Setting Wife Up For Seduction

[Guest lilwhtdick61]

Please tell me of different ways that have been winners for this.  My wife needs good dicking really bad.

[trevn]

I tried to do this once for my wife.  I placed an ad in CraigsList.  I grabbed a screen shot of the ad, but can't seem to find it now.  However, the ad basic was basically soliciting help seducing my wife.  I included a full-length, dressed pic of my wife with her eyes and nose blocked.  I received approximately 200 responses and eliminated all but 5 through subsequent e-mail discussions or immediate dismissal.  The ultimate problem for me was coming up with a way for the guy to meet her out in public in an environment that would give them a chance for success.  My wife isn't out in the world enough socially.  She's always running errands or doing stuff with the kids instead of out with friends or just out to be out.  I'll be monitoring this thread for some fresh ideas.  Thanks for the post! 

[Tightslider]

I'm in the same boat. She does have some time during the days to go out and about but she is selective on where she is going. I've been thinking of this exact thing. Nervous because what if the guys says I put him up to it or ruins it just for being an asshole. It might open it up, or close it down forever.

[licker81000]

You used to live in Rhode Island?

[trevn]

I had similar concerns as TightSlider.  I would try to pick up on that little vibe in the tone of the potential seducer's writing that would hint at how patient he might be.  Nevertheless, there was always a worry that my involvement would be revealed.  I feared my wife's response would anger the seducer into revealing me or that he would reveal me for his own purpose.  Ultimately a chance, however large or small, will have to be taken.  But that doesn't mean you shouldn't be cautious.  The ideal seducer would be a trusted, handsome friend with a perversion equal to my own making him a dedicated and persistent ally.  Unfortunately I have no such friend, at least not that I'm aware of. 

[Guest lilwhtdick61]

Ok I understand. She is 62yr young 5'3" 36c 135lbs and is at the gym everyday keeping things in shape.  She dresses sexier than she has in the past.  She gets hit on often by both white guys and blacks.  I love seeing guys hit on her and she loves the attention.  We like casinos and its great to just walk around and come back to see a guy talking her up at the machines.  She loves too dance and has danced with some white guys, but has never taken a black guy up on his offer to dance.  We roleplay with her dildos all the time.  She enjoys them and cums hard on them.  Does not cum at all with my cock.  But her ass comes alive when I do her with her dildos.  I don't know how to post pics on here but will send them to you by email.  [email protected]

[1m4somefun]

Hello all,

I have seduced a few wives in the past and open to do this again. There are some basics as I see it from my experience only...

It takes a long time.

It has to be built on trust, the foundation to make it happen.

The steps involved are more with the Hubby and I to build a friendship first then she can be introduced into the process.

If interested you may contact me at:

[email protected]

K

[hunc]

Please tell me of different ways that have been winners for this.  My wife needs good dicking really bad.

Other people also share this picture of an ass as their wife's. For example samjake user.

Fakers.....

[Joys]

I've been thinking about this for some time too.

Since long, I have been trying to convince her to sexually enjoy others. She is somewhat convinced but still maybe too scared, maybe too shy, maybe too inhibited to take the plunge.

She is not a person to be forced or tricked into something, that would backfire. She must be persuaded. So far, I persuaded her to cam with guys (sexual - but only when with me), going out with somewhat sexy attire with no underwear, flashing a little (some pics in my thread) and the furthest we've gone was same room but same spouse sex with another couple.

She has expressed to me that if it ever happened, it would never be with any local people - being afraid of they might be pestering (the couple were foreigners). Now that is quite a hindrance I have to overcome. It is definite for us both that such thing will not happen with any current friend. So, I've been thinking, maybe someone I know online could help, slowly and gently seducing her. It might place thoughts in her, now that I'm being away from home for long terms and that she knows I am more than fine with this. The problem is:

1) Like trevn here, she is not out in the world enough socially; at work or with the kids.

2) If my involvement would be revealed, it would put an end to it all.

 

So I'm thinking, I'd first meet with the guy face to face and if he is trustable we'd sort out a plan. I'd introduce him to her as a friend somewhere outside and make up a reason for her to give her phone no to him. Then, he'd take it from there.

 

The problem of how to find such a trustable person she'd be fond of and how to be sure he can be trusted still stands. Of course, the best and easiest for her first time would be another couple whose fem side would seduce her to be with her man. She'd be up for that but you don't come across such everyday in your life

[1m4somefun]

See my earlier post Joys... I am willing to help out,

Kevin

[Joys]

See my earlier post Joys... I am willing to help out,

Kevin

Thanks Kevin, but what about the location?

