interesting survey

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[Klingon79]

On ‎8‎/‎14‎/‎2019 at 12:15 PM, secondjag said:

Someone just sent me this; take a look:

 

 

 

 

 

 

Survey - Getting to Know the Cuckold

In April of 201a survey was conducted (using SurveyMonkey.com tools) which was intended to gather data on men who self-identified as cuckolds. This survey ran for 8 weeks and was advertised on my website, on fff, via Twitter and on specific Cuckolding websites such as Jinxypie.com and Hotwifelife.com. The response rate was excellent, with 486 men participating from all over the world. And while a multitude of countries were represented, just over half of majority of those who participated lived in the United States.

The intention of doing this work was to contribute to the body of knowledge on the practice of Cuckolding and to determine if there are any common characteristics shared by men who are attracted to this lifestyle. To ensure the questions accurately targeted the real-life experiences of cuckolds, I constructed this survey in consultation with Steve, an American who has been previously been a cuckold himself. While he does not live as a cuckold in his current relationship, it remains an ongoing source of arousal for him and his advice on the type of questions that are relevant to an erotic interest in Cuckolding were of great value.

In a Cuckolding relationship the wife has sex outside of her marriage with her husband’s knowledge, while he remains faithful to her. The husband is known as a cuckold or cuck for short and he does not take lovers himself, instead his sexual pleasure and gratification is derived from the existence of his partner’s relationships. There are all sorts of variations in how these relationships operate and what involvement the husband may have, ranging from simply hearing about it from his wife, to input in the selection of her lovers, helping her prepare for a date, watching during sex, participating as directed, or by providing some type of sexual service to the wife and her lover.

According to the results of this survey, the so-called ‘typical’ cuckold is a very well-educated, white man in his thirties or forties who lives in the United States. He earns well above the average wage and is most likely to be in a long term relationship or first marriage. He does not have self esteem issues and considers himself an alpha male with an average sized penis. Despite that, he enjoys being sexual humiliated and in particular may enjoy penis humiliation. He is most commonly sexually submissive to his wife and he enjoys the loss of control and responsibility being in this space offers. His enjoyment in loss of agency and control is fulfilled by having little or no choice in how his wife expresses herself sexually.
He is likely to have been initially drawn to Cuckolding by arousal experienced at the idea of his wife having sex with another man, and his lust and passion for his wife is increased after she has been with another man, a response say researchers into the male brain caused by the stimulation of mating hormones.

He is also most likely to be bisexual or at least bi-curious, whether he articulates that to his partner or not.
Cuckolds report having sex with their wives in roughly the same number as the population surveyed in the Kinsey Reports, which is at odds with a general perception that they are denied marital sex. However they consider themselves to need more mental, visual and aural stimulation than other men and say they enjoy masturbation and fantasy more than actual sex.

AGE

Cuckolds who responded to this survey were fairly widely and evenly spread across all age groups. The largest number were found in the 30-49 year bracket and either side of this, men 50-60 years old and men 21-29 years old, were to be found in roughly equal numbers.

ETHNICITY AND NATIONALITY

There was a large gap numbers-wise to the second highest nationality represented, with Britain and Canada tying at 6%, followed by the Germans in third place at 4%. The table below goes down to a 0.4% representation, and a diverse range of nationalities were present under this figure, but the numbers were too low to register any significant value. Some of those countries included in small numbers were Estonia, Poland, Turkey, Portugal, Norway and Scotland.

EDUCATION

Men who identified as cuckolds in this survey were well educated. For example, a total of 83% of respondents had some form of college/university education and 19.5% of those had completed post graduate studies such as an MBA or PhD.

INCOME

Reported income levels tended to be fairly high (Given the average American wage is said to be around $35,000), with 48.8% of the men earning over US$50,000 per annum and just over one third, at 30.6%, earning over US$100,000.

INDUSTRY SECTOR

47.3% of the men were employed in the white collar (private or government) sector, which explains the high income levels. The other sectors were all represented, but in much low numbers and the number of men who were retired, students or unemployed were extremely low.

