No Shows

[captainblack]

I have been on this site since it first started and I have had exactly zero real life in person encounters from this site.  I have had 3 supposed cuckold couples in the NYC area message me for an extended period of time then disappear when I suggested meeting for drinks.

 

I have had at least 5 couples from out of town say they were coming to the city for holiday and would love to have a bull for her while here and would like to enjoy my Bull and Breakfast facility (B&B) in one of the trendier areas of NYC.  None of those couples has ever materialized.  Most recently another out of town couple who was eager has now disappeared.

Perhaps most here are just looking for something to beat off to?

[Naughty Nicki]

I would say it is most the husbands wanting it to happen and the truth be known the wife probably doesn’t even have a clue of her husbands wishes and him wanting her to play.  

[twbacuck]

very true nicki nothing in our part of the world either

[Naughty Nicki]

Tbh, I almost next to never meet anyone from the internet, or make plans for a play date. I’d rather be at the bar and if it happens it happens. 

[jj123211]

Honestly, I don’t think I came here expecting to meet up with anyone. For me, it’s more about it being a place for likeminded people to converse. Of course your pool is a lot larger in NYC...I’m in the middle of Bumfuckedsville Midwest lol

[captainblack]

Well I am speaking of folks that have approached me about meeting based on my posts here.  They make the approach then vanish.  I believe the word for that is rude.

[jj123211]

Oh, it’s rude as hell. Don’t get me wrong. I just wouldn’t let it get to me if I were you is all I’m saying.

[Enigma6320]

I've met two people off sites (not this one but a more UK orientated forum).

One was just a husband who was dreaming, but he did bring me some of her underwear.

The second did lead to me fucking the wife several times

[captainblack]

You got very lucky Enigma6320.  I have met wives on sites, but usually they were just advertising themselves as needing sex and it was not until the first in person I found they were married, sometimes while fucking them.  I have met 3 married women from web sites in 20 years.  That is pretty poor, but at least one of them was long term, as in about 13-14 years.

Pretty much anytime a guy contacts me and says he is looking for a bull for his wife it has been a dead end.

[secondjag]

30 minutes ago, captainblack said:

You got very lucky Enigma6320.  I have met wives on sites, but usually they were just advertising themselves as needing sex and it was not until the first in person I found they were married, sometimes while fucking them.  I have met 3 married women from web sites in 20 years.  That is pretty poor, but at least one of them was long term, as in about 13-14 years.

Pretty much anytime a guy contacts me and says he is looking for a bull for his wife it has been a dead end.

couldn't agree with you more Cap.  the problem isn't the dreamers, it's the rude fucks.  takes so little to be courteous; if you bail, let us know.

[captainblack]

Agreed SecondJag.  I am happy to chat with anyone, but do not go on about when/where/how can we arrange for a meeting then bail either at the time of the meeting, or before when things are going that way.  Just say you do not think you can go through with it.

[Enigma6320]

20 hours ago, captainblack said:

You got very lucky Enigma6320. 

Oh, I know :)

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Interesting to me that there are so many no shows. We've had three events in the past six months where we were planning on one man but ended up with several more. Seems to be some movement in that direction too. One guy sets up the time and place then he shows with a group. Maybe it's just my wife? She can normally accommodate everyone but I know they show up expecting some resistance.

[pflash99]

Hey Captainblack, don't get too discouraged.  This lifestyle is full of unfulfilled expectations.  If you think about it, though, it is no different than regular dating.  I have heard so many stories, of this same thing, with the single people I work with that are on match sites.  Be patient, this lifestyle requires lots of patience no different than any other type of dating. 

[pflash99]

16 hours ago, riprap69 said:

Interesting to me that there are so many no shows. We've had three events in the past six months where we were planning on one man but ended up with several more. Seems to be some movement in that direction too. One guy sets up the time and place then he shows with a group. Maybe it's just my wife? She can normally accommodate everyone but I know they show up expecting some resistance.

Wow, I can understand why a group shows up, lol.  She is amazing.

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17 hours ago, pflash99 said:

Wow, I can understand why a group shows up, lol.  She is amazing.

Interesting how some guys just expect to get whatever they want. One man, feels comfortable bringing three more, to fuck another man's wife. We've become pretty casual heh?

[shadnaster]

we've had no shows. So aggravating. Especially after we've paid for a room. We've had two guys not show up foe a gang bang.  Who doesn't show up for a gang bang?

 

[Rocker4424]

True, I cant imagine having the opportunity to fuck another guys wife, and not du.ping a load in every hole and thanking them for the invite

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On ‎10‎/‎6‎/‎2019 at 6:13 PM, riprap69 said:

Interesting how some guys just expect to get whatever they want. One man, feels comfortable bringing three more, to fuck another man's wife. We've become pretty casual heh?

Not all husbands are willing to stand by and watch as their wives are worked on like that. I've watched my wife with all ages, colors, sizes and personal preferences. From one at a time to groups.