[1m4somefun]

Where are you located ?

Holland here but can and do travel frequently...

Kevin

[Joys]

 

Where are you located ?

Holland here but can and do travel frequently...

Kevin

 

Says "Location: Turkey" Under my profile pic

[justpete]

So I'm thinking, I'd first meet with the guy face to face and if he is trustable we'd sort out a plan. I'd introduce him to her as a friend somewhere outside and make up a reason for her to give her phone no to him. Then, he'd take it from there.

 

 

i think this is a good way to get the ball rollin'. maybe invite him to a couple of outing with you and the wife so she can get comfortable in his presence. they should become acquainted with each other and then become "friendlier" as time goes on. ask her what she thinks of him- as a person. if you get positive reception from her, start inviting this fellow more often. she may soon get more drawn to him. at this point, you begin to step away from time to time... let them have their own conversations. fake a ruse like going out for that bottle of wine that you forgot for tonight's dinner, letting them have some "alone time." that's when it happens- attraction. it grows, then turns to lust. i'm willing to bet, she'd be more than receptive after letting this thing play out in a more natural manner. 

 

how's that Deep Purple song go... 'It's not the KILL it's the thrill of the CHASE" indeed, it is.

[Joys]

 

i think this is a good way to get the ball rollin'. maybe invite him to a couple of outing with you and the wife so she can get comfortable in his presence. they should become acquainted with each other and then become "friendlier" as time goes on. ask her what she thinks of him- as a person. if you get positive reception from her, start inviting this fellow more often. she may soon get more drawn to him. at this point, you begin to step away from time to time... let them have their own conversations. fake a ruse like going out for that bottle of wine that you forgot for tonight's dinner, letting them have some "alone time." that's when it happens- attraction. it grows, then turns to lust. i'm willing to bet, she'd be more than receptive after letting this thing play out in a more natural manner. 

 

how's that Deep Purple song go... 'It's not the KILL it's the thrill of the CHASE" indeed, it is.

That's good advice pete. If there is a positive reception from her, it is likely for them to have some "alone time" as I am mostly away from home

[Joys]

Well, she doesn't really like to go out leaving kids at home, even when they're with grandparents, she prefers to stay home although I tell her to. That's another hindrance. That's why I was thinking of introducing her with a guy and he could try to overcome that hindrance when I'm away

[justpete]

That's why I was thinking of introducing her with a guy and he could try to overcome that hindrance when I'm away 

 

 

that's one lucky SOB to get some "alone time" with your gorgeous wifey. 

[Joys]

that's one lucky SOB to get some "alone time" with your gorgeous wifey. 

LOL... Now need to spot that lucky SOB

[Zen83]

I am just going through something similar right now...wife is sexy and doesn't socialise enough, and even when I found someone online that would be willing to seduce her there is always the trust issue with the risk of him exposing the full plot and planning from our part putting the marriage in jeopardy.

Pete shared some great advice above in actually meeting the bull, but what nobody's mentioned yet here is the groundwork the hubby ( us in this case) must put in.

We should work on the actual relationship and make our wives feel sexy and fully trust you. We gotta do all those little things that make a relationship work first and learn to leverage it at the right moment...

I am rethinking my entire approach to this situation and actually working my case to make things happen...will share more details if anyone is interested...

Oh don't forget to leave a comment for my sexy wife in the showcase forum

[Joys]

I am just going through something similar right now...wife is sexy and doesn't socialise enough, and even when I found someone online that would be willing to seduce her there is always the trust issue with the risk of him exposing the full plot and planning from our part putting the marriage in jeopardy.

Pete shared some great advice above in actually meeting the bull, but what nobody's mentioned yet here is the groundwork the hubby ( us in this case) must put in.

LWe should work on the actual relationship and make our wives feel sexy and fully trust you. We gotta do all those little things that make a relationship work first and learn to leverage it at the right moment...

I am rethinking my entire approach to this situation and actually working my case to make things happen...will share more details if anyone is interested...

Oh don't forget to leave a comment for my sexy wife in the showcase forum

 

Yes please do share more details Zen. Would love to get all the ideas.

Such a beautiful wife there btw

 

[Zen83]

Hey Joys,

Thanks for the interest there:)

I am working on my method which works like magic by the way and I get great results with my wife and picking up women, specifically the married ones....now I am twisting it in order to get my wife to willingly give herself away to strangers.

