Lifestyle Updates

[subsucko]

I used to be extremely active in this forum and conversed with many of here but the last few years have been a roller coaster. So, I guess it’s time for an update  

In 2017 my wife began a romanitic relationship with our boyfriend. The thre of us became an item with her as the center. That year I sent them on a vacation together something now I do once a year. Not long after that we found out she was pregnant and in early may of 2018 we had our first. 
 

The next two years were a mess of figuring out dynamics within the household. Our boyfriend would come around more frequently and I would be left to taken care of the baby.
 

During that time our dynamic in the bed room changed as well. My wife became more and more dominant (our bf always was so no changes there) and I became more and more submissive. 
 

2019 was more leaning into the FLR aspect for me, I was given tasks to accomplish throughout the day and once she started going out regularly I stayed home.

and of course the year everyone hates, 2020. Well guess what, we had a quarantine baby. This caused us to get tested and turns out I’m sterile. The first few weeks of that was hard to process, a lot of confusion but in the end the three of us got stronger. 
 

Not sure if it was just the pregnancy hormones or what but my wife became aggressively dominant and really tapping into my latent bisexuality. First began with pegging and finally taking our bf. I also spent most of 2020 locked and had sex maybe twice. 
 

After the baby things began to achieve a bit more normalcy. I’m still submissive but I do get to have sex now. I stay caged and pantied most of the time. For my birthday this year I was surprised with a threesome with her and a girl she fools around with. Lucky for me I clicked with her. My first woman in ten years, didn’t last long the first time. 
 

other things that have happened are a few gang bangs, countless trips to the swingers club, a few trains bareback and now we have talked about one more baby and then getting tubes tied. 
 

This a brief look at the last few years and hopefully now I have it together enough to share more. 

 

[Cuckold Collector]

Thanks so much for sharing. Indeed a roller coaster ride, which could have ended up worse. A buddy of mine ended up in a threesome with his wife and another lady who was bi and Domme to his wife largely (and after a while she and then his wife were addicted to BBC, which he wasn't). After less than a year she left him, moved in with the Domme, she ended up as a paid escort on the side, got into BDSM as a sex slave, and hitting all the swingers clubs with her Domme. 

thanks again for sharing ...

[Naughty Nicki]

Wow, talking about a rollercoaster ride of emotions  I hope now that the dust has settled some I was happy with her new roles in a relationship. 

[subsucko]

On 5/10/2022 at 5:02 PM, Cuckold Collector said:

Thanks so much for sharing. Indeed a roller coaster ride, which could have ended up worse. A buddy of mine ended up in a threesome with his wife and another lady who was bi and Domme to his wife largely (and after a while she and then his wife were addicted to BBC, which he wasn't). After less than a year she left him, moved in with the Domme, she ended up as a paid escort on the side, got into BDSM as a sex slave, and hitting all the swingers clubs with her Domme. 

thanks again for sharing ...

Thank you for reading! But that does suck! A few of our friends know about our relationship and at first they wondered if we were worried about something like that happening. Of course that’s a possibility but it’s also a possibility in a traditional relationship. But I hope your friend has found a relationship now that he can be happy in! 

[subsucko]

On 5/10/2022 at 6:08 PM, Naughty Nicki said:

Wow, talking about a rollercoaster ride of emotions  I hope now that the dust has settled some I was happy with her new roles in a relationship. 

I feel like life is a rollercoaster, you just gotta ride it all night long. That’s how the song goes right? Jk. But in all seriousness things are amazing, we’ve never been happier and are looking forward to whatever the future brings! 

[Naughty Nicki]

You know what they say about the lifestyle... it’s the women’s roller coaster the guys are just along for the ride.   Lol.   Jk.  
  In all seriousness I am truly glad that everyone is happy 

[mastermind2009]

1 minute ago, Naughty Nicki said:

You know what they say about the lifestyle... it’s the women’s roller coaster the guys are just along for the ride.   Lol.   Jk.  
  In all seriousness I am truly glad that everyone is happy 

Absolutely correct. It is indeed women's roller coaster where the guys are just along for the ride. And it does bring new excitements and experiences for cucks.

[subsucko]

2 hours ago, Naughty Nicki said:

You know what they say about the lifestyle... it’s the women’s roller coaster the guys are just along for the ride.   Lol.   Jk.  
  In all seriousness I am truly glad that everyone is happy 

Honestly that’s pretty much the truth of it. I remember when we first started dating, there was something about swingers on tv and the consensus among the people interviewed was, “men get women in the door but it’s the women that keep them coming back to the club”. Thirteen years later and that still rings true. 

[Naughty Nicki]

1 hour ago, subsucko said:

Honestly that’s pretty much the truth of it. I remember when we first started dating, there was something about swingers on tv and the consensus among the people interviewed was, “men get women in the door but it’s the women that keep them coming back to the club”. Thirteen years later and that still rings true. 

I’ve heard that one to be completely accurate too.