RELATIONSHIPS

Unsurprisingly, given that a Cuckolding relationship is based on the existence of a primary traditional husband/wife dynamic, 87.3% of the men were living with their significant others and a majority of 77% were married.

How Long in Current Relationship

Cuckolding relationships appeared to be durable and long term, as most of the men were in them for 11 plus years. The second highest number of cuckolds were in the group married 0-5 years, so we might assume that there is space and time for the couples to partake in cuckolding early in the relationship—say before c***dren come along—and then again later after have and are raising young c***dren, perhaps explaining why the lowest number of cuckolds were in relationships of a 6-10 year duration.

Most of the cuckolds were in their first marriage and close to a third were in their second marriage.

We were interested to know if cuckolding was present in the men’s previous relationships, however for the majority, their current Cuckolding relationship is their first. If you take into account that many are in long term relationships with their partners, this would confirm 9.3.3% agreeing with the statement: Happy and successful Cuckolding couples are able to separate love from sexual desire. Nearly one third (25%) of practicing cuckolds have been in a previous Cuckold relationship, so for these men it is likely an openness to the possibility of Cuckolding was a factor when seeking a prospective new long-term partner.

THE PRIVATE CUCKOLD SELF

Asked to choose a response to this statement: “I’m an alpha male and I enjoy the loss of control that Cuckolding gives me,” 64% gave a positive response, making comments about how Cuckolding offered a way to take a step out of how they usually lived their lives and how it temporarily released them from a position of control:

Being temporarily absolved from responsibility, for my performance, for her pleasure, in fact having no control even if I wanted it, is incredibly freeing.

I like the idea of having no choice, from being the guy always in charge to being the guy who is told to lick the other guy’s jizz, it freaks me out and excites me.

Allowing others to make decisions for a while is relaxing.

I love giving the gift of male sexual dominance to my wife.

Not having a choice in their partner’s behavior was rated as exciting by 65.7% of respondents. As cuckold Steve explains, this is also tied in with the humiliation factor that many cuckolds crave.

76.2% of the men described themselves as sexually submissive with their wives and a further 15%, while not submissive, found the idea attractive. Only 8.8% had no interest in being sexually submissive. Some comments made included:

It gives me a freedom I don’t have when I’m expected to be sexually dominant.

We both enjoy being submissive, so we try to take turns with each other.

I like the loss of choice.

Are you sexually submissive with your wife?

65% said their partners tended to be dominant in all aspects of the relationship, and when asked the question: “Do feel inferior to your wife?” exactly half said they did not feel inferior on any level to their female partners, while the other 50% considered themselves inferior to their wives in some fashion. Given the submissive nature of Cuckolding, it would be a fair guess that the men who do not consider themselves inferior consciously chose a role of inferiority/submission as part of their sexual persona, and are not victims of circumstance.

Taking into account the high percentage of men who consider themselves alpha males, it is probably not surprising that only 8% nominated themselves as intellectually inferior. My fellow researcher, cuckold Steve suggests that the 20% who nominated being physically inferior would be alluding to their genitals and not to their physical stature. If you take into account that 36% of the men said they were attracted to Cuckolding because they perceived themselves as having a small penis, coupled with the fact that sexual humiliation was nominated as attractive to 55% of respondents, this would seem like a fair assumption

The Cuckold’s Sex Life

Based on the responses I recorded, cuckolds have regular sex with their partners in proportion to population averages as rated by the Kinsey Institute. While figures do vary widely according to which reports are consulted, I have chosen to compare my data to that collected by the respected research body, The Kinsey Institute (www.kinseyinstitute.org.)
Using the Kinsey data for comparative purposes, I averaged the number of married men aged between 25—69 who were tabled as not having had sex in the past year and arrived at a figure of 20.7%. There is a perception that cuckolds do not have sex with their wives, however when you compare this to the figure of 19.8% reported by the cuckolds in this survey, there is not a big differentiation between the general population and cuckold men. Similarly, 38.8% of married men between the ages of 24—69 in the Kinsey data had sex a few times per month to weekly and this correlates fairly closely to the 45.1% who said they had sex 1-3 times per month in this survey group.

