Conditioning or just Fun?????

[Naughty Nicki]

49 minutes ago, SandL said:

Training?? I prefer the word seducing . Training or conditioning sounds very manipulative and sort of portrays the idea that this is just for my benefit. Steve has free will and can make his own decisions about things...including sex. And I want him to make his own decisions about what he most wants and desires. The problem for Steve is that he hides what he most wants and desires because of what he thinks others will think about him...mainly me! So for his sake, and mine, I seduce him into telling me what he really wants and if it lines up with what I want...then I give it to him . 

Stay tuned...I think I’ll have a fun new chapter for you to read this weekend! 

I absolutely love the way you look and act upon things. You are completely right in thinking about what Steve wants and needs, the more you nurture them, the more he’ll want you to do. It definitely a give and take. 

[Guest SandL]

1 minute ago, Hotwife/cuck luvR said:

I absolutely love the way you look and act upon things. You are completely right in thinking about what Steve wants and needs, the more you nurture them, the more he’ll want you to do. It definitely a give and take. 

Well, I’ve learned from the best! That’s you, btw 💋 💋 

[Naughty Nicki]

1 minute ago, SandL said:

Well, I’ve learned from the best! That’s you, btw 💋 💋 

Aw young grass hopper, you learn well.  Lol. 💋💋💋

[Guest SandL]

Just now, Hotwife/cuck luvR said:

Aw young grass hopper, you learn well.  Lol. 💋💋💋

😂 yes Master! 💋 💋 💋 💋 

[Naughty Nicki]

3 minutes ago, SandL said:

😂 yes Master! 💋 💋 💋 💋 

😊🤫😉😂🤣😜👅👅💋💋

[Naughty Nicki]

14 minutes ago, SandL said:

😂 yes Master! 💋 💋 💋 💋 

Don’t make me spank that ass. 😂

[Guest SandL]

1 minute ago, Hotwife/cuck luvR said:

Don’t make me spank that ass. 😂

Don’t tease me! Wiggle wiggle  

[Naughty Nicki]

Oh I’d let mark do it so I could kiss it and rub it out 

[Guest SandL]

You’re the sweetest!  Tell Mark I’m ready 😂 

[Naughty Nicki]

Oh I’m sure he’d love to have you assume the position just like this. lol. 😜

[Kaktuscpl]

such a lovely position ...Wait what were talking about...LOL

[Guest SandL]

8 minutes ago, Hotwife/cuck luvR said:

Oh I’m sure he’d love to have you assume the position just like this. lol. 😜

Love love love!!!!! 

[Guest SandL]

4 minutes ago, Kaktuscpl said:

such a lovely position ...Wait what were talking about...LOL

Ummmmm Mark spanking me and Nicole kissing where I feel the sting  

[secondjag]

5 hours ago, Hotwife/cuck luvR said:

Oh I’m sure he’d love to have you assume the position just like this. lol. 😜

now you know what that pic does to me; boing!

[athlete951]

On 4/10/2019 at 9:32 AM, SandL said:

Training?? I prefer the word seducing . Training or conditioning sounds very manipulative and sort of portrays the idea that this is just for my benefit. Steve has free will and can make his own decisions about things...including sex. And I want him to make his own decisions about what he most wants and desires. The problem for Steve is that he hides what he most wants and desires because of what he thinks others will think about him...mainly me! So for his sake, and mine, I seduce him into telling me what he really wants and if it lines up with what I want...then I give it to him . 

Stay tuned...I think I’ll have a fun new chapter for you to read this weekend! 

Hey L,

Great thread.  Understanding the physiological aspects of the lifestyle have always been part of the fascination for me.  What motivates the couples as a collective and as individuals.  Same goes for bulls.

It may be my personal training background, but I've never seen or used the term "training" as a negative.  When I "train" a couple, I'm not forcing them to do anything, which is the same physical fitness training, where I am not forcing a client to do anything.  Instead I am using my experience to help provide options and guidance in a safe, comfortable environment.  I then pay close attention to how they react and respond to the experimentation, both verbally and physically.  I use that feedback to continue to help them experiment in areas where I find they have desires, while not pushing too far in areas where they don't.  I give them the encouragement and opportunity to explore their desires, even if they weren't sure they had those desires to begin with.

For example, with cucks I may bring up the idea of them learning to clean their wives.  I discuss the idea with them and how my previous cucks explored that aspect.  Sometimes this is with the wives, but sometimes it is in private if I think the cucks are more comfortable discussing it with me one on one.  I may then show them some porn with cucks cleaning to help them visualize the experience.  I will also finish inside of the wives and then have them spread their legs for their husbands when I am done.  I'll encourage them to see how sexy and beautiful her pussy looks when it is swollen, wet, and my cum is dripping out of it.  When I feel the time is right, I will encourage them to take that next step.

In that case, I've "trained" the husband to do something, but it was never forced.  I introduced an idea to him, helped him consider it, encouraged him, and then provided the right opportunity to experience it.  Whether that is training, conditioning, seduction, or just fun, I am not sure...but the end result is definitely fun for sure.

Eric