No push. No stress. Just her wanting to be used by other men and actually follow through..

[robert smith]

This was how I set up first time for my wife.   I was at a business seminar and met a guy through a mutual friend. His name was Eric .We all went our for happy hour drinks and I got him aside and asked him if he wanted to have some fun with my girlfriend. I showed him a polaroid photo of her and explained that I wanted to watch her get fucked and participate at the same time.  He was willing and I set up at meet for the following night after our seminar.

   When I told Elaine she started getting nervous about how to actually do this as she had never actually screwed more that one man at the same time.  I suggested her meeting him at the door in lingerie, but that was way to aggressive for her.  Since she had never met him we agreed we would invite him over for drinks and munchies.  If she liked him and was willing to try she would invite him to the bedroom.  She wanted to start alone with him and see how things went.  I told her after some kissing and fondling she should know if it was going to work.  If she wanted to back out I suggested she give him a blowjob to completion as a reward for coming over and trying.  If she wanted to go through with complete sex she would signal or invite me in the bedroom.

   Elaine wore garters and hose, no panties, under a front button summer dress.  Everybody seemed to get along when he arrived.  Elaine seemed hesitant to ask him to the bedroom. Eric excused himself to use the bathroom and I checked with her to see if she was still up for it and she said yes but just did not know how to bring up the subject. When he came back I simply asked him if he would like to take my lovely girl to bed.  He said sure and off they went leaving me nervous and hoping for the best.  They left the door partially open and I could hear idle chit chat for a couple of minutes, then the talking stopped.  After several more minutes I slowly opened the door to see Elaine on her back and Eric's head buried under her dress. She smiled and waved me in and the party started.  You car read the rest of it the Cuckold Stories section in thread titled Elaine's first time

[Zen83]

Quick update

OK guys I was chatting with someone and here is a quick update, cuckold wannabes this is for you...

"<Finding someone to fuck a woman will never ever be a challenge. But finding someone who will understand the emotional plot and actually pull it off with you is a totally different game.

The biggest chunk of the problem though falls onto the hubby wannabe in my opinion. That is the reason why I wrote the post. No-one ever say anything about this.

It is actually the hubby's role and responsibility to step it up one level and put in enough effort to make things happen.

9 out of 10 completely miss this point hoping that they will get lucky one day, or blame the other side (... My wife is like this...or the bulls are like that...)

A hubby that gives the wife the necessary emotional satisfaction and security will imply enough emotional trust for the wife to take another man in her life.

The mismatch of the cuckold comes from how we are wired in the brains. For the hubby is about watching/knowing his wife is being physically used and then he can deal with all intense emotional roller-coaster later...is about getting her fucked.

For the wife though it's only all about the emotional spin first and foremost.

Women are genetically built to breed for multiple alpha males but are socially and emotionally repressed by common values and beliefs( and so many other things...skip the long speech). They want to do it but they are emotionally confused about it (and will rarely admit it to the hubby in case it is all a test of loyalty).

Until they feel emotionally at ease and nurtured by the hubby's behaviour and communication the wife won't generally agree to a cuckolding situation. Specially when there is a family (kids) involved.

The big mismatch is actually in how men and women think and how they process feelings.

So the real power for this to work is actually with the cuckold wannabe. When the hubby will improve his communication skills the magic will happen and the wife will love you even more because you are able to fulfill her true biological needs and give her the emotional trust to expand her world.>"

OK guys that's the core principle to deal with. I am working towards a fully consensual cuckold marriage, and cheating the wife into this won't really work for everyone.

I want her to look at me and tell me she wants another man inside her and then make herself available for the takers.

I want her to know that I support her decision and don't regret anything on either side.

We don't own our wives. What we own is the mutual respect, trust and shared emotional content aka the relationship.

Regaining control of the relationship is the first step to getting your sweet love in bed with other happy men.

Hope this will help...

[Zen83]

Just so we don't end up with weird misunderstandings, I don't make the news. I just report them. You don't have to take my word for it, do your homework and see for yourself guys. This stuff is for real and we can use it to enhance our relationships.

My target here is to help my wife to willingly end up like this...

Possibly marked with a tattoo of ownership...

[Joys]

That's nice advice Zen83.

I also want her to look at me and tell me she wants another man inside her and then make herself available for the takers. I have already made her know that I support her decision and don't regret anything on either side.