The Cuckold’s Sex Life

Based on the responses I recorded, cuckolds have regular sex with their partners in proportion to population averages as rated by the Kinsey Institute. While figures do vary widely according to which reports are consulted, I have chosen to compare my data to that collected by the respected research body, The Kinsey Institute (www.kinseyinstitute.org.)
Using the Kinsey data for comparative purposes, I averaged the number of married men aged between 25—69 who were tabled as not having had sex in the past year and arrived at a figure of 20.7%. There is a perception that cuckolds do not have sex with their wives, however when you compare this to the figure of 19.8% reported by the cuckolds in this survey, there is not a big differentiation between the general population and cuckold men. Similarly, 38.8% of married men between the ages of 24—69 in the Kinsey data had sex a few times per month to weekly and this correlates fairly closely to the 45.1% who said they had sex 1-3 times per month in this survey group.

Over half the men supported the statement that a Cuckoldress should practice sexual denial with her husband and this supports a theory that loss of control and agency make the idea of Cuckolding attractive to many cuckolds. As well, anecdotally another reason men who are drawn to Cuckolding support sexual denial is because they believe or want to believe that that they are not able to sexually satisfy their women (primarily because they believe their penis is adequate) and/or because they have a preference for living vicariously through the experiences of the wife’s lovers or through the fantasy of the wife’s sexual affairs

To me, the hottest thing about Cuckolding is when my wife talks me off [re-tells her sexual exploits]

It is understood that my pay-off for being what she calls ‘a good little cuck’ is in hearing about it.

Hearing her moaning in the other room while I wait outside the door until she finishes with her Bull is totally hot for me.

Nothing hornier than receiving a text during the night to say: I have just been fucked.

This probably also explains why 82.3% of the men said they believed cuckolds need more aural and mental stimulation than the average man and that 66.9% of the men surveyed said they enjoyed masturbation and fantasy more than actual sex, using the a primary fantasy of the Cuckoldress wife having sex with other men.

A Cuckold wife should practice sexual denial with her husband:

WHY CUCKOLDING

The men were asked to select all the factors which led them to Cuckolding. With the highest response rate at 82.8%, the major drawcard for the men was arousal caused by the thought of seeing their wives with other men; and the ‘my private porn star’ response—while not a politically correct one—was alluded to by a number of men. However to be fair, it would have to be said that anecdotally the fantasy of a wife with other men is not limited to men interested in Cuckolding.

The second most popular factor was an enjoyment of sexual submissiveness, at 61.9%. This one is interesting, as culturally men are expected to be the aggressors and being permitted a submissive role in a so-called vanilla relationship is not that common, instead it is most often labelled a BDSM practice. For men (and couples) who do not see themselves as belonging to the BDSM community, it may be difficult to frame ways for the man to be submissive; however Cuckolding does provide that opportunity. The majority of cuckolds are self-assertive and describe themselves as an alpha male, holding a socially dominant position, whether in the workplace by wealth or earning power or through being highly educated.

They generally know their place in the world and it is not a submissive one. However when it comes to sex they enjoy the taboo, novelty and ‘letting go’ that being the submissive partner promises:

There is no question I’m a powerful guy in real life, therefore sitting in women’s underwear outside the door waiting while some guy pleasures her is so quirky, so different to who I usually am, that I get off on the idea of that ‘other me’ being so pussy whipped.

 

At 55%, just over half of the men rated the opportunity for sexual humiliation as a factor which attracted them to Cuckolding. Sexual humiliation falls under the definition of masochism, as it is seeking pain in some form and taking sexual pleasure from it. Interestingly, according to Baumeister (1988) rather than pathologising it, masochism should be seen simply an unusual way to take a ‘time out’ from the pressures of life, and in his words is ‘an escape from self and self awareness’, in the same way that others might take up mediation or exercise. The majority of men who took this survey described themselves as alpha males (see Self Image), as well as being well educated and earning good salaries in white collar occupations; therefore fit Baumeister’s description of individuals who use sexual masochism as a way to temporarily give up the control and responsibility that they carry in their day to day lives.

