Learning

[L’s_Husband]

This is a takeoff from a quote I like by Kant...L thought I should share it. 

“Only when men and women are able to make sexual choices free of stigma will people be honest with their partners about their desires.“ 

This is something that both of us are learning...albeit with very different approaches and attachments. The stigma associated with the wife who is in a sexually-female-led relationship is very different than the husband’s. This is something I’m still learning to be free from and emotionally dissociated with.

While, I’m sure I will never be completely free from the stigma/baggage that comes with this lifestyle and while I’m equally sure I will always wrestle internally with it, I’m also quite certain that this lifestyle creates and has created a place for us to be both verbally and expressively honest about our desires. 

[Guest SandL]

Yay! You’re first real post! You popped your cherry! 😂 

[L’s_Husband]

Uh huh

Steve

[Guest SandL]

You don’t have to sign your name anymore goofball. You have your own account! 😂 

[L’s_Husband]

It’s proper etiquette. 

Steve

[Guest SandL]

Whatever. Sooooooooooooo let’s talk about those desires you want to be freed to enjoy  

[L’s_Husband]

Another time, maybe. 

You know we could just talk about it. You’re sitting across the room from me. Ha

Steve

[Guest SandL]

I know. But this is for others...and for me. And I’ll bet you’re getting hard thinking about me asking you questions on here  

[Guest SandL]

For clarity...what am I wearing, Steve? 

[L’s_Husband]

2 minutes ago, SandL said:

For clarity...what am I wearing, Steve? 

A Carolina Panthers T-shirt. That’s it . Ha

Steve

[Guest SandL]

1 minute ago, L’s_Husband said:

A Carolina Panthers T-shirt. That’s it . Ha

Steve

And your wearing a Montana tee shirt  

[Guest SandL]

What did we do last night? 

[Guest SandL]

Ok ok I’ll stop 

 

 

 

this time  

[DomBull4U]

Leslie...please don't. Don't stop!

[Guest SandL]

Takes two to tango ☹️

[Guest SandL]

One of the beauties of having separate accounts now is this: 

[Guest SandL]

😂 

[L’s_Husband]

That wasn’t me. I think you hacked into my account. 

Steve

[Guest SandL]

Whatever perv! It was too you! And i love you for it!!!!! 

So since you’re so into looking at interracial cuckold stuff...why don’t we go back to Sunday night  

[L’s_Husband]

You’re so needy today 

Steve 

[Guest SandL]

2 minutes ago, L’s_Husband said:

You’re so needy today 

Steve 

I’ll admit it that sex and talking about sex and playing with you and that others can read it turns me on. Can you? 

[L’s_Husband]

The first 3, yes. The last one no. 

Steve 

[Guest SandL]

 

Just now, L’s_Husband said:

The first 3, yes. The last one no. 

Steve 

Huh? 

[L’s_Husband]

2 minutes ago, SandL said:

I’ll admit it that sex and talking about sex and playing with you and that others can read it turns me on. Can you? 

Sex + talking about sex + playing with you = 3

Steve 

[Guest SandL]

Ohhhhhhh. No need to get all uppity about it! 😂