☝When the Cuckold Is Not Into Humiliation

[sultanCucky]

When the Cuckold Is Not Into Humiliation

By Ms Dusty of Cuckold Fantasies

Not all cuckolds have a strong desire to be humiliated. It seems the majority of people believe that if the husband is a cuckold in his relationship, he must have a small penis, or some other physical or sexual inadequacy, making it necessary for the wife to sl**p with other men to get satisfied. However, this is not always the case: not all cuckolds have a desire to be humiliated. Let's look at some reasons why.

The Cuckold Voyeur
In some instances, the cuckold husband has a strong desire to live out his voyeuristic fantasies. This is especially true of husbands who are proud of their wives. The husband wants to show her off. Coincidently, the cuckold wants to actually watch another man enjoy his sexy wife. This can be very erotic for everyone involved, especially if she is proud of her body and wants to show if off as well. Again, this has little to do with humiliating the cuckold. Rather, he lives out his fantasy of "watching." It is very rewarding to the cuckold to share something so erotic with the woman he loves.

The Generous Cuckold Husband
Some men get really turned on bragging to their buddies about how hot their wife is. In fact, this is extremely common. Plenty of men love to boast about the hot piece of ass they get to "experience" whenever the mood strikes them. When this type of man gets into cuckolding, he approaches it out of the desire to give his buddy a gift (his wife). He would like his friend to experience the same pleasure he receives from his wife. What better gift to give your buddy? As you can imagine, this kind of sex has little to do with humiliating the cuckold. It's about sharing the wealth, or in this case, the wife.

Cuckold Husbands and their "Slut Wives"
Sometimes the cuckold has strong desires for his wife to be a prostitute, or slut wife. This could be more related to humiliating the slut wife, instead of humiliating the cuckold. He wants to basically act as her pimp. In this case, he may not even want to watch it. He may have a fantasy of his wife essentially acting as a prostitute with several men. He may just get off on listening to his slut wife as she relays all the erotic details to him after the fact.

The Giving Cuckold Husband
Another aspect of a cuckolded husband could be that he just wants his wife to experience something different. He has the desire to break free from the boring vanilla sex the couple is used to. He wants to introduce new and diverse sex to his wife. He has aspirations of spicing up the couple's sex life. Cuckolding can possess all the elements of a powerful, sexual diversion the couple is craving.

The Dominant Cuckold
The cuckold wants to dominate his wife. He desires to make his wife subservient to other men's wishes. In this case, the cuckold wants to demonstrate complete control over his submissive wife. This also works for her as well, if she has a desire to be submissive.

The Competitive Cuckold
The cuckold has a desire to compete for his wife. Some men, love the chase, and fantasize about it. When you finally marry the person you love. The chase has diminished. By the cuckold bringing another man in the bedroom, he is essentially recreating that competition that was lost when they married. He is now able to "compete" for his wife again.

As you can see, there are many reasons a cuckold is not humiliated in the relationship. I could list many more, but I think you get the idea. Just because a man has stated he wants to be cuckolded does not necessarily mean he wants humiliation. In fact I have talked to several cuckolds, who have no intentions of being humiliated at all

 

    

 

  

 

  

 

  

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

[irish1234]

i think i would be open to all of the above..  what does that make me???

[mikefmBklyn]

I would classify myself as a Dominant, Giving, and Voyeur Cuckold.

Then there are the submissive cuckolds that still are not into verbal humiliation,

they are straight but desire to be "persuaded" by the woman to join in to perform

oral on the guy about to fuck her. 

[jaggu008]

I am a submissive cuckold husband,but not for humiliation verbal or otherwise, ih front of the lover. but she does enjoy humliating me after her sesiions, when she comes back to me, by comparing and calling me names. But it is only for me to get excited and make love to her

[1stexhub]

How about the word embarrassment instead of humiliation my first wife wasnt trying to cuck me but her flirting and cheating caused me a lot of embarrassment, and since I loved her and having sex with her she used my forgiving or submissive nature to her benefit at my expense.

[pats69]

I recognised my husband in many of the categories described. I'm sure he wasn't at all humiliated by sharing me with others. He wasn't really a "giving" person and I don't regard him as "competitive" in the way described here but he did fall into each of the other categories. I don't think that made him a person with multiple personalities. He was a voyeur, he did like to dominate and control, and the two categories of a "generous cuckold" and wanting a slut wife certainly applied, I'm sure. But having said this, I found the analysis really interesting and I certainly recognised his motivations - which didn't include a desire for his own humiliation, I'm certain.

[pats69]

But it  did include a desire for your humiliation, didn't it slut - and you enjoyed it, being used and lent out as his personal sex toy, his whore

 

I'm not so sure he thought of it that way. I think it turned him on to watch - and that was the big thing. But I also think there was an element of his enjoying his ability to control and it's fair to say that it also made him popular with his friends!

[pats69]

Not the entire team - and it was soccer not rugby!

[1stexhub]

My ex wife never meant to show off or screw every guy at work but she did how many times did I stop by work to visit her and all the guys saw me and said that poor jerk has no idea we are banging his wife.