In relation to humiliation, comments were made that creampies (specifically the ejaculate of the wife’s lovers on her genitals which the husband is permitted to see, touch or consume but can also be on the face, mouth or breasts), were a powerful attraction, and on reflection it would have been beneficial to have included a line of questioning on this interest. However as nearly one third of respondents said that a desire to explore bisexuality was what attracted them to Cuckolding to begin with; the desire to interact with other men’s sexual fluids in this manner could be a way for some men to express homo-erotic desires, plus for some who may be wrestling with the idea of bisexuality, enjoying this on the wife’s body may legitimise it and remove the practice from being framed as homosexual—a type of bisexuality by proxy as it were.

I believe we were also remiss in not including an option for ‘pleasing my wife’, as a factor for being attracted to Cuckolding. We made the assumption that the men were only motivated by their own sexual desires, however there were a number of voluntary comments made by the men which related to a desire to please their partners:

I just love seeing her live her true sexual passion.

Sexual freedom for my wife boosts her confidence.

My wife loves being dominant and I’m man enough to let her express it.

I enjoy seeing her enjoy getting pleasured.
 

Penis/Small Penis Humiliation

The men were also asked if they enjoyed small penis humiliation, taken to mean having derogatory remarks made about their size, length, girth and their ability to satisfy a woman sexually or being compared to men who were more endowed. While 29% had no interest in it, the remaining 71% were attracted to having this experience to some degree. Cuckolds do appear to have a strong interest in the penises of other men, particularly big penises, so this could mean that even those men with average size penises fantasize about their wives being with larger men than they are. Given the interest that cuckolds have in interracial cuckolding, both anecdotally and evidenced by the large number of websites offering material that focuses specifically on wives with black lovers, this is may not be an unreasonable conclusion.
For this survey we used the generally accepted penis size for Caucasian men:

Small (under 5 inches long)
Average (5-7 inches long)
Large (over 7 inches long)

The common assumption around cuckolds is that they must have a small penis and that is is a deciding factor in them being attracted to Cuckolding. However in this survey the majority of cuckolds described themselves to be of average physical endowment. Obviously there is no way of knowing if the responses are true as men do anecodotally overestimate their penis size; however in this case 36% of men said they were drawn to Cuckolding because they perceived themselves as having as small penis, which is higher than the number who actually identified themsleves in the small penis (5 inches and under) category according to the measurement table.

Taking this into account and given the percentage of cuckolds who also nominated an attraction to small penis humiliation (SPH) which again is also far higher than the self-reported figure having a small penis, we would have to consider the men assessed their penis size truthfully.

Feedback from cuckolds on what makes penis humiliation (or SPT for short), attractive is interesting in itself. For some cuckolds the fact that they will never have a larger penis means they actually erotize their negative feelings about their perceived inadequacies and appear to turn this around to a plus rather than a negative. For others the taboo act of a woman actually making derogatory remarks about his penis is thrilling precisely because it is not a socially accepted thing to do. Explains one cuckold:

I often suggest we watch porno movies with supremely endowed men. This makes my dick look even smaller in comparision and then I fantasise about my little dick next to his and how my wife is probably comparing me to him.

Bisexuality

In response to the question, ‘do you consider yourself bisexual?’ 29.2% described themselves as bisexual, 18.4% as bi-curious and 18.1% would like to be f***ed into bisexual behaviour. In total this means that 69.9% of the men have some interest in, or identification with, bisexuality. The high number who would do it if ‘f***ed’ probably speaks a little to the fact that in society generally it is much more acceptable for a woman to be bisexual or lesbian than for a man to be bisexual or homosexual

I think cucks are lying if they say they are not interested in the other guy’s dicks. We think about how big, how heavy or how long they are, these are all questions swirling around in the mind of the curious cuck.

I wish to take my wife’s place.

Every now and then she makes me come in and wipe her lover down. What can I say, it is just heaven.

Occasionally I am allowed a creampie. Understandably it is only with guys she knows well so we are aware of their sexual history.

While an interest in consuming another man’s semen through the act of the creampie is tied to the masochistic experience of humiliation, for many it is openly a way to express their bisexuality. For others it is also entirely possible that wishing to give a wife post-sex oral sex or licking ejaculate from her breasts or body, is a way for some men of framing erotic homosexual desires so that they remain within a heterosexual framework, i.e. between the man and woman.

