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  1. Lately

    Have you considered wearing those shirts to a swingers club, to start? It would be totally acceptable there and may be a way to build up her nerve. In fact, you may be alone. Not sure where you live or if there are any swingers clubs near you, but my wife and I visit one on the south side of the Denver area. It's called Scarlet Ranch.
  2. Marriage Saved / Cuckold Born

    Thanks icelord, very interesting point of view. I like getting philosophical, so here is my belief: I did date several very nice (prudes) girls before I met my wife. I'm sure they made very good wives for their husbands, they just weren't for me. Interestingly, I knew what I wanted from a very young age. I was born in the south, so there was no shortage of girls raised in bible thumping families. I don't mean to sound like I am knocking religion. I am a believer, just in a different way. When I started dating my current wife, she was raised in a pretty staunch religious family. However, I could tell she had an underlying true self. She had a naughty side that was begging to come out. It wasn't easy, and it took me years to get that naughty side to come out of her, but I finally did. Humans are sexual at birth and we are one of the few species on Earth that has the ability to enjoy sex for non-procreation purposes. There is no other physical experience that compares to sex. Whether you believe in God or not, that is simply how we are designed. Every individual we share that experience with, is different and I truly believe we are meant to share that with more than one person, throughout our lives. I also believe a person can be committed (married) to one, yet still enjoy a physical experience with another without losing their love for the one they are committed to.
  3. Marriage Saved / Cuckold Born

    As an airline pilot, I fly with a lot of different pilots. As a cuckold, I have revealed my cuckold kink to quite a few of them. If they seem very religious or straight-laced, I will keep my personal life to myself, but usually, guys and girls in my profession like to talk about sex. I have gotten mixed responses. Many of the other pilots said they could not allow their wives to have sex with another man, but I have been surprised by how many have said they could and actually share my kink. A few years ago, I flew with a guy, Mike, who had recently discovered his wife was having an affair with, Robert, a lawyer friend of theirs. He was pretty distraught and it definitely sounded like they were heading for a divorce. Mike was obviously trying to vent his anger, but he was also looking to console with someone about his situation. Mike basically went full disclosure with me. He admitted he had cheated, in the past, as well. He told me his wife confessed to the affair, but she loved him and wanted to save their marriage. He told me their sex life was very good and he was actually surprised to find out she had been fucking Robert for almost a year. When his wife gave her teary-eyed confession, she tried to explain to him that the affair was mostly for the sex. She tried to explain to him that she had a huge sexual appetite, and was just lonely when he was gone. She went on to say that Robert was just there to fill the void (so to speak) while he was gone. She said Robert has no intention of ever getting married and was not trying to pull her away from her marriage. When Mike was done explaining his situation to me, he asked if I had any suggestions about what to do. I took a deep breath and told him I was, probably, not a good one to judge their situation. That confused him, so I told him I was not born with the jealousy gene, and although I hadn't been tested yet, I am actually, heavily, turned on by the thought of my wife having sex with other men. Mike was a little stunned by all of this. However, he kept asking me questions, during the whole trip, and I could tell it put him in deep thought. After that trip, Mike and I flew again, together, a few of months later. I asked him if he was still married and how things were going. He grinned and said he was still married and things were actually going very well. Mike seemed a little reluctant to open up, to me again, but he finally did. He told me that he decided to try the cuckold thing, to save his marriage, and so far it's going very well. Mike told me, when he got home from our last trip, he sat down with his wife and told her he wanted to work it out. She burst into tears, hugged him and vowed never to see Robert or anyone else again. Then, Mike dropped the bombshell, lol. As he and his wife hugged and kissed, he grinned at her and said "it's ok if you want to keep seeing Robert". She pulled away with eyes wide and asked "What"? He then told her "as long as you don't leave me, I'm ok with you and Robert having sex". She was quite stunned and speechless, needless to say. At that point, Mike grinned at me and said "I guess I kind of share your kink". I laughed, then said "be careful, it doesn't work for everybody". Mike said it took a while for his wife to accept what he was offering but she finally did. So, I asked him if his wife was back to having sex with Robert. Mike grinned at me and said "yep, she's at his house right now". Mike showed me the texts between he and his wife, and they definitely confirm what he was telling me. Mike and I, now, fly together quite a bit and there situation has evolved over the three years. He is a full-blown cuckold and his wife loves him more and is happier than ever. Mike's wife is infertile, so they have no kids. Mike and Robert are actually very good friends, now, and the three of them are fairly polyamorous. Mike said Robert has not tried to move in and take charge in any way. Robert wants his independence, and he truly is just a very good friend to him and his wife. However, the three of them share each other's houses quite a bit, and the three of them share one bed, now, most of the time. Either at Robert's house, or at their house. Also, the three of them take vacations together. Robert does travel a good bit as well, with his job, but Mike says the three of them sleep together a lot, so his wife gets lots of threesomes, lol. I do ask Mike the real personal questions. So, according to Mike, Robert does have a bigger cock than he does, but his wife still enjoys sex with him every bit as much, if not more, since their new lifestyle started. He said his wife is very spoiled now, lol. Recently, I was able to tell Mike about my wife's experience with my friend and that my wife and I might be converting to a similar lifestyle as theirs. He has a few years of experience on me, so I am picking his brain and using him as an example to my wife. My wife isn't sure about the polyamorous thing, but told me if we find the right guy, she would be willing to give it a try. She has had sex with my friend three times now, and loved it, but he seems to be backing off on his interest, lately.
  4. Shaving the cuckold