[Mcay911]

I like some of them... Not sure where I would place myself in this site but here is one that I would like to maybe add...

 

I love watching my wife get off with another man.. But I kinda have a twist that I have not yet been able to fulfill and I'm not sure if it would be a "type" but here goes

 

I fantasies about "catching" my wife in the act.  But not like kicking the door in more like.  We are at a party and she disappears, I begin to panic attempting to find her and I hear what's going on before I see it.  i.e they are in a car or behind a bush.. I don't stop them I just watch from a distance.

 

Would that be a distance Cuck  

[KennyG]

I would be the giving and more Dominate Cuck.

[calicolombia69]

I enjoy the denial for convenience and the assertion that indeed they are better lovers than me.  So erotic to listen to her describe how their cocks stretch her out more and actually rub her clit.  or the positions she can achieve with then and it doesnt slip out...

 

on the other hand, the denial 48 hrs before a date is incomparable.  only oral and she rubs me to get me hard for two straight days.  then upon the return, more denial if she is going to see him again the following day.   I have been denied ass for 6 straight months!  But I still had to look at it swollen, lick cum out of it and help to shave ....

[1stexhub]

When the Cuckold Is Not Into Humiliation

By Ms Dusty of Cuckold Fantasies

Not all cuckolds have a strong desire to be humiliated. It seems the majority of people believe that if the husband is a cuckold in his relationship, he must have a small penis, or some other physical or sexual inadequacy, making it necessary for the wife to sl**p with other men to get satisfied. However, this is not always the case: not all cuckolds have a desire to be humiliated. Let's look at some reasons why.The Cuckold Voyeur

In some instances, the cuckold husband has a strong desire to live out his voyeuristic fantasies. This is especially true of husbands who are proud of their wives. The husband wants to show her off. Coincidently, the cuckold wants to actually watch another man enjoy his sexy wife. This can be very erotic for everyone involved, especially if she is proud of her body and wants to show if off as well. Again, this has little to do with humiliating the cuckold. Rather, he lives out his fantasy of "watching." It is very rewarding to the cuckold to share something so erotic with the woman he loves.The Generous Cuckold Husband

Some men get really turned on bragging to their buddies about how hot their wife is. In fact, this is extremely common. Plenty of men love to boast about the hot piece of ass they get to "experience" whenever the mood strikes them. When this type of man gets into cuckolding, he approaches it out of the desire to give his buddy a gift (his wife). He would like his friend to experience the same pleasure he receives from his wife. What better gift to give your buddy? As you can imagine, this kind of sex has little to do with humiliating the cuckold. It's about sharing the wealth, or in this case, the wife.Cuckold Husbands and their "Slut Wives"

Sometimes the cuckold has strong desires for his wife to be a prostitute, or slut wife. This could be more related to humiliating the slut wife, instead of humiliating the cuckold. He wants to basically act as her pimp. In this case, he may not even want to watch it. He may have a fantasy of his wife essentially acting as a prostitute with several men. He may just get off on listening to his slut wife as she relays all the erotic details to him after the fact.The Giving Cuckold Husband

Another aspect of a cuckolded husband could be that he just wants his wife to experience something different. He has the desire to break free from the boring vanilla sex the couple is used to. He wants to introduce new and diverse sex to his wife. He has aspirations of spicing up the couple's sex life. Cuckolding can possess all the elements of a powerful, sexual diversion the couple is craving.The Dominant Cuckold

The cuckold wants to dominate his wife. He desires to make his wife subservient to other men's wishes. In this case, the cuckold wants to demonstrate complete control over his submissive wife. This also works for her as well, if she has a desire to be submissive.The Competitive Cuckold

The cuckold has a desire to compete for his wife. Some men, love the chase, and fantasize about it. When you finally marry the person you love. The chase has diminished. By the cuckold bringing another man in the bedroom, he is essentially recreating that competition that was lost when they married. He is now able to "compete" for his wife again.

As you can see, there are many reasons a cuckold is not humiliated in the relationship. I could list many more, but I think you get the idea. Just because a man has stated he wants to be cuckolded does not necessarily mean he wants humiliation. In fact I have talked to several cuckolds, who have no intentions of being humiliated at all

 

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Nice sexy pics.

[mikefmBklyn]

I am one of those who are not into humiliation. I enjoy sharing and enjoy seeing my partner pleasured. I enjoy her telling me how good it is. I enjoy him telling me what a good slut I have. But to be humiliated is NOT a turn on at all. 

 

[1stexhub]

I am one of those who are not into humiliation. I enjoy sharing and enjoy seeing my partner pleasured. I enjoy her telling me how good it is. I enjoy him telling me what a good slut I have. But to be humiliated is NOT a turn on at all.

w

I agree

[calicolombia69]

I like a bit of humiliation as I said:  listening to her describe his superiority as I am thrusting ..   and repeating to my ear that I am much smaller.... she says it lovingly

[stud]

Nice sexy pics.