LIFESTYLE MECHANICS

We asked how open couples were with regard to their Cuckold arrangement and perhaps unsurprisingly, couples were very selective about who they told. Given how taboo extra marital sex remains round the world and how few people are familiar with what Cuckolding actually is; this would explain why f****y and close friends were the least likely to be chosen as confidants. However what we consider a fairly high number (at 40.7%), confided in others, who they described as not necessarily f****y or friends, and from that we would infer these are other couples in leading a similar lifestyle. Other people are of course involved by virtue of the fact that the couples need to locate, screen, meet and play with the male lovers, most often referred to as Bulls.

Bulls are located by the tried and true methods of meeting through work, at social venues like pubs and clubs and by advertising on websites that cater to the Cuckolding community. In our survey group a very tiny 9% of the men choose the Bulls, while close to half of the time the wife locates her own sexual partners. As the cuckold generally defers to her when it comes to matters of sex and the Cuckoldress generally holds the sexually dominant role in the relationship, this would be expected; however relationships appear flexible enough to leave room for it being a co-decision when required, given the result that 20% said they looked together and 25% said it was situation dependant.

Where does cuckolding take place?

The question of where the actual act takes place unearthed a mixed bag of responses. While the figure of 17.8% (just over one in five men) said their wives had sex with their lovers in the marital bed, that figure is probably higher, given that 54.6% of the men stated it could be any of those venue: the marital bed, in the home or outside of the home.

As Steve explains it, anecdotally there is a strong element of submissive symbolism related to the use of the marital bed, which can be powerfully erotic and stimulating to both cucks and Cuckoldresses. In fact one of the best known amateur pay for view cuckolding sites uses the marital bed to film their exploits for precisely this reason. Given the number of cuckolds who display some interest in bisexuality it also allows a way of expressing their sexual interest in other men by smelling/tasting/feeling the other man without having any direct contact:

After they have had sex in our bed I can fall asl**p and imagine I was her.

I find it highly erotic to smell their sex on our sheets.

It is the ultimate humiliation. What can I say, a stranger, my bed, my wife, I guess it just makes it very real to me.

What Sort of Cuckold?

We created arbitrary categories of Cuckold and asked the men which they identified with the most. The responses mirrored the reasons for being attracted to Cuckolding in the first place and which are discussed earlier under ‘Why Cuckolding’. We did not create a category of Submissive Cuckold, as we believed that a position of submission is taken in all the categories. There was very only a 1% difference in identifying as a Humiliation or Voyeur cuckold. Given the popularity of Voyeur Cuckold category, this also tends to support why there was such high number (66.9%), of self-reported cuckolds who said they prized masturbation and fantasy above actual sex.

 

What the Cuckold is Allowed

We also asked what role the cuckolds took when the wife was with another man. For the majority of couples it was a case of the wife’s wishes in a given situation. However from the categories we presented of watching, watching/participating and not being present, it is most likely that the wife has sex with other men alone. In terms of what the cuckold enjoys, most cuckolds nominate being humiliated, so it would depend on how humiliating the allowable roles are to him.
However most cuckolds report enjoying watching almost equally, so it would seem that if only 15.2% are permitted to watch, their needs are not met in this respect, and perhaps as Steve suggests, this in itself further adds to the cuckolds feelings of humiliation and loss of control.

98.2% of the cuckolds agreed with the statement: ‘The desire and passion for my Cuckoldress is heightened after she has been with another man’. Brizendine (The Male Brain 2010, p.64) refers to this concept as ‘mate guarding’, in which a man’s mating hormones are stimulated by fear of loss and rejection, and this in turn intensifies his feelings of love and passion for his mate.

it accurately and honestly addresses questions

 

[secondjag]

2 hours ago, Klingon79 said:

it accurately and honestly addresses questions

 

glad u dug it

[Cuckhubby48]

Interesting, I would be happy to add to the comments in the survey about my experiences and thoughts 

[secondjag]

5 hours ago, cuckhubby48 said:

Interesting, I would be happy to add to the comments in the survey about my experiences and thoughts 

welcome.  why not do so here?  i'm sure folks would be interested in what you have to say

