well, ours started off many years ago mutually and consensually. we talked about it a lot and then gradually moved toward the lifestyle. for her first, I arranged for a guy (paid him) to meet us at our hotel on a friday night, but before then she was staying at the same hotel a few days before and she (and a gf) got picked up by two guys in the club lounge - sexed them both of course lol, so by friday night she had well and truly begun! since then she has had probably around 70 different men but these days mostly keeps with one or two regular lovers but will sometimes still get seduced if she's out and about and a potential seduces her with confidence, a touch of arrogance and a bottle of good champers lol Anyway, back to topic... years later into the lifestyle, my wife started to play up without me knowing - she met about 4 or 5 men without telling me - caused a big blow up between us at the time, but realised that she just wanted that freedom and dominance to do what she wanted when she wanted. Part of our natural progression into a HW/cuckold Domme/sub relationship I guess... worked out well now and she has the absolute freedom to choose who, when and where 🙂 which she does of course