captainblack

MadMajor, I like how you artfully leave the core question open for debate. By the silence on this thread it would seem you and I are the only ones on the board who have heard the term "Mad as a hatter", and know it's origin. I look forward to next year when you make port of call in the USA and we can pop round to one of New York's fine pubs for a pint. CB

I can say that I treat a HW differently depending on the situation, her mood, and her general personality. I had a HW who always deeply needed to be degraded. She would sometimes cum just from being verbally degraded, or being ordered to show her tits, ass, or pussy to my business associates. So once I learned what she needed I gave it to her, but of course there were limits. I would not treat her that way around family or friends. She had a secret desire for that treatement but did not want it to get back to her "normal circle of friends". There is another that I only ever treated like a lady out of the bedroom, but who needed all sorts of "nasty" in the bedroom. So she got what she needed as well. A good bull knows how to judge the people he is with and how to be properly assertive for the people and the situation. I have always subscribed to the notion that the biggest sex organ is located between the ears! If I can not mentally stimulate my partner, and she me then maybe it will be an ok shag once or twice, but then it gets old. I want my HW to want to see me, even if she knows she is not going to have sex on that get together. To do that I have to stimulate her mind, and of course for me to want to see her she has to figure out how to stimulate my mind as well. CB

I rarely have cucks watch, but enjoy just letting them listen because I find it usually has a larger effect on many than watching and after all I have to look out for the cuck as well or I am not doing my job. CB

So is the Major upset about something, or has he been @@@@@@@ to too much quicksilver in a hat factory someplace? One thing is for sure he is a prolific poster. It means his sailboat must be in port with a good wifi connection! So I think we should take his port time with access to the internet to postulate why he is the MadMajor....who knows he might even jump in the thread and tell us so we do not have to guess! Please folks keep your replies and comments about civil! CB Neither a Major, nor mad.....well I guess it is pretty hard to prove that last bit when it comes to me.

I am not particularly into feet, but I often specify mani/pedi colors and styles. CB

One can be the alpha male in the situation without buggering the cuck. Buggering other men does not an alpha male make, in fact my last HW could have cared less if her husband was buggered by a FemDom with a strapon, but she would never submit to, let alone have sex with any man who did other men. I always found that odd in that she was bi, but she said bi men grossed her out. No matter though they both knew the power vector was ME -> Her -> him. Being the alpha male is not related to having homosexual realtions with the cuck. Now if the bull is bisexual, then I guess the cuck has to expect to get buggered, or convince his wife that she needs to find another bull. In 30% of the situations I have been involved with or known of first hand the wife was the sole vote in who the bull was. In 10% it was actually the man who decided, and the majority they both discussed it and came to an agreement. Reading this board there seem to be a large number of Bi cucks here. My usual way of dealing with a Bicuck is to see that he gets to properly used by someone from time to time, but since as I said I am not into guys that someone will not be me. So any wives on here looking for an alpha male who is actually straight you know where to find me. If you require a BiBull as this thread has shown you know where to find him as well. CB

Major, You honor me sir. CB

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Major, Actually now that I recall that was not the first meet. It was the second. We three met over coffee a few weeks prefious and discussed my setting up a GB for her. So while I had never seen her naked before, or laid hands on her before she at least knew me and we had been excahnging messages for weeks by that time. I try to avoid having first meets where someone could feel they were being attacked! CB

Major- You will note that my comments are never so base as you describe. I may say something like fine ass, or great tits, but I do not feel that is at all base for a forum such as this. I look at the comments such as you mention as those of either immature or not properly socialized males, I can not properly call them men. It has been my experience that one does not need to be impolite to be dominant. I am sure if you asked any HW I have been with who was the dominant one in the relationship that they would confirm that it was me. Have I addressed wives in a very base way? Yes I have. I had a HW once that got off on being called degrading names, even in front of others. I found this out over time. I did not make initial contact by saying "Love to fuck your dripping cunt slut". While she has moved, if she rings up and I am alone I will still answer the phone "Hello slut", and she has admitted to me it still makes her moist to hear me address her like that. IMHO there is no reason for a real alpha male to not adhear to normal socially accepted polite behaviour. So MM as I have said privately should you ever make NYC a port of call I would love to go for coffee or drinks with the two of you and see what develops. CB

Well Matt I have said on more than one occasion set things up for us to meet. Send me a private message on here and we can arrange to meet first. This will let you and I discuss her without her being about, then you can arrange for the three of us to meet and I will take it from there. I am very serious. CB

Arrange to grab coffee with me so that we can set the groundwork for my taking her on your wedding night. CB

Major- I think the current trend to total shaven cunts is because it eliminates the hair for oral purposes. I first started seeing lovers who were bi shaving their cunts and they all said it was because they prefered to lick shaved pussy, so they shaved their own. CB

I am not into guys, so even if the cuck or his wife desperatly want him to "warm me up" it is not happening, and would probably have the opposite effect if the attempt were made. I do not find the male body attractive in the least. Living in New York City I have had more than my fair share of gay men hit on me over the years, so I know there is no way a cuck trying to get physical will get me going in the least. Now what I can find enjoyable would be the wife teasing a bound cuck before and during my play with the wife. CB

Major- Most of the time my first meetings are in pubs or coffee shops, so I want the wife in a skirt or dress, looking sexy, but not slutty, so for those things I tend to not go too short on the skirt. The one time I had a first meet at a couples home she was freshly bathed and naked on the couch as I walked in. She had no idea I was coming, but her husband arranged for her to be just out of the shower and in the living room as I walked in the front door. I said nothing, just walked over to her and put one hand on a breast and the other on her cunt. She knew right away what I was there for and before long she was begging for the main course. CB

Major- I prefer my wives freshly bathed, no prefume or strong scents, shaved or waxed where needed, including her pussy, light makeup, in a dress or skirt/blouse that is attractive, but not slutty. If she is not above a C cup I prefer no bra, and with all I prefer no panties, but stockings are fine, just not panty hose. Her hair should be as she thinks will be attractive, her shoes should be both smart and walkable as here in New York City walking is a prime mode of transport and if I decide that she and I are heading from the coffee shop or pub I do not want a situation where she goes 500 feet and can not walk any further. CB

Well I am not exactly old, and have no trouble going for a very long time. CB

Goring, would that be like shagging? I am not sure we speak the same language in the colonies. CB

Well I have grey in my beard.......hint hint. CB

Bad experiences . no shows at first meets . gay men claiming to be the straight male part of a couple then turning up without a female at a first meet . folks that spend lots of time chatting on line, then disappear when plans are made to meet. CB

MadMajor, Thank you for shedding light on this for me. CB

The Major is absolutly correct. CB

Do you know what you do with a wife if you bag one? CB

Well I think I have found a reason to visit India one day. CB

Just send her my way and the dry spell will be over. I will make sure she is wet most of the time! CB