[Cuckhubby48]

Happy to, where do I start? Questions anyone?  Wannabe for a very long time with seemingly no prospect of ever happening , I now understand that my wife wanted more satisfaction in her sex life than I was giving her but didn’t want me to sleep with other women in exchange, it was never my intention to do that and she finally understood, she has over the last 2 years or more had possibly 4 men, one I know of and know detail though she said didn’t go well , one I know of and know no detail , one I have been told of by a friend only and one I suspect, her adventure is developing and it won’t be long until I am allowed to join her in searching for another man for her, I am most curious as to how she goes about this and how she goes about picking her man , I hope I will be able to be there when they when they have sex I would like to watch only and have no interest in sharing the guy he will be hers alone . 

So up to now she has preferred not to involve me directly but has my encouragement, I think she didnt wanted involve me because the things she did were way more adventurous than with me and I think she didn’t me to feel belittled, she now knows that I’m ok with whatever she wants to do absolutely anything is fine, but I would now like to watch. Perhaps to start just one guy with my wife an evening out and then a mince hotel where I would sit patiently and watch them , but really ideally the idea would be that I could see her out to attract a group of guys and have them all back to a room where I could watch them give Maria an amazing gangbang while I sat and did nothing , I suppose a few experiences to encounter first but that is the plan for the next 6 months, 

Edited July 18, 2020 by cuckhubby48

[secondjag]

6 hours ago, cuckhubby48 said:

Happy to, where do I start? Questions anyone?  Wannabe for a very long time with seemingly no prospect of ever happening , I now understand that my wife wanted more satisfaction in her sex life than I was giving her but didn’t want me to sleep with other women in exchange, it was never my intention to do that and she finally understood, she has over the last 2 years or more had possibly 4 men, one I know of and know detail though she said didn’t go well , one I know of and know no detail , one I have been told of by a friend only and one I suspect, her adventure is developing and it won’t be long until I am allowed to join her in searching for another man for her, I am most curious as to how she goes about this and how she goes about picking her man , I hope I will be able to be there when they when they have sex I would like to watch only and have no interest in sharing the guy he will be hers alone . 

So up to now she has preferred not to involve me directly but has my encouragement, I think she didnt wanted involve me because the things she did were way more adventurous than with me and I think she didn’t me to feel belittled, she now knows that I’m ok with whatever she wants to do absolutely anything is fine, but I would now like to watch. Perhaps to start just one guy with my wife an evening out and then a mince hotel where I would sit patiently and watch them , but really ideally the idea would be that I could see her out to attract a group of guys and have them all back to a room where I could watch them give Maria an amazing gangbang while I sat and did nothing , I suppose a few experiences to encounter first but that is the plan for the next 6 months, 

your story is interesting.  hope when i have more time later to comment further.  thanks for sharing

[Cuckhubby48]

Thanks, so much to say and share I don’t know where to start, 

[secondjag]

1 hour ago, cuckhubby48 said:

Thanks, so much to say and share I don’t know where to start, 

take your time; you're among friends

[Cuckhubby48]

Questions anyone?

im not sure what to say really

[joelhwood]

Keep us posted.. Exciting journey you are on!! 

[Cuckhubby48]

Interesting yes, also a little stressful but fun

[secondjag]

4 hours ago, cuckhubby48 said:

Interesting yes, also a little stressful but fun

well, a new topic here is alway a breath of fresh air.  can you tell us a bit about the conversation that was the turning point?

[secondjag]

This was forwarded to me recently written by a longtime hotwife.  Perhaps of interest

 

If you think it can't be done, I am here to prove you wrong. In 1989, I met a man that was masculine and fucked me like I have never been fucked. Gradually, we started enjoying 

other partners and hubby loved to watch. He enjoyed it so much and started jacking off 

to the videos we had made with other partners. 

 

He did that so frequently that his dick wouldn't get hard for me anymore and I couldn't make him cum. I still loved him and would never give up my soul mate, so I trained him to be my cuckie. I made him shave his body and wear my panties. I locked his dick up so long that it started to shrink. I told him over and over that he was not a man, but was my cuckie and I was in charge. He started following orders and I rewarded him with warm cream pies right out of my pussy and ass. Eventually we found a partner that we clicked with and moved in with him. Now we all share a bed and I get thoroughly fucked daily. 

