Cuck couple regrets ?

[HavaWho]

Now we know that every guy starts out with their cuckold fantasy first before broaching the subject to their wife . The fantasy is just amazing and becomes all consuming . You think about it when you are having sex with your wife and you think about it when masturbating and it’s what you watch when you are looking at porn . 
 

But, has anyone finally gotten their wife to agree to cuckold you and you notice that the reality is way different than your fantasy ? Do you regret putting your plan to action ? What about your wife ? Does she have any lasting regrets ? What if you did it and didn’t like it in reality, did it affect your marriage in any way ? Does your wife think less of you now ? Inquiring minds want to know ! 

[MacCuckold]

4 hours ago, HavaWho said:

Now we know that every guy starts out with their cuckold fantasy first before broaching the subject to their wife . The fantasy is just amazing and becomes all consuming . You think about it when you are having sex with your wife and you think about it when masturbating and it’s what you watch when you are looking at porn . 
 

But, has anyone finally gotten their wife to agree to cuckold you and you notice that the reality is way different than your fantasy ? Do you regret putting your plan to action ? What about your wife ? Does she have any lasting regrets ? What if you did it and didn’t like it in reality, did it affect your marriage in any way ? Does your wife think less of you now ? Inquiring minds want to know ! 

Well I was around 10 y to convince my wife and now she is ready her date will be on June I can’t wait but yeah I worry little bit it’s different to stay on fantasy but doing in real it’s big step 

[Peter C]

I found that reality is different to the fantasy, mainly because at first you forget that there is now a third party involved and as much as might discuss various scenarios with your wife beforehand, there will be occasions when the other guy wants and feels different things.

I won't pretend everything always worked out perfectly once my wife started cuckolding. We'd talked about it for over 2 years before this young guy came along, a customer at the shop where she was assistant manageress. They dated and they fucked and at the time it was amazing. She told me all about it when she came home, as we made love, and I was over the moon that my wife was now "unfaithful", though that wasn't a word we ever used. Nor was "cheating", as this had been my idea from the start. My wife was just "naughty".

A couple of days later though, the cuckold angst really kicked it. Was he bigger than me? Was he better in bed? Would she leave me for him? She said no to all 3 questions, but like a fool I still asked her not to see him again. She agreed to that, but he hadn't been in touch anyway after getting what he'd been after so easily. This in turn made my wife feel dirty and used and we had a few quiet days where I had to re-assure her that I still loved her with all my heart and no real harm had been done. I'd wanted to do it, she'd wanted to try a young cock and he'd wanted and got some mature, married pussy. It was win-win-win all round.

Hindsight is a wonderful thing, but looking back I should have held my nerve and let things develop. He did turn up again hoping for another session, but she turned him down. I wish now they'd have become regular lovers fulfilling her desire for a young toy boy as her "bit on the side" that she could "train up". Gradually though, I wanted her to do it again and would occasionally suggest it. It took over 9 years for her to go from, "I'm not going down that road again", to "Maybe" to "Are you sure you could handle it this time?". We were both older and wiser now, in a strong, trusting relationship, and with the advent of the Internet, social media and dating websites, my wife dipped her toe in the water again.

This time was more successful for both of us. She got more cock, 2 more eager young lads in their 20s (she was 44), two ex-work colleagues of mine and her mate's step-dad all got my wife into bed and I did indeed handle it better. Sadly though, she became more secretive, perhaps preferring the sex when she didn't have to come home and give me a blow-by-blow account and we became more like brother and sister, than husband and wife. In out last year together, we didn't have sex at all, at least not with each other and we split up in 2012, divorcing 2 years later. Whether her cuckolding me brought this about I wouldn't like to say. Maybe indirectly, but I certainly don't regret it. The fact that I still visit cuckold websites years later shows you that it still interests me and yes, I still miss it. I have a new, much younger girlfriend now, who I doubt will ever cuckold me, but I'd let her. I want her to.

[MacCuckold]

Long time ago when our marriage was almost over my wife looking for any excuse to leave her from me and she went to coffee with her friend in Dublin…3 hours later I got message Honey I won’t be back to home I stay with him for night… can you imagine my feeling I cursed her wanted call her by slut whore etc but I was very excited I remember this I was working I couldn’t sleep I said how much love her and I realise how I like this cuckold feeling and maybe even her one night out save us. Don’t know maybe yes maybe not but since this moment I knew what exactly exciting me more than sex with her 

[MacCuckold]

5 hours ago, Peter C said:

I found that reality is different to the fantasy, mainly because at first you forget that there is now a third party involved and as much as might discuss various scenarios with your wife beforehand, there will be occasions when the other guy wants and feels different things.

