If your wife says she enjoys anal, she is lying or you are making it up. No woman likes anal, period. It hurts, and it is discomfortable afterwards. Having said that, most women likes to be dominated, and to be told what to do. I used to ask for anal when we started, but i guess i was too polite in asking, so really had no luck.. i know she doesnt like it, but ive seen her having anal sex with her friend more then once, specially when she is drunk and let him impose things for her.. as a fact, i know she doesnt like it.. but pleasing him comes first i guess..