Not Watching: A follow up question to our earlier question about Watching

[Guest SandL]

2 minutes ago, Hotwife/cuck luvR said:

Cum on, plzzzzzzzzzzz. 😈

Nope

[Naughty Nicki]

2 minutes ago, SandL said:

Nope

Ok then, I guess I’ll just have to turn up the heat a little bit. 😈😈😈. I’m guessing today wasn’t that bad then, so I’ll have to try harder 🤔🤔 😂😂😎

[Guest SandL]

48 minutes ago, Hotwife/cuck luvR said:

Cum on, plzzzzzzzzzzz. 😈

I hope you two are enjoying yourselves 

S 

[Naughty Nicki]

1 minute ago, SandL said:

I hope you two are enjoying yourselves 

S 

We will be 😂🤣😂🤣

[Guest SandL]

4 hours ago, Hotwife/cuck luvR said:

Cum on, plzzzzzzzzzzz. 😈

Not a chance. Ha. 

S 

Have a good night. 

[pflash99]

On 3/20/2019 at 9:04 AM, SandL said:

  

Will that continue with the same force as we make our way through this journey or will it fade or morph into a different kind of excitement altogether. 

Again, I appreciate all responses and will thoughtfully consider all of them. 

S 

Like any relationship, it evolves.  So, this journey will change, slowly, over time.  What excites you should stay pretty consistent, though.  As you guys continue, your comfort level will improve and what gives you anxiety will probably fade.

In the beginning, I let my wife play solo and I felt the anxiety you did.  When I was finally allowed to watch, each time I did, the anxiety dropped.  The three of us got more and more comfortable with each other.  I still get the most enjoyment out of watching, but I feel no anxiety, whatsoever, anymore when she is playing solo.  In fact, I get arousal when I know she's playing solo, just not as much as when I watch.

[Guest SandL]

10 minutes ago, pflash99 said:

Like any relationship, it evolves.  So, this journey will change, slowly, over time.  What excites you should stay pretty consistent, though.  As you guys continue, your comfort level will improve and what gives you anxiety will probably fade.

In the beginning, I let my wife play solo and I felt the anxiety you did.  When I was finally allowed to watch, each time I did, the anxiety dropped.  The three of us got more and more comfortable with each other.  I still get the most enjoyment out of watching, but I feel no anxiety, whatsoever, anymore when she is playing solo.  In fact, I get arousal when I know she's playing solo, just not as much as when I watch.

Thanks. All your responses have been thoughtful and helpful and equally appreciated. Thank you, again. 

Steve

[Naughty Nicki]

15 minutes ago, pflash99 said:

Like any relationship, it evolves.  So, this journey will change, slowly, over time.  What excites you should stay pretty consistent, though.  As you guys continue, your comfort level will improve and what gives you anxiety will probably fade.

In the beginning, I let my wife play solo and I felt the anxiety you did.  When I was finally allowed to watch, each time I did, the anxiety dropped.  The three of us got more and more comfortable with each other.  I still get the most enjoyment out of watching, but I feel no anxiety, whatsoever, anymore when she is playing solo.  In fact, I get arousal when I know she's playing solo, just not as much as when I watch.

Very well explained 

[pflash99]

Like you guys said, pay it forward.  Experience is the best teacher, so if I can share my own experiences to help others, I do.

Don't worry Steve, there are many, many men out there that are like you.  I came out of the closet with it, with my wife, many years ago and I am so glad I did.

Paul

[Guest SandL]

Update: Tonight will be my second time to watch L and her guy. After some healthy conversations following the first time I watched, we should all be much more comofortable and L should be able to feel at ease enough to let loose. Right?? 

[Guest SandL]

Awwwww, you getting excited, baby? 💋 💋 

 

‘Leslie 

[Guest SandL]

Yes dear. Excited to watch the games tonight. What did you think I was talking about? Ha 

 

Steve 

[Guest SandL]

Yeah right! We’ll see won’t we! And tomorrow I’ll write all about it! 😂 

 

Leslie 

[Guest SandL]

Or should I say, you’ll see! 😂 😂 😂 

Leslie 

[Naughty Nicki]

YES!!!!!! Let get this party started. Lol. 

[Naughty Nicki]

I was hoping Mr. buzz kill didn’t ruin this thread.  

[Guest SandL]

17 minutes ago, Hotwife/cuck luvR said:

I was hoping Mr. buzz kill didn’t ruin this thread.  

This is a different thread, but I won’t let disrespectful people who don’t matter to me ruin anything. Leslie was upset but she’s all sunshine and candy today. Thanks to friends like you. 

Steve 

[Naughty Nicki]

Oops, did even notice the thread.  Lol.  I bet she’s as sweet as candy. 😉😘

[Guest SandL]

I am! But there’s only one way to find out  

Leslie 

[Naughty Nicki]

8 minutes ago, SandL said:

I am! But there’s only one way to find out  

Leslie 

Don’t threaten me with a good time 👅👅👅

[Guest SandL]

It’s not even close to being a threat. More like an invitation  

[Naughty Nicki]

Oh “you’re killing me smalls”

[Guest SandL]

I know that movie! 

[Guest SandL]

34 minutes ago, Hotwife/cuck luvR said:

Oops, did even notice the thread.  Lol.  I bet she’s as sweet as candy. 😉😘

I can attest to just how sweet Leslie is! 

Steve 

[secondjag]

There had better be pics!!

23 minutes ago, Hotwife/cuck luvR said:

Don’t threaten me with a good time 👅👅👅