    I've been shaving my balls for over 20 years. I did it for the first time when I had my vasectomy. I loved how it felt and have kept them shaven ever since. Beyond that, for all you cucks out there, I would let your wife decide. My wife likes shaved balls and a nicely trimmed pubic patch above the cock. She does not like a fully shaved man, though. I let her decide what hair goes, what hair stays and what hair gets trimmed.
  5. my wife wants to try another guy

    You need to make sure your wife is the type of woman that can have and enjoy casual (nsa) sex with another man. My wife is, but it took years for her to admit that. Not just to me, but even to herself. As expected she asked me, more than once, if I was just looking for permission or felt guilty about something I had done. The answers were no, but it took me quite a while to convince her of that. It surprised the hell out of me when it finally happened, but it did. She had sex with my good friend a few months ago. It actually went very well and my wife is definitely open to doing this again. We had been talking about it for years. She and I met in high school, and she always lived a straight laced life. But she has always had a sex drive that was off the charts and I could tell, deep down, she was a naughty girl. From the beginning, I would see her noticing other guys and she would even flirt with them, right in front of me. That was how I discovered my cuckold fetish. The right guy finally came along. He is a co-worker of mine that was going through a divorce. He is a nice looking guy, very charming and quite fit. He started coming over to our house, so my wife got to know him as well. I could see the sparkle in her eye when he would come around. It got to the point where she would hug him hello and good-by, and if we were sitting at our kitchen table talking, she would sit very close to him. I would see her touch his arm, rest her hand on his thigh, etc. I would also see her looking at his ass and crouch almost constantly. Again, she would do all of this right in front of me. She would tell me how sorry she felt for him, living alone, and told me it was ok for me to invite him over for dinner whenever I wanted. I agreed, but then I gave her his cell number and told her it would probably help if she invited him as well. She took his number, then I grinned at her and told her I was fine with her texting him as much as she wanted. She just grinned back. Finally, one day, He and I were at work. We were talking and joking about sex and I opened up to him about my fetish. I was a little worried how he would react, but I could tell he liked what I was telling him. That night, I told my wife what he and I had talked about at work. She acted pissed, at first, but she had a huge grin on her face the whole time. At the end of our conversation, she didn't agree to anything, but she told me she was curious. The next day he brought up a sex topic and quickly directed our conversation back to my fetish. He was surprised I wanted wanted my wife to fuck another man. He asked me if she or I had another guy in mind and I just grinned at him. He grinned back and chuckled a little then asked "me"? I was nervous as hell, but somehow found the courage to say "yes, I would love for you to fuck my wife". He sat there grinning as he processed what I had just told him. Finally, he looked at me and said "I'll be honest. I think your wife is smoking hot and I would love to fuck her, but I don't want to ruin our friendship". I told him I didn't either, so we can just think about it. He asked if I was going to tell my wife about what we had talked about and I told him yes and that I would let him know what her reaction was. That night, as soon as I got home, my wife asked me, very sarcastically, if I had talked to him again about my fetish. I told her yes. She laughed as asked "what did he say". I told her "he thinks you are smoking hot and would love to have sex with you". She stopped what she was doing, yelled "shit", tried to act pissed, but again, she had a huge grin on her face the whole time. Then, she looked at me, very seriously, and asked "you really want me to have sex with him"? I grinned at her and said "only if you would like to have sex with him as well, because I would never ask you to do something you didn't want to do". She grinned and shook her head. It was very obvious she was thinking about it. At one point, she looked at me and said "I haven't had sex with anyone but you since we've been together". I grinned at her and said "so, you are long over due to feel a different cock inside of you". She laughed and shook her head. That night, we had amazing sex. Afterwards, as we laid next to each other, catching our breath, she said "I have a confession to make". I leaned over towards her, with