If Your Wife Isn't Excited About Cuckolding...

[NicoRuth]

Found this excellent advice on line from a fellow cuckold who had hard time convincing his wife to cuckold him, and guess what? He is now a proud cuckold!

If you are on the same situation, read this, it may help you...

Here is the link to my blog

https://iamcuckold.blogspot.com/2016/11/if-your-wife-isnt-excited-about.html

https://iamcuckold.blogspot.com/2016/11/if-your-wife-isnt-excited-about.html

[myasianwife38]

I have tried it all and my wife does not get excited about anything.  The most play I got was when I purchased a cock cage.  She has played more with me when I wear it but she never expands the fantasy.  I have to make the effort on everything. 

[Nj-cuckold]

It took me many years to convince my wife, and now she loves it.

[NicoRuth]

2 hours ago, Brooklyn-cuckold said:

It took me many years to convince my wife, and now she loves it.

That is the spirit my friend... Never give up! lol

[Nj-cuckold]

2 hours ago, NicoRuth said:

That is the spirit my friend... Never give up! lol

 till not long time ago she got upset when I mention the word "cuckold" now she used it all the time. 2 days ago she sent me a message "I'm going to cuckold you tonight. 

[myasianwife38]

No she is not sub.  She resist very much.  

[tinyone04102]

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[UK_EX]

Indycuck4wife - all extremely good advice there.    Take it slow, talk, and respect each other.

[KennyG]

You do need to keep in mind that moving your wife into acceptance of a lifestyle where she shares herself with other men will take time.

Remember to never move to quickly or push.  .  Always remember that she is your wife first and you need to progress at her pace. It will certainly be worth it in the long run and you would rather have a slut that takes years to develop than blowing it the first week you try and then she will not try it again.

Most men that desire to share their wife fail, because they use the wrong approach and move to quickly and just jump into the subject and telling their wife they find it sexually simulating at the thought of her having sex with other men and watching.

Include yourself in your wife's life. If you take a real interest in things that interest her, she will more than likely take an interest in things you like as well. It's that give and take thing! Who knows by even learning some crocheting with your wife you may get a better idea of how to tie a fishing lure on!

You should go slowly with each step.

   and then follow it with a question, “ Don’t you find it fun being adventurous?  You need to be prepared with answers for any questions she may ask you during the process. If she suddenly asks you if you want her to be a slut or act like a slut, don’t say yes, consider staying “ I just want you to have fun,”

1.        Now one of biggest problems you will face in the beginning is that your wife may feel that she is only sexy to you.  You can start off by telling her how sexy she is and how much you desire her and back it up with flowers, dinners, romantic evenings and of course fuck her all the time. Sometimes you may even want to fuck her kind of hard, talk dirty to her, get her to talk dirty to you.

2.        After a while this outfit will get old to her, so what do you do? You buy her something even sexier to wear, and now this is your favorite outfit. You keep doing this until her closet is full of really hot clothes and secretly you get rid of some of those outfits that she says she likes but you hate.  This new outfit will be your so called "favorite outfit" to see her in. Every time you are going somewhere that you will not run into someone you know and she asks what should she wear your reply, my favorite outfit!  You need to really get into picking out the clothes with her and not just walk around complaining like we guys usually do.  Actually go with her to pick out some sexy clothes.  Next, start by buying her sexy street clothes. No, not street walker clothes but stuff she can wear out in public. If she objects or say they reveal too much, say that they are often worn by women in your office or around your work. Consider starting with silk blouses that can be worn with a jacket, pleated skirts, and halter tops for summer or thin sun dresses.

Eventually she will have all of these sexy clothes and she will have some outfits that are so hot she will only be willing to wear them to certain places. Also have her wear some of these clothes when you are just sitting around the house. Just every now and then ask her to get dolled up for you and be sure to fuck the hell out of her every time she wears these outfits. Don't forget that if you ask her to get dolled up, you should get cleaned up too and put on some clothes that she likes for you to wear.   This not only is a hidden reward for her accepting the clothes you choose, but gives you more time with her.  You should start helping her more around the house doing simple things, like helping with laundry, putting dirty dishes in the dish washer and putting them away after washing them. Making sure her car is serviced and clean.   Now is the time you need to be doing more things to help her.

