One of my buddies has always been into the hot wife lifestyle even though his wife has been not so much . Before they got married we all got pretty drunk one night and he pretended to sleep and she came in to me and I have her a good shagging while he laid on the couch with one eye open . That was 25 years ago . He told me that their sex life was boring as hell after they got married . She wouldn't do anything freaky at all . Well last year my buddy had some health problems and long story short his equipment doesn't work so well anymore . After years of my friend trying to get his wife to hot wife with him now she is only doing it because his stuff doesn't work . She never even told him ,he just confronted her one night when some young dude dropped her off and she had spunk in her hair. He feels bad about it because he was always ok with it but now he feels betrayed because she is only fuckingr guys because of his inability to service her anymore. Does anyone else understand or relate to this ? What can I say to him ? She still doesn't let him watch or partake which is killing him and he is contemplating divorce despite their 6 kids together .