a big grin on my face, and said "really, what"? She put her hands over her face, and started chuckling. She removed her hands, looked at me and said "I really, really do want to have sex with -----, are you absolutely positive you are ok with it"? I almost cheered in excitement. I told her yes, I was absolutely positive. Then, I told her "try it once, see how it goes, then we will take it from there". She just continued to giggle and shake her head. Several times, she would grin at me and say "I can't believe I am actually thinking about doing this". She asked me if I thought she should require him to wear a condom. I told her that he was fixed and I trusted him that he was clean. She said "good, because you know I hate condoms and I love the feeling of a man's cum inside of me". I asked her if I could tell him that what she told me, tomorrow at work. She chuckled and said "sure, may as well if we are gonna do this". So, I did. When I got to work, he kept looking at me and grinned. I could tell he was curious if she and I had talked. I finally got a chance to talk with him in private. I walked up to him and said "guess what". He just stood there grinning at me. "She admitted to me, last night, that she really, really wants to fuck you". He grinned at me and asked "are you sure you are ok with this"? I told him "absolutely", then told him to start texting her and see what she says. Within a couple of minutes, I got a text from my wife. It was "he's texting me". I made a short reply "rock his world, babe". She replied "ok, I will, lol" He let me read all of their texts as they progressed. Wow, my wife was finally coming out. She and I would often sext each other. She loves to sext very graphically, and now she was doing it with him. She told him the first thing she wanted to do to him was to suck his dick and swallow every drop of his cum. When he showed me that, I just nodded at him and told him "oh, yeah, she loves sucking cock, and swallowing". She told him her favorite position is doggy style because she likes it rough and doggy style will allow him to pound his cock into her really hard. Then she told him she wants him to try to cum in all three of her holes at least once. That text made his eyes get really big. He looked at me and I just chuckled and said "Oh yeah, she's a naughty girl, she's gonna let you do whatever you want to her". It was only about 10 in the morning and I could tell the texts he was getting from my wife was making him extremely horny. I suggested he see if he could leave work early, then ask my wife to meet him at his apartment. Luckily, it was a Friday and people would tend to cut out early anyway. He did. I knew, right away, when he asked my wife to meet him at his apartment, because she texted me. She said "he just invited me to his apartment in about an hour". I replied "I know, I suggested he do that, lol". She replied "lol, I had a feeling you did". Then I replied "you gonna do it"? She replied "hell yes, I want him bad". He grinned at me as he grabbed his stuff. I grinned back at him and whispered "get ready, she's gonna fuck your brains out". He just chuckled and left. The last text I got from my wife was at about noon. She said "last chance to change your mind, I'm almost at his apartment". I replied "go for it, babe. Enjoy and rock his world". I stayed at work most of the day. I figured it would help if I stayed busy. Surprisingly, I wasn't felling any angst or having second thoughts. I was wondering, could they really be doing it or did they chicken out, lol. As I was leaving work, I sent my wife a text. It said "heading home, if it's going well, feel free to stay all night with him". By the time I had gotten home, I still had no reply from her. By about 11pm, she sent me a text. It said "he's asleep". I quickly replied "did you have fun"? She replied "are you kidding? are you sure you wanna know"? I replied "hell yes". She replied "he has a really big dick and he knows how to use it". I replied "awesome, did it feel good? any regrets"? She replied "lol, hell yes and hell no". Then I asked "what are you doing while he's asleep"? She replied "I walked around his apartment for a a bottle of water out of his frig, now I taking a bath in his tub". Then I told her again, to feel free to stay the night with him. She replied "Ok, I think I will, see ya tomorrow". She got home about noon the next day. She took a shower, then, although she was quite sore, we had amazing sex. I was surprised by her mood and attitude. She was as happy as could be. She told me every detail of her night with him. She told me he managed to cum in her about 7 times. They would sleep a little, then fuck, then sleep a little more, then fuck again. He came twice in her stomach, four times in her pussy and once in her butt. To be continued.