Cuckold Confused

[cuckold@heart]

I've been dating this beautiful, very sexy woman for three years now. When we first met, she was promiscuous and extremely flirty. Especially when drinking. During the first year of our relationship, she fucked two different men. One in which she spent the entire night with and fucked repeatedly (from what she claims, they fucked five times), then afterward, went back to him three days in a row to fuck several more times (three to four times each of those days). My girlfriend was honest and truthful when it came to telling me about these guys she fucked. Weird thing is, I wanted to know all the details:: how good they fucked her, how big their dicks were, what positions they fucked her in, whether they would cum inside her pussy or somewhere else like her face or on her beautiful tits. In short, her fucking these two guys really turned me on, especially after she gave me all the juicy details and answered whatever questions I asked.

Well, two years later (we've been three years dating) and the thought of her being fucked so good by those two guys still turns me on. Problem is, now she resents me and hates the fact the I am turned on by her fucking another guy. I have openly admitted to her that I wished she would fuck that one guy she spent the night with. From what she professed, he has a fat dick that she loved fucking, and he fucked her good with it. And my desire almost came true, two and a half years into our relationship while she was at her best friends house for a party. She came to my apartment very early in the morning, about 1am, and told me she had went to the bathroom and as she opened the door, he was there and just started kissing her. She said she didn't fuck him, but she did suck his fat dick three times. One time with him cumming in her mouth. She said he was eating her pussy while having her feet on his shoulders as she was playing with a vibrator. She claimed she felt bad for doing those things, but as for me, I was turned on with flaming fire. I was getting her naked even as she was giving me the details and fucked her fast and hard. I was so turned on, I was cumming in her pussy in no time all the while wishing she would have fucked him. Only if........

I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW........

Am I wrong for liking the fact that she cuckolded me?? How do I explain to her that I want to be her cuckold?? How do I tell her that her fucking another guy is a tremendous turn on for me?? I feel it strongly within me; yet, I am confused and curious as to WHY I like being cuckolded. I am confused as to WHY I get so turned on when she fucked other guys.

[Louise]

Lets take that in order ...

Am I wrong for liking the fact that she cuckolded me?? No, loads of guys like being cuckolds.

 

How do I explain to her that I want to be her cuckold?? Try telling her, explain that loads of guys like it

 

How do I tell her that her fucking another guy is a tremendous turn on for me?? Tell her how you feel inside, but remember to tell her that you really do love her.

 

I feel it strongly within me; yet, I am confused and curious as to WHY I like being cuckolded.  If you ever find out, share it with us all. There is no logical reason why, but then there's no reason why you love one person over another, like straight or gay sex. 

 

I am confused as to WHY I get so turned on when she fucked other guys. According to my husband, it just feels so good inside. He loves watching us together, being unable to control what we do when we are alone together, licking me when I have been filled with cum.

 

Good luck, hope you get what you enjoy, and enjoy what you get   

[cuckold@heart]

Louise, thank you for your response. It's kind of hard to explain to a woman how her fucking other guys turns you on. Is there a certain finesse to that approach?? We've been together over 3 years now, and the things she's done were within this time. I loved how she gave every detail and answered all my questions. So why that change of heart?? Why would she all of a sudden not approve of me liking what she did?? She now tells me that when or if she does fuck another guy it's because she is no longer with me. Thus, my confusion.

[UK_EX]

Louise, thank you for your response. It's kind of hard to explain to a woman how her fucking other guys turns you on. Is there a certain finesse to that approach?? We've been together over 3 years now, and the things she's done were within this time. I loved how she gave every detail and answered all my questions. So why that change of heart?? Why would she all of a sudden not approve of me liking what she did?? She now tells me that when or if she does fuck another guy it's because she is no longer with me. Thus, my confusion.

 

I think that women are just like that - mine refuses to accept that she had another man, yet she fucked our best friend on a daily basis for seven years with my full knowledge, blessing and assistance !

 

It must be the hormones, othwise why would anyone go from nymphomaniac to being a nun ?

 

I just hope I can find something to trigger the nymphomaniac back into her.

 

as for what we cuckolds get from it - the feelings a VERY intense, sexual, and personal.

 

humiliation in knowing that we let her do it,

pride that someone else wants our woman,

your own personal porn show,

knowing that he is humiliating you when he fucks her, especially if he knows that you approve of it

the humiliation of licking his cum from her pussy, knowing his cock was inside there when they fucked

 

so many feelings

 

So wonderful !

