I fail to understand how any human could do this 24/7/365. For one thing most of society is not going to allow it. So both human’s jobs would be at jeopardy of caught or outed, vanilla friends would go away! I attended a meting of a BDSM in Abilene Texas. I thought it strange how one man cowered to his wife only talked when she said he could, FEM DOM. But at the little league game where the child or grandchild or friend’s child, NO I would think. It would be akin to running around naked going into the park to jack off where children play! His boss or company or customers discover this fetish and he is vice president of the company. She is marked advertisement and these markings are from photos visible for all to see. This fetish has made CNN Cuck this and Cuck that in the vocabulary. She say is a professor at Abilene Christian University or someplace like that same for him GOODBYE JOB GOODBY TENURE and the world knows! BOB CRANE Hogan's Heroes there is a movie about his life Auto focus. In one scene he is asking his manager to find him work again, His manager says he would have to assure hollywood directors that he changed "NO LONGER DID THE SEX THING" Bob Crane said i have changed. His manager told him a drunk does not get sober hanging with his old drinking buddies. This suggest he could not see the people into swinging scene and work in hollywood GO FIGURE ON THAT! But this will get me tossed off of this site for just asking this as I see it a sane question. I do know BDSM folks and swingers do not go around ADVERTISING most of their things say DISCRET .