. Cool share with me now, watching OK

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[COregon_cpl]

For myself, the humiliation factor is a huge turn off. I love sharing my GF, will gladly suck off her bull and do clean up work if asked. But since I am sharing my GF, I want her bull to show some respect - evan as I am licking his cum off of his cock. 

[Oldercock]

Must admit, I much prefer a sort of "partnership relationship where we are all three part of a team and all getting what we need and being friends at the same time " it may not be easy and there may still be subtle put downs like fucking in the marital bed but - damn it is goos when it works!

[calicolombia69]

I think we all have a different definition of Humiliation.  As Oldercock says:  I enjoy a partnership.  Yet it is only the other partner that has full rights.   I have occasionally enjoyed a game of open humiliation with one of her lovers. 

 

He was curious as to why my wife and I did not have sex yet got along tremendously.  She did allow me to insert but not orgasm; but he didnt know this.  He thought she was 100% exclusive to him.  Anyway, they were nude under the covers in the early morning.  She made me drop my shorts and display my 4inches.  She told me to get it hard which I did and it grew to an exaggerated 5in.  Then she turned around to him and said:  see you have nothing to worry about.  He is a very cool guy with a small dick.    The guy was embarrassed b/c he was not into humiliation.  Though he did like to bang her so I could hear her scream in the next room....    So I helped along and said:  I have YOU to thank for making my wife happy in this area.  Ive never heard her scream and moan like this in 20 yrs... which is actually true with me

[Modelwife]

There are far too many "bulls" who have not got a clue.They call themselves dominant but are really assholes.Any bull who shows disrespect or humiliates with us will get a swift response and not in a positive way! Far too many cuckolds who are doormats ..cuckolds keep in mind you are the star of the show! Without you there is no show!

[calicolombia69]

Modelwife: Thanks for the praise!  My wife has said that she could never leave me because no other decent man would allow this kind of behavior.  And there is absolutely no way she is going to turn faithful at 40something! 

[Guest strangesexlife]

w

I agree

And I agree with your agree, and the original comment. Humiliation was never an open part of it. In fact I took measures to assure our safety had we met an insane person or persons. Although such measures were not ever intended against humiliation; we would have left if the circumstances weren't right, not acted out; I was not in a position where I felt inferior to the person or persons we were with. Frankly most guys fucked her better than I could, but big deal. I got to watch, she got to enjoy, and we're still together. 

 

The best, hands down, fuck that I've watched with her was a guy into rough stuff, sort of. We met, in the room, of a decent motel, he wanted to be alone with her for the first 5 minutes. As I was leaving, he slammed her against the wall, sort of. When I came back, the door was unlocked, he had her tied to the bed, sort of. And he was pounding away, I mean hard, and fast, fucking her. Her being tied to the bed was in fact ropes on her wrists and ankles, that were not tied to anything, she was just splayed apart, and he worked his wonders in her cunt. Seriously, I'd paid this man if I knew he was going to be so good. He knew it when through, it was like he was acting and he was going for an Oscar, and she came a few times while he pounded away. Beautiful thing to see. 

[icelord0807]

Sure some people seek humiliation.It is a fact.But the majority does not.And as Modelwife said above,some bulls are assholes and some cuckolds are doormats.I add the fact that those are not the majority.The fact that most people here have their wifes by others does not mean that they are impotent,small and/or inadequate.There may be a lot of reason for men having given up their "exclusivity" towards their woman.Some want to be humiliates,others like me want their wives to have experience and think that they are so hot to have sex with only one man(to be honest,my favorite pornstar is my wife),others might be impotent for reasons,others might want the "jealousy effect" to start claiming back their partners etc.As for "bulls",the matter that someone lets you fuck his wife,does not make you a bull.Especially if that someone is 23 cm or 9.2 in (for those on imperial system) and you only measure 12-14 cm or 45.5-5.5 inches.And "degrading" bullshit talking is not also in the game,because bull's part is to "please" the wife and nothing else.After all,without the cuckold there is no game.

[UK_EX]

There are far too many "bulls" who have not got a clue.They call themselves dominant but are really assholes.Any bull who shows disrespect or humiliates with us will get a swift response and not in a positive way! Far too many cuckolds who are doormats ..cuckolds keep in mind you are the star of the show! Without you there is no show!

I like this point of view - and it is true.  It is also true that without a good wife giving herself to a bull there is no cuckold.

I am so glad my wife wanted to give her body to our best friend, that he wanted her, and that I agreed to let her have him.

 

Personally come out as generous (I allowed our best friend to have my wife) but never bragged about it, and giving cuckold. I would love to have been voyeuristic, but was never allowed to watch my wife with her lover.

 

I would have loved to have been able to talk openly to him about it, but she would not allow me to do that.  To be humiliated by him actually knowing that I approved of him screwing my wife whenever he wanted her would have been wonderful.  

 

I would have loved to have seen them together, to have stripped her off for him and handed her to him for his exclusive use.  I would have willingly have served them in bed, even have held her legs apart for him to thrust his cock in her pussy, in fact I'd have done anything for them.