think the sooner you realise the benefits of allowing your wife what she craves, the best for everbody. I just wished I had learnt all about this years ago. The times my wife went away with the girls, dressed to fuck guys and the anxiety it caused me. The times she would say she was out with a girlfriend and I knew it was a guy. It was just she needed something extra and I wasn’t courageous enough at the time when she was clearly indicating to me what she needed.

Learn how to cope, embrace it and let your wife have all the cock she craves. 

Just my thoughts. 

 

[DomBull4U]

Excellent perspective and some great tips and advice for new cucks and wannabes. 

Deserves a bump up.

Thanks Rob for sharing your insight.

DomBull4U

[Naughty Nicki]

From a ladies perspective,  at least mine. I married my husband because of who he is and I’m with him, now 22 years, because of how he treats me, marring him and staying with him has nothing to do with how good or bad he is in bed. I love him and always will, I just love the fun and excitement this brings, not just for me but for us both. 

[secondjag]

10 hours ago, Hotwife/cuck luvR said:

From a ladies perspective,  at least mine. I married my husband because of who he is and I’m with him, now 22 years, because of how he treats me, marring him and staying with him has nothing to do with how good or bad he is in bed. I love him and always will, I just love the fun and excitement this brings, not just for me but for us both. 

Perfect honey, just perfect!

[Naughty Nicki]

Once couples can differentiate the difference between sex and love it can be a lot more fun. 

[bobbyUK]

thanks for the info

[lovetooo]

thanks for advise !!!!!😈

 

 

[Jmillz24]

Love it!!! 

[time2win15]

trying to convince my wife, she needs to read this 

 

[Gracie]

Very nice post.   In my case, we married right out of high school when we were both 18.  We both had only experienced each other, and no one else.  Within a year, I came to a realization that I was not satisfying my wife, not even close.  After swallowing a great deal of pride and humility, I suggested that she start fucking other guys.  I didn't frame it that way with her, of course...something like she should "date" other guys, but she knew what I meant.

She put up very token resistance.  That told me a lot.  It didn't take her long to bring home a guy.  He happened to be black.  Our agreement was that she would bring home guys, and not hide from me what she is doing.  As he disrobed my wife and stated fondling her right in front of me, I got very jealous, but my dick got very hard.  The more I looked and the more they did, and the more I got jealous, the harder my little dick got.

It was truly an amazing thing watching my wife getting thoroughly fucked by a black man.  She had several earth shattering orgasms, something I was never able to get her to do.  Despite my jealousy, I started leaking cum just from watching and not touching at all, it was so arousing for me. 

Afterwards, she was so thoroughly and satisfactorily fucked that, at his urging, she declared that from then on, she was black cock only.  While I was shocked at that decision, in retrospect I have NO regrets about it at all.  Life is very good for both of us, as well as our black boyfriends.

My wife is gorgeous with big D-cup tits and a very hot body.  Guys LOVE fucking her.  As we live in a mostly black neighborhood, and work with a lot of blacks, there is NO shortage of guys wanting to fuck her.

It is totally awesome.  I wish I had suggest to her we go into this lifestyle even before our wedding.  But I didn't know then what I learned later.

If you are sitting on the fence about whether to propose something similar to your wife or girlfriend, get off the fence and do it.  JUST DO IT!!!!  iF you are afraid she is already cheating, then make it something you BOTH enjoy and stop worrying about it.

 

 

 

 

 

[Naughty Nicki]

On 9/29/2018 at 4:20 PM, Gracie said:

Very nice post.   In my case, we married right out of high school when we were both 18.  We both had only experienced each other, and no one else.  Within a year, I came to a realization that I was not satisfying my wife, not even close.  After swallowing a great deal of pride and humility, I suggested that she start fucking other guys.  I didn't frame it that way with her, of course...something like she should "date" other guys, but she knew what I meant.

She put up very token resistance.  That told me a lot.  It didn't take her long to bring home a guy.  He happened to be black.  Our agreement was that she would bring home guys, and not hide from me what she is doing.  As he disrobed my wife and stated fondling her right in front of me, I got very jealous, but my dick got very hard.  The more I looked and the more they did, and the more I got jealous, the harder my little dick got.

It was truly an amazing thing watching my wife getting thoroughly fucked by a black man.  She had several earth shattering orgasms, something I was never able to get her to do.  Despite my jealousy, I started leaking cum just from watching and not touching at all, it was so arousing for me. 

Afterwards, she was so thoroughly and satisfactorily fucked that, at his urging, she declared that from then on, she was black cock only.  While I was shocked at that decision, in retrospect I have NO regrets about it at all.  Life is very good for both of us, as well as our black boyfriends.

My wife is gorgeous with big D-cup tits and a very hot body.  Guys LOVE fucking her.  As we live in a mostly black neighborhood, and work with a lot of blacks, there is NO shortage of guys wanting to fuck her.

It is totally awesome.  I wish I had suggest to her we go into this lifestyle even before our wedding.  But I didn't know then what I learned later.

If you are sitting on the fence about whether to propose something similar to your wife or girlfriend, get off the fence and do it.  JUST DO IT!!!!  iF you are afraid she is already cheating, then make it something you BOTH enjoy and stop worrying about it.

 

 

 

 

 

Very nice, I glad that things have worked out for the both of you and are enjoying it. I for one won’t limit my self to just one type or the other even tho I do very much enjoy black men as well. 

[Zetim]

You have right about a lot, but I don't think all beautiful and sexy womans are cheating. Another thing is what this lifstyle is about! No lies, and to be open about things,  no secrets. Sure some men like to know they wife is cheating, and never talk about it. But that is not a real cuckold relationship, is it?  Then the woman is not a part of it, she belive she trick her husband ( boyfriend ). Isn't it much better if the woman can come home and tell the details?

[Naughty Nicki]

My husband doesn’t mind if I play with out prior notice, as long as I tell him afterwards or when I get home. He completely understands not wanting to ruin the heat of the moment and tells me to go with it. But ultimately he’d rather be there.