There is just something I find a bit hotter about having sex with a married woman. Every hotwife I have ever had an LTR with wanted sex without the husband present. Perhaps I prefer to have the hotwife to myself for sex because that is the way I started. In many cases I was social with both the husband and wife, we would go out to dinner, or the movies, but he would go home alone and she would come back to my place. Sometimes on the weekends one couple I had would do brunch with me at the local diner. I always made sure she had a fresh cream pie before we walked around the corner to the diner to meet the husband.
I am both naturally dominant and have a very high sex drive. In addition I am very long lasting. I also find a wide range of female body types attractive.
My experience is that with the exception of one couple where the husband sent his wife to me to be trained as a freeuse submissive slut, every hotwife/cuckold couple that has been in my life had the dynamic where the wife was dom to the husband and she was sub to alpha males, or both of them were submissive.
I suppose since I tend to BDSM & D/s that could be why I have attracted such couples. Sadly it has been a few years since I have had a steady hotwife in my life. A former subslut hotwife of mine has been in touch wanting to get together, but sadly she and her husband retired to warmer climes (he was much older than her) and her desires have not gotten her to return to NYC even for a visit.
I can say one reason I enjoy married women beyond the pleasure of fucking another man's wife is that married women are drama free. They do not make drama in my life and that is big for me.
Shameless plug:
I am looking for a hotwife/cuckold couple in the NYC area. It would be nice to celebrate next new years eve with a hot wife and return her to her husband well fucked the next day, perhaps at brunch.