I think most of us came to the conclusion a long time ago that Elaine is a very special wife. The probability of us blokes getting a wife like her is very small, and my experience confirms this. Also the probability of her matching up with someone like Robert is also quite small. They have dovetailed well and they have managed the very complex and difficult issues of human nature and all its nuances superbly for their particular relationship. Robert has been able guide Elaine and himself in an almost perfect way. That this could happen between two individuals is an even lower probability. A beautiful outcome for two special people. There is a lot to learn from their story and I, for one, am privileged that they can share it with me.