 

I make cuckie watch and tell him that he needs to see why I would never fuck him or let him touch my body. Cuckie is only allowed to touch me if my new husband says it's ok. 

 

Sometimes we worship my new husband's thick hard black cock together and share his cum. Pretty soon cuckie will be getting fucked in the ass if he wants any sexual pleasure beyond jacking off. His so called cock never gets hard and when he cums nothing comes out. I remind him frequently that he does not need any pussy and that if he thought he might get hard for another woman, he would not only be a huge disappointment to her, but he would also be completely humiliated. 

 

My fully trained cuckie is the happiest he has ever been in his entire life and so I am. I really consider him more like a son that will never leave home. I will nurture him and take care of him and spoil him for the rest of my life. I consider my new husband to be my true husband and we are committed to our poly marriage forever. Yes, it can be done and it can be spectacular. We are on our 4th anniversary as a tri-couple and going stronger than ever.

 

My life as a real cuckie and how its changed. I pretty much have been a cuckold to my wife Michele for about 30 yrs. She has taken things up in levels as our marriage develop. Now I just wish I had a cuck friend to talk to. I'm willing to give you my number for some emotional support.  My wife encourages me to do so, so I don't feel alone. I am caged all the time,  in fact she jerked me off a day ago after months of being caged and I cried when I came I don't know what's going on with me emotionally?  My wife says its the hormone pills she's has me taking . Yes pills, now she wants me to become a women for now.  I've agreed just to be a women behind close doors.  She shaves me now and I wear a cock cage.  She threw all my male underwear away. She turning me into a woman. So let me ask this, is there guys who would really let their wife take them this far?  I was just talking to my 20 year old and I asked her how did mommy make me this way?  It happened so slow was her reply, but you're happy  and all your friends know you're happy. They know mom loves you a ton and they also know you're a cuck just don't worry.

 

 

 

[secondjag]

Here's another

The Reward in being a Cuckold

My side of the story as a cuckold .

I allowed my self to become cucked by virtue of the fact I no longer can gain and keep an erection whit encouragement form me my wife entered the world of fucking other young men thus began my new life as a cuck . She has now evolved into a total slut for black men only after meeting and sampling her first back cock the way and ease at which he dominated her controlling her climax's and his self control over his pleasure had her hooked . I now sit watch and when ordered clean out her cum filled pussy then once my job is done I retire to my room allowing him full access to the master bedroom and my wife's body . They now ignore my presence in any room I'm in its not uncommon to find her sucking his cock as I arrive home from work or one of his black friends for that matter .
I have come to both enjoy watching her and look forward to seeing my once shy demure wife turned into a total slut hearing her beg to be allowed cum and for more cock harder fucking and her announcing her devotion to his cock telling him to do what he wants with her his face of triumph looking at me without a word from him I know she is lost to black cock for life .

Update my wife and her lovers came home last weekend December 3rd 2016 with a so called female friend I was informed she would be a guest for the weekend having told her poor unsuspecting husband she would be attending a works do and staying at our house . 

 

I watched as two young black men began to kiss fondle finger fuck and use this more than willing white wife as there fuck toy while my wife held open her legs and encouraged her to suck cock deeper into her mouth gagging at times water running from her eyes she some how managed to accommodate this huge cock . 

 

I then watched my wife's reaction to this women as she crashed trough massive climaxes before one of them dumped his cum deep inside her pussy . I the saw my wife look closely at this extremely wet cum dripping pussy only to see a black hand push her face into it.  I could hear my wife eagerly licking up that cum, her new girlfriend gasping and grinding her pussy onto my wife's face as she came in a wild burst clamping my wife's mouth to her pussy . before another cock was presented to her own mouth to suck . Totally ignored now I sat in silence watching the women were used as fuck toys.  It wasn't long before I was being ordered to get some drinks .I returned to find a pussy waiting for me to clean then the other one was also in need of my attention.

