Well said I agree. When that moment comes that you think you want to see, In our case there was an older, rougher man with his big rock hard cock buried deep in her tight vagina ejaculating his sperm in to her, How will she feel then ? and how will you feel ? Will if be a loving experience ? or will the humiliation for her or you be part of it ? I remember the first time when he called her a slut, his balls tightening, shooting his sperm inside as he was ejaculating inside her vagina was just the best thing Ive ever seen. How will she feel and how will you react ? Is it just a fuck or is it something much more than that. You need to speak to her and decide.