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It could be interesting to compare notes - I do agree. And I accept that sex and coffee don't really go together!

I guess "watching" as opposed to joining in is popular with many in addition to my husband. He, too, loved there to be lots of kissing, foreplay and petting for him to watch as well.

Trust all went well Molly. I guess staying a whole night without "Bob" being there makes things quite different from our experiences. Maybe it's to be preferred but even when I spent the night with someone of my husband's choosing, he would be there in the same bed to watch and encourage. He would join in to an extent by playing with my body whilst I was having sex - he particularly liked pinching or pulling my nipples - but he only wanted me penetrated by the other person. But his being there made it something involving both of us rather than excluding him. Everyone is different and Bob may prefer not to be there - you intimated this possibility - but I would encourage you to make sure this is what he wants. I'm sure if he feels excluded this won't be good for your relationship. Oh, and as for "James" wanting your nude photos posted - I see that as a sign that he wants to demonstrate to the world his "ownership" of your body. Post away - it's a turn on, I know but do be careful to make sure "James" knows you are doing this as your choice and not his.

When someone's approaching their climax you can always tell. They try to push deeper inside you as their bodies tense up just as they start to cum and then they hold onto you quite tight as they pump inside you until their climax subsides. I often wondered if that was done to satisfy my husband's requests that the cum inside me or it was something that nature compels them to do: some sort of inbuilt urge in a man to get as much of his seed as deep inside you as possible?

Not the entire team - and it was soccer not rugby!

But on that occasion I guess he couldn't have had any "breeding" in mind for me!

I'm not so sure he thought of it that way. I think it turned him on to watch - and that was the big thing. But I also think there was an element of his enjoying his ability to control and it's fair to say that it also made him popular with his friends!

Many of us get pleasure out of giving pleasure. and by doing what he wanted I felt good about myself as well.

If he asked - yes. He did want me to kneel but he preferred me to lick him "back there" while he lay on the bed with his knees raised up and legs spread apart masturbating himself. That way he was in more control and could make himself last for ages before climaxing. My jaw could sometimes ache before he finally came.

I can see it could be a good idea to have a full discussion about everything beforehand. My own experience of that first time was very much more a "spur of the moment" thing. But I do think it a very good thing that "Bob" will be with you. I think you'll find his presence a support and if you haven't had sex in front of someone else before you'll find that quite an experience, too. It may be that you'll find "Bob" gets real excited by watching - my husband certainly did. He held my hand that first time - whilst his friend was inside me. That was a reassuring thing but his excitement certainly overcame him as his friend sped up towards his climax and my husband urged him to "fuck her hard"... "cum inside her". So, you see, they can get carried away with their own excitement! You take my best wishes with you, by the way. Have fun.

Good on her for being so bold - it looks like she enjoyed it no end. And I loved seeing that anklet on her there: my husband bought one for me, too.

Hi Molly. Was wondering how your thoughts are developing and whether you'd like to update us?

Apologies for duplicate posting