3.        Now here is the secret to proving to her that she is sexy and desirable in the eyes of other men.

Get her to wear one of her less slutty outfits, but a bit revealing just the same and take her to a restaurant. Here you will point out that a nice looking guy there keeps checking her out and turns away every time she looks his way. He does not actual have to be looking at her, but she will get use to the idea she is desirable to other men.

4.        Simply reply, "It’s a guy thing." It’s similar to when we try to talk to women and they get emotional and we have no clue why, except in reverse.  Don’t just sit there and watch the game, or go play pool and leave her standing alone. Include her in all the guy stuff you do while you are at these places. She may even start to ask you questions like, "Why do you guys do (or whatever it is)?"   You know your wife better than I do but I would also suggest not abandoning her either.    You do not want her running into someone she knows and ruin your plans or set them back.  Make sure this is a place way across town if you live in a major city or another city if you live in a small town. You should have already visited these places beforehand and developed some friends with the people there. These places will become your special places.  After a few months of this routine, it is time to get her to wear one of her more slutty outfits in public by taking her to a guy place. Not a family restaurant or anything like that but some place like a pool hall, sports bar, racetrack, casino, golf tournament, poker game or any place where the guys far outnumber the women.  

5.        Next introduce her to some of your out of town friends and drinking buddies, in particular the guys that you can trust while you go to the bathroom and you don’t have to worry about them pissing off your wife while you are gone.

When she needs to go to the rest room don’t just send her off by herself especially in some of the more seedy places. After all your wife looks hot and you don’t want other guys to fuck up what you have been working on by making some stupid comment as she walks by. Most guys don’t have the balls to say anything about a woman very loudly if the husband/boyfriend is walking right there with her.

At these special vacation locations you may consider packing a sheer when wet suit (ujena.com). You may want to start off with a few week-ends at a hotel pool or hot tub to get her use to the ideal.    If she likes the beach and vacations, you may even consider special vacation locations, where the normal dress attire is wearing revealing swim suits.  There is also a flip side to taking your wife to places like this. You need to do things with her that she wants to do. This transformation cannot be all about you and there is a "give and take" here. For example; she may want you to accompany her to a flea market, go to garage sales on the same day of the big game or go see a chick flick movie or worse, take her to some fern bar for a Sunday brunch but that is the tradeoff you make for having a sexy wife.

Very few (if any) women want to dress a bit on the slutty side 24 hours 7 days a week and you must respect that.  You are going to have to do things with her that makes her feel like a lady too. You may even want to occasionally buy her a very pretty dress that makes her look innocent and sweet for these events!

6. Draw her a bubble bath and give her a foot massage with the candles around the tub, bring out the razor and softly suggest if you can give her a trim (If she still has pubic hair). Her reaction will be one of three responses: 

1.No way! I don’t want you and a sharp object near me.

2.Hmmm…I don’t know. That makes me kind of nervous. Why do you want to do that?

3.Wow…I didn’t know it bothered you.

4.Hmmm…sounds delightful.

Response to Answer  1.

 If she is dead set against it, brush it off and say, “I was only joking. What I meant was can I pamper you some more? I have an idea…”

Response to Answer 2.

 If she is hesitant and/or curious, simply say, “As you probably know, I’ve been really working hard at becoming closer to you. My love for you is boundless and I want to show you more every day that you mean more to me than anything. “(SAY THIS SHIT! Do not filter it. She may laugh, she may not believe you, but deep inside it makes any woman melt with euphoria) Continue by concluding, “I happened to have read in Cosmo that most women feel cleaner, sexier and their orgasms are MUCH more powerful.”

If she is already shaved or wax, SLOWLY introduce something else such as a toy, DVD porn, or slightly kinky idea at the PEAK of her relaxation with you. Naked, calm and sexy is the mood she MUST be in at the time of introducing your next step to “shared wife”.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

[sexboxer]

very true

[Guest MichaelDawe]

Good replies. Thanks.