It makes sense to most of us on this site. We come here because we yearn for our wives to be fucked. We want them sexually used. The deceet is something that is not so healthy. It is a little wedge between you. Try not to drive that wedge in by making her lie. All the time she is doing it but not telling you she is not lying (in her mind)
So don't ever ask her where she has been....what she has been doing. Avoid direct lies.
Secondly you describe your wife, but is her lover (that is what he is...not her coworker....he is her lover and they love each other...accept it and move on) is he married or single. Is he great looking and financially stable. These factors can effect your relationship.
If he is single, financially well off, better looking and better in bed then just pray he also prefers to bed married women.
You are right to avoid confronting them. If you do you force her to make a descion and whilst they are in their honeymoon period it might not be in your favour.
Have you thought of going away (maybe for some bogus work thing or to visit an old school mate) to give her an empty house. I know the thought of getting him into your bed with your wife turns you on. So take control and make it happen (or at least possible). Research on line and see if you can get yourself little spy cams before you give them this space.
Their love affair will fizzle out....bit may take a while. Enjoy it as much as you can. I use to listen at the door whilst my ex fucked a guy in our spare room. I would have died a death if he suspected I knew. She did..... But he didn't and I didn't want him to.
You do need some feedback though....like being able to listen to them, even better secretly videoing them. Can you get any spy ware for the phone she uses so you can see what they get up to???
Above all....when ever you think they are together and possibly having sex..... Wank yourself raw and enjoy this wonderful world of cuckolding!
Coast....and encourage....don't force.....it will come