I won't pretend everything always worked out perfectly once my wife started cuckolding. We'd talked about it for over 2 years before this young guy came along, a customer at the shop where she was assistant manageress. They dated and they fucked and at the time it was amazing. She told me all about it when she came home, as we made love, and I was over the moon that my wife was now "unfaithful", though that wasn't a word we ever used. Nor was "cheating", as this had been my idea from the start. My wife was just "naughty".

A couple of days later though, the cuckold angst really kicked it. Was he bigger than me? Was he better in bed? Would she leave me for him? She said no to all 3 questions, but like a fool I still asked her not to see him again. She agreed to that, but he hadn't been in touch anyway after getting what he'd been after so easily. This in turn made my wife feel dirty and used and we had a few quiet days where I had to re-assure her that I still loved her with all my heart and no real harm had been done. I'd wanted to do it, she'd wanted to try a young cock and he'd wanted and got some mature, married pussy. It was win-win-win all round.

Hindsight is a wonderful thing, but looking back I should have held my nerve and let things develop. He did turn up again hoping for another session, but she turned him down. I wish now they'd have become regular lovers fulfilling her desire for a young toy boy as her "bit on the side" that she could "train up". Gradually though, I wanted her to do it again and would occasionally suggest it. It took over 9 years for her to go from, "I'm not going down that road again", to "Maybe" to "Are you sure you could handle it this time?". We were both older and wiser now, in a strong, trusting relationship, and with the advent of the Internet, social media and dating websites, my wife dipped her toe in the water again.

This time was more successful for both of us. She got more cock, 2 more eager young lads in their 20s (she was 44), two ex-work colleagues of mine and her mate's step-dad all got my wife into bed and I did indeed handle it better. Sadly though, she became more secretive, perhaps preferring the sex when she didn't have to come home and give me a blow-by-blow account and we became more like brother and sister, than husband and wife. In out last year together, we didn't have sex at all, at least not with each other and we split up in 2012, divorcing 2 years later. Whether her cuckolding me brought this about I wouldn't like to say. Maybe indirectly, but I certainly don't regret it. The fact that I still visit cuckold websites years later shows you that it still interests me and yes, I still miss it. I have a new, much younger girlfriend now, who I doubt will ever cuckold me, but I'd let her. I want her to.

It’s a beautiful true and honest story Thank You for sharing with us  it’s always risky but for me it’s worth to take the risk even if she could leave me forever.Yes it’s a choice but it’s worst scenario and whatever gonna happens I can pay high price.So far she is exciting than bull which she didn’t meet him it’s over 5 y older and happy that he know how to treat women and know how to make them pleasures.

[MacCuckold]

There is actually one thing I would add now always is risk what if they love each other of course bull said me he is not interested but my wife before she was with relationship and I was like bull who fly on holiday and we fucking each other then we fall in love and she finish relationship with him and she came to me to Ireland so like you see always is risky lol but more exciting it’s fact that this bull looking for relationship with woman just for fuck so she will be keep back to him.I dream about it over 10y and suddenly I feel little fear that she be addicted from him you know better sex etc but cuckold it’s very important for me !!!

[Peter C]

21 hours ago, MacCuckold said:

Long time ago when our marriage was almost over my wife looking for any excuse to leave her from me and she went to coffee with her friend in Dublin…3 hours later I got message Honey I won’t be back to home I stay with him for night… can you imagine my feeling I cursed her wanted call her by slut whore etc but I was very excited I remember this I was working I couldn’t sleep I said how much love her and I realise how I like this cuckold feeling and maybe even her one night out save us. Don’t know maybe yes maybe not but since this moment I knew what exactly exciting me more than sex with her 

Did your wife fuck her friend in Dublin or just stay the night at his house?

[MacCuckold]

2 hours ago, Peter C said:

Did your wife fuck her friend in Dublin or just stay the night at his house?

Friend fuck her all night in his house and she back to home next morning 

[athlete951]

On 6/12/2021 at 1:37 PM, HavaWho said:

Now we know that every guy starts out with their cuckold fantasy first before broaching the subject to their wife . The fantasy is just amazing and becomes all consuming . You think about it when you are having sex with your wife and you think about it when masturbating and it’s what you watch when you are looking at porn . 
 

But, has anyone finally gotten their wife to agree to cuckold you and you notice that the reality is way different than your fantasy ? Do you regret putting your plan to action ? What about your wife ? Does she have any lasting regrets ? What if you did it and didn’t like it in reality, did it affect your marriage in any way ? Does your wife think less of you now ? Inquiring minds want to know ! 

Speaking from a bull's perspective, I've never had one of my couples say that they regretted getting involved in the lifestyle, but every .one also admitted that there were ups and downs.  Almost all of my experiences have been long-term and steady relationships with the couples, so what that brings is time to explore and evolve.  One night stands, while fun, are relatively shallow events.  The nature of our relationship and sessions are different at a month in than they were that first night.  Similarly, they continue to evolve, so they are different (and better) three months, six months, a year, etc. later.

