Quick update
OK guys I was chatting with someone and here is a quick update, cuckold wannabes this is for you...
"<Finding someone to fuck a woman will never ever be a challenge. But finding someone who will understand the emotional plot and actually pull it off with you is a totally different game.
The biggest chunk of the problem though falls onto the hubby wannabe in my opinion. That is the reason why I wrote the post. No-one ever say anything about this.
It is actually the hubby's role and responsibility to step it up one level and put in enough effort to make things happen.
9 out of 10 completely miss this point hoping that they will get lucky one day, or blame the other side (... My wife is like this...or the bulls are like that...)
A hubby that gives the wife the necessary emotional satisfaction and security will imply enough emotional trust for the wife to take another man in her life.
The mismatch of the cuckold comes from how we are wired in the brains. For the hubby is about watching/knowing his wife is being physically used and then he can deal with all intense emotional roller-coaster later...is about getting her fucked.
For the wife though it's only all about the emotional spin first and foremost.
Women are genetically built to breed for multiple alpha males but are socially and emotionally repressed by common values and beliefs( and so many other things...skip the long speech). They want to do it but they are emotionally confused about it (and will rarely admit it to the hubby in case it is all a test of loyalty).
Until they feel emotionally at ease and nurtured by the hubby's behaviour and communication the wife won't generally agree to a cuckolding situation. Specially when there is a family (kids) involved.
The big mismatch is actually in how men and women think and how they process feelings.
So the real power for this to work is actually with the cuckold wannabe. When the hubby will improve his communication skills the magic will happen and the wife will love you even more because you are able to fulfill her true biological needs and give her the emotional trust to expand her world.>"
OK guys that's the core principle to deal with. I am working towards a fully consensual cuckold marriage, and cheating the wife into this won't really work for everyone.
I want her to look at me and tell me she wants another man inside her and then make herself available for the takers.
I want her to know that I support her decision and don't regret anything on either side.
We don't own our wives. What we own is the mutual respect, trust and shared emotional content aka the relationship.
Regaining control of the relationship is the first step to getting your sweet love in bed with other happy men.
Hope this will help...