[cuckold@heart]

I think that women are just like that - mine refuses to accept that she had another man, yet she fucked our best friend on a daily basis for seven years with my full knowledge, blessing and assistance !

 

It must be the hormones, othwise why would anyone go from nymphomaniac to being a nun ?

 

I just hope I can find something to trigger the nymphomaniac back into her.

 

as for what we cuckolds get from it - the feelings a VERY intense, sexual, and personal.

 

humiliation in knowing that we let her do it,

pride that someone else wants our woman,

your own personal porn show,

knowing that he is humiliating you when he fucks her, especially if he knows that you approve of it

the humiliation of licking his cum from her pussy, knowing his cock was inside there when they fucked

 

so many feelings

 

So wonderful !

Yes, that feeling is quite intoxicating. I think about her with them every single day and read her text messages with all the details and it never fails, I get turned on with blazing fire.

Good question, How does one go from nymphomaniac to nun? I don't believe she has, I just need to find a way to set her naughty girl free. She already knows I like the things she's done. She also knows, I wouldn't mind her doing it again. Problem is, it's like she went cold on me and I need to find a way to put a flame back inside of her.

[Joys]

I am away from home most of the time and since a long long time, I have told her that the idea of her being with others is a great tun on for me and she has all my blessing and support if she'd like to try another. I have repeatedly told her that "her fucking another guy is a tremendous turn on for me", and this is not the least indication that I don't love her anymore or that I want to drive her away from me (as she once thought), but on the contrary, it's about my love for her and the belief that it would bring us together more. I have weighed the pros and cons of this and I feel I'm way past the feeling of it is wrong.

 

WHY I would like to be cuckolded, WHY I get so turned on if she fucked other guys?? There are plenty of reasons for me. I like that she is desired, I like that she is sexually libertine, I want "something to trigger the nymphomaniac in her". I want her to be pleasured apart from my pleasuring her, I want her to experience others apart from me (she was virgin when we met and has not fucked any other since). It's all about seeing her pleasured and that would be my pleasure. There are still many other reasons I have reasoned this for myself and her.

 

I am NOT a submissive, not into any kind of humiliation and I don't find "let her do it" humiliating at all but yes, the "pride that someone else wants our woman". I have told her all this, but I am still here as a wannabe.

 

"Why would she all of a sudden not approve of me liking what she did??". All that I can say is that she's in love with you and what she did was not love but sex and now she feels exclusive to you no matter what turns you on.

 

Count yourself lucky still, as she has had experiences, knows to separate love and sexual pleasure and you still have a chance

[cuckold@heart]

I am away from home most of the time and since a long long time, I have told her that the idea of her being with others is a great tun on for me and she has all my blessing and support if she'd like to try another. I have repeatedly told her that "her fucking another guy is a tremendous turn on for me", and this is not the least indication that I don't love her anymore or that I want to drive her away from me (as she once thought), but on the contrary, it's about my love for her and the belief that it would bring us together more. I have weighed the pros and cons of this and I feel I'm way past the feeling of it is wrong.

 

WHY I would like to be cuckolded, WHY I get so turned on if she fucked other guys?? There are plenty of reasons for me. I like that she is desired, I like that she is sexually libertine, I want "something to trigger the nymphomaniac in her". I want her to be pleasured apart from my pleasuring her, I want her to experience others apart from me (she was virgin when we met and has not fucked any other since). It's all about seeing her pleasured and that would be my pleasure. There are still many other reasons I have reasoned this for myself and her.

 

I am NOT a submissive, not into any kind of humiliation and I don't find "let her do it" humiliating at all but yes, the "pride that someone else wants our woman". I have told her all this, but I am still here as a wannabe.

 

"Why would she all of a sudden not approve of me liking what she did??". All that I can say is that she's in love with you and what she did was not love but sex and now she feels exclusive to you no matter what turns you on.

 

Count yourself lucky still, as she has had experiences, knows to separate love and sexual pleasure and you still have a chance

Yes, I do count myself lucky. Blessed even to have such a beautifully sexy woman like her with a sex drive that can put most porn stars to shame.

I feel the same as you. I feel that with her sex drive, she deserves to experience satisfaction from other guys. I work long hours, and I know she is in a constant state of horniness, so yes, I would like for her to fuck other guys so she could be sexually satisfied. I love her, beyond words, so I want her sexual side satisfied as often as she needs it. She deserves it. She definitely has the sex drive for it. And her body, oh man, her body demands to be pleasured.

I just don't understand how she could fuck those two guys, have my blessing to fuck others, and be told it turns me on, yet, not want to explore such.