While none of my couples have regretted, I have met other couples who did.  Generally those were unhealthy marriages to begin with and the lifestyle simply @@@@@@@ those issues.  A lot of times it is husbands who are pushing their wives to do it not for her pleasure and needs, but rather than themselves.  To me that's the absolute worst mindset.

So I will end by saying that it is totally normal to be nervous going into the lifestyle.  The best approach is to be open with your wife and have good communication.  Openly discuss what you both want, don't want, etc.  Only go where and as far as you are both comfortable.  Find a partner that you both like, etc.

Happy to discuss further and answer any questions that you have.

[Naughty Nicki]

On 6/12/2021 at 1:37 PM, HavaWho said:

Now we know that every guy starts out with their cuckold fantasy first before broaching the subject to their wife . The fantasy is just amazing and becomes all consuming . You think about it when you are having sex with your wife and you think about it when masturbating and it’s what you watch when you are looking at porn . 
 

But, has anyone finally gotten their wife to agree to cuckold you and you notice that the reality is way different than your fantasy ? Do you regret putting your plan to action ? What about your wife ? Does she have any lasting regrets ? What if you did it and didn’t like it in reality, did it affect your marriage in any way ? Does your wife think less of you now ? Inquiring minds want to know ! 

Are you asking for advice, or just asking for conversation but the reality of is is and will always be completely different than you fantasize.  We have know several couples, solid to the core couples who are no longer together because of it and we know couples that make it look so easy, the trick to it all is communicating.  I can say it enough communication communication  communication!!!  That way you both know what you want and expect and what each other wants and expects from the experience.  You both must be 100 percent open and honest with yourself and each other. 

[secondjag]

55 minutes ago, Naughty Nicki said:

Are you asking for advice, or just asking for conversation but the reality of is is and will always be completely different than you fantasize.  We have know several couples, solid to the core couples who are no longer together because of it and we know couples that make it look so easy, the trick to it all is communicating.  I can say it enough communication communication  communication!!!  That way you both know what you want and expect and what each other wants and expects from the experience.  You both must be 100 percent open and honest with yourself and each other. 

can NOT say it any better than that!

[Naughty Nicki]

2 minutes ago, secondjag said:

can NOT say it any better than that!

Thank you. 

[Naughty Nicki]

16 minutes ago, secondjag said:

can NOT say it any better than that!

But it’s true though, people people would talk and lay their feelings on the table they wouldn’t get hurt

[secondjag]

9 minutes ago, Naughty Nicki said:

But it’s true though, people people would talk and lay their feelings on the table they wouldn’t get hurt

Wild Thing, I think I love you..., come on, hold me tight

[Naughty Nicki]

9 minutes ago, secondjag said:

Wild Thing, I think I love you..., come on, hold me tight

🤗🤗🤗

[HavaWho]

On 6/16/2021 at 7:29 AM, Naughty Nicki said:

Are you asking for advice, or just asking for conversation but the reality of is is and will always be completely different than you fantasize.  We have know several couples, solid to the core couples who are no longer together because of it and we know couples that make it look so easy, the trick to it all is communicating.  I can say it enough communication communication  communication!!!  That way you both know what you want and expect and what each other wants and expects from the experience.  You both must be 100 percent open and honest with yourself and each other. 

Just looking for conversation . I am curious as to what experiences couples have had . 

[Naughty Nicki]

1 hour ago, HavaWho said:

Just looking for conversation . I am curious as to what experiences couples have had . 

Gotcha, we have been in the swinging lifestyle since 03’ and I guess more teetering somewhat toward cuckolding over the last few years or really I guess more hotwife or stag/vixen than cuckolding because he not only enjoys and encourages me to play but he free to play as well just doesn’t nearly as often as I do. 

[secondjag]

5 hours ago, Naughty Nicki said:

Gotcha, we have been in the swinging lifestyle since 03’ and I guess more teetering somewhat toward cuckolding over the last few years or really I guess more hotwife or stag/vixen than cuckolding because he not only enjoys and encourages me to play but he free to play as well just doesn’t nearly as often as I do. 

mmm, ooooo that ass 😈😼😈

[Kaktuscpl]

2 hours ago, secondjag said:

mmm, ooooo that ass 😈😼😈

Yes sir

[Bimarried001]

This is one of my favorite topics. It brings reality to the subject. 
I some folks come on here just spewing fantasy. 
My experience worked out well, but I always tell of how nerve wracking that first night was. All kinds of negative thoughts entered my mind. Non of me being jealous or Doubting I could handle it.
But doubting if my wife really wanted this. Did she hate doing it but just did it to shut me up from asking her to do it? Would hate me for making her do it? Would she think of me of less than a man for asking her to do it?

But final results was that she enjoyed it and we expanded from one bull to several. Most of my fantasies came through with little or no drama. 
 

But I do know that’s not the case for all cuckold relationships.