 

My wife's girlfriend then announced she wished to come back soon for more and that her husband would not be informed of her new found sexual desires for black cock.  This brought fits of laughter to all present the reaction to her request was to order her to suck some cock when she got him hard enough she sat facing me my wife then pulled me over between her legs demanding I lick her pussy to ensure she achieved a huge orgasm I eagerly complied loving every second till she came .

My wife now sports a Q neckless when going out.

 I saw this for the first time this past Friday when I drove her and her boyfriend to town. I later collected them only to find he had made arrangements for some kind of party in his house and I was quickly informed I was not allowed to be present. My wife told me to go home and she would call some time Sunday to come collect her . 

 

Sunday came with my mind racing as to what she had been up to that long awaited call from her soon showed me exactly what did happen I knocked on the door which was opened by a young black guy in his early teens who promptly pushed my wife out wearing only her coat.  In a very stern voice he told her to come back next week if she wanted the rest of her clothes then slammed the door shut . 

 

We got in our car and she looked a total mess cum dried into her hair, face, tits, and pussy stinking in stale cum. I was informed that five guys in total used her all weekend she was totally naked.  Her panties where taken by one guy, her bra and top were in her in her handbag, the young guy had her skirt ' She told me how she was passed round with three holes filled at once many times over.  She said she'd lost count of how many times she was fucked.  Her pussy was red raw and sore and her mouth ached and she was finding it hard to walk.  When we got home I took her into the shower washed her, then dried her and gently laid her into bed sleep was prompt and deep .

 

[eros44]

Wow that sounds very extreme, but must have been very satisfying if nobody got hurt.

[Cuckhubby48]

 

I am ( we are) nowhere that stage and probably never will be, I am still not involved but soon sure to be when barriers are broken down , it is currently she plays if she needs to and I wait for either a little info or none at alL and I get to hear through rumours , one of her experiences I learned through reading her text messages, 

more to follow when I have time ok, 

( I must say that reading some threads, not necessarily here ,I get the feeling some or most are pure fabrication, made up fantasies, I get it , I understand but it’s a shame that more can’t share their true experiences) I’ll read them anyway but most not true, 

[secondjag]

6 hours ago, cuckhubby48 said:

 

I am ( we are) nowhere that stage and probably never will be, I am still not involved but soon sure to be when barriers are broken down , it is currently she plays if she needs to and I wait for either a little info or none at alL and I get to hear through rumours , one of her experiences I learned through reading her text messages, 

more to follow when I have time ok, 

( I must say that reading some threads, not necessarily here ,I get the feeling some or most are pure fabrication, made up fantasies, I get it , I understand but it’s a shame that more can’t share their true experiences) I’ll read them anyway but most not true, 

there are a lot of "wannabees" who you will, no doubt, see at any cuckold site.  true i suspect for any porn site as well

[Cuckhubby48]

True, no problem with wannabes, I was and to a degree am, but some of the tales are way far out !!! Anyway no big deal

[Naughty Nicki]

Don’t all cuckolds start out at some point or other a wannabe?   Well most, I guess some gradually become one while others are kinda forced. 

[sexydexy1986]

Forced is fun tho ha

[passthebeer]

Interesting study, thanks for sharing. 

[farmqueen]

most of the bull I know just peter out.....Stephanie

[secondjag]

On 7/21/2020 at 3:20 AM, Cuckhubby48 said:

 

I am ( we are) nowhere that stage and probably never will be, I am still not involved but soon sure to be when barriers are broken down , it is currently she plays if she needs to and I wait for either a little info or none at alL and I get to hear through rumours , one of her experiences I learned through reading her text messages, 

more to follow when I have time ok, 

( I must say that reading some threads, not necessarily here ,I get the feeling some or most are pure fabrication, made up fantasies, I get it , I understand but it’s a shame that more can’t share their true experiences) I’ll read them anyway but most not true, 

seemed like time for an update.  agree with Cuckhubby that so many are just hub fantasy.  however, thought you might like a listen to a real deal hotwife.  as you know, I rarely if ever put up links for reasons I have stated often; however this is only a Youtube link. look forward to hearing from many of you on this