Kaktuscpl Posted December 20, 2018 Report Posted December 20, 2018 We were in the process of setting up a "playdate"with a friend from the internet wife was real into the idea......until I got pushy and tried to MAKE her pick a date we could get together that worked for all of us... Well because I was being pushy and trying to force the issue she got pissed and "squashed" the issue...wouldn't even discuss the idea or even role play about having another guy join/fuck her.... This all happened about 2weeeks ago......I am lucky I didn't permanently fuck things up for myself and whoever .......she finally started discussing the idea of someone joining us/fucking her as I watch(hopefully film)the action..... HAVE PATIENCE ......DON'T TRY TO FORCE THE ISSUE She informed me that if I had not pushed the issue,,,it would have already happened ... Lesson Learned 5 Quote
robert smith Posted December 21, 2018 Report Posted December 21, 2018 It took me over a year to convince my wife, then GF, to even consider doing another man. Trick is to keep pushing just a bit and know when to back off. Pain off for us 2 Quote
Oldercuck2 Posted December 21, 2018 Report Posted December 21, 2018 The worst thing you can do is to force the issue. You have to remember that your wife is mentally justifying why she should go against the norm of social acceptance of marital fidelity. Although she is showing signs of her desire to fuck other men it is a big step to make the final decision to do it. That first time she fucks another man may take some time but it's worth the wait and you want to make sure she thoroughly enjoys the experience so that she will want to continue having sex with other men and women. It took my wife 3 or 4 years to fuck another man after she had told me she wanted to. Once that first encounter happened she became more confident in her sexuality and over the years has fucked 35 to 40 different men some several times and 3 or 4 women. Our sex life has been fantastic no regrets. 5 Quote
justpete Posted December 21, 2018 Report Posted December 21, 2018 I'm looking forward to it as much as much as you are. 1 Quote
jwontheriver Posted December 21, 2018 Report Posted December 21, 2018 Bought the wife the "hotwife" anklet, all kinds of sexy outfits, I take her to a local bar to show her off....let her know what I would like to have happen...BUT I dont press the issue. "If it will, it will"... 2 Quote
Naughty Nicki Posted December 21, 2018 Report Posted December 21, 2018 14 hours ago, Kaktuscpl said: We were in the process of setting up a "playdate"with a friend from the internet wife was real into the idea......until I got pushy and tried to MAKE her pick a date we could get together that worked for all of us... Well because I was being pushy and trying to force the issue she got pissed and "squashed" the issue...wouldn't even discuss the idea or even role play about having another guy join/fuck her.... This all happened about 2weeeks ago......I am lucky I didn't permanently fuck things up for myself and whoever .......she finally started discussing the idea of someone joining us/fucking her as I watch(hopefully film)the action..... HAVE PATIENCE ......DON'T TRY TO FORCE THE ISSUE She informed me that if I had not pushed the issue,,,it would have already happened ... Lesson Learned A very hard and disappointing lesson I’m sure but it’s all a learning experience on both parts. Take your time and you’ll both enjoy it eminencly. Best of luck to you both. 1 1 Quote
Kaktuscpl Posted December 22, 2018 Author Report Posted December 22, 2018 Thanks for all the input and advice Quote
Upstart Posted December 23, 2018 Report Posted December 23, 2018 Good luck brotha... Happy Holidays! Quote
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