First time about to happen this month, pretty nervous!

[HotPaarTGD]

Since I've had this fantasy of seeing my wife having sex with other men for a long time, and reading posts and stories here has really supported me into understanding what it is and also helped me to actually try to make it really happen, I decided to write about us and open this topic. Perhaps it can help someone else to achieve his fantasy.

First as some background information, my wife is pretty small and slim, petite would cover it, with long dreadlocks. I'm off average height and weight with long hair. We're both from the more alternative scene, metal, gothic, electronic (as long as its loud), etc. Professionally we are suits however. We've been together for 10 years, married for 3 of those years. About 2 years into our relationship we had a couple of threesomes, one-time things, always with a second man as extra. It gave us a lot of fun and also broadened our sexual horizon. She was unsure at first but really quickly came round to the idea of a threesome. A couple of things happened then. First of all, I realized I got really aroused just seeing my own girlfriend suck another cock with real gusto. It was really clear she also enjoyed sucking other cocks, then proudly showing him, and then me, her mouth full of cum before swallowing it. I enjoyed it even more when the other guy was going for a second round to also fuck her pussy. It somehow mesmerized me watching another cock fuck my girlfriend. I'd happily spread her legs or her ass cheeks for another man and I think I enjoyed it even more when he would fuck her.

Another thing that happened was that I started to have fantasies about also sucking a cock. The men we had threesomes with were very hetero so there was no possibility to try it out there. Eventually I actually did it though. I found a guy online, my girlfriend encouraged me to try it, while she went out shopping. Just to familiarize myself with it. I was amazed how much I liked it, my own cock leaked pre-cum continuously while I actually sucked another man's cock until he came in my mouth. 

And finally, the last thing that developed, were fantasies. My girlfriend started to have fantasies about having not only me and another man in a threesome, but to have 5 or 6 men wanting her and fucking her, taking turns, or multiple at a time. Sometimes her fantasies included her being bound to the bed and/or being blindfolded, never knowing who fucked her. We never got to fulfill that fantasy yet, but it really turned me on that my girlfriend had such great fantasies!

Then we got married and got children. All of the above came to a halt about 5 years ago. There were some intense times involving hospitals, moving, losing jobs etc. Our sex life disintegrated. Somehow we survived all that however. Which brings me to the near present. About a year ago we got a little bit of a settled life back, and my sexual desires came back. I started looking online again at sites like this one and dating sites. I wanted to find men for my wife. Her libido came back a little slower, young children have that effect on mothers. But it came back too, only she was a little more inhibited. She immediately admitted to having her fantasies again but to make them real... Health was the issue. We want another child in some years and she doesn't want to risk a disease and lose that possibility. So to make a long story short, multiple men is still far away.

So I got the idea of getting cuckolded and have my wife find a steady boyfriend or house friend. I couldn't get her to find any though, so I started looking for her. And I found many interested men! I have to explain, we live in the black forest as you can see on my profile, so it's only little villages here. So there is also an issue she has with not wanting a man in the village or the next knowing that we as a couple look for a steady bull. Still, enough men to be found that are willing to drive a little distance. Then I created an email-address for my wife so she wouldn't have to use her regular one, so that she could start talking to these men, whom I also gave her new email-address. I told my wife that it is completely up to her. She can first write, or share phone numbers and call, or actually meet each other to get to know some of these men. Everything was allowed, I would stay home with the kids...

Nothing happened. She found it very arousing to have such freedom, but somehow the step to actually start this, first contact. Was to big for her. So then I decided to switch tactics. Instead of her cuckolding me, I decided to share my wife. I contacted a man whose photograph (face) she liked. I gave him our address, as a sign of good faith and asked him when he could come visit us. Then I told my wife. She was really shocked! And became very horny!

So that's where we stand now. Next week on Wednesday, November 22nd, this man is coming to visit us. If my wife likes him, we might have a very exciting evening!!

 

[Enigma6320]

Hope that it goes well for you both

[HotPaarTGD]

Thank you!  We do too!

I just realized that with my above post I didn't mean to somehow compare cuckolding with wifesharing. Since I mention it in the last part. I only did that to nudge my wife in the right direction, and specifically selected a man she told me about that she liked.

I do hope from here it does go more in the direction of cuckolding. I really hope she likes him and will start dating him too, while I stay at home to babysit the kids. Waiting for some messages, pictures maybe, and finally her coming home, all used. But also for example things like having to suck him while they watch a movie together, kiss, talk, and share a glass of wine, meanwhile keeping my mouth cocklocked. 

[alexdumont]

You might try adding her posing for you at home after the kids are in bed - in lingerie, nude, erotic, spread, etc. And encourage her to send them to her prospective boyfriend(s). Diane gets very excited posing for me. Puts herself in touch with herself, I think. And keep sucking cock. I find each man to be a learning experience for me. Not to mention damned delicious!

[SirJohnWright]

Sound great to me, i would also love to meet her.

Can i come in contact with you?

[Seductive Thoughts]

Sorry for the health issues but glad you've stood by your dear wife. Since you desire another child, and since your wife responds to other men, and since it seems natural for you to step aside as other men take your wife, would you be open to a virile, hung stud impregnating her?

[joelhwood]

keep us posted --- enjoying your journey

[HotPaarTGD]

On 17-11-2017 at 12:34 PM, alexdumont said:

You might try adding her posing for you at home after the kids are in bed - in lingerie, nude, erotic, spread, etc. And encourage her to send them to her prospective boyfriend(s). Diane gets very excited posing for me. Puts herself in touch with herself, I think. And keep sucking cock. I find each man to be a learning experience for me. Not to mention damned delicious!

Thank you Alex, posing for sexy pictures might help a lot. Maybe not a topic that is discusses much, but what a couple of pregnancies does to a woman's body does leave a mark, regarding self-worth and self-confidence. Which are both, I think, strongly linked to her feeling of (still) being sexy. That has in fact been a strong motive for me, help her regain her sexual self-confidence. I didn't think of posing for pictures since she might be averse to them. But to help things along, once the contact goes well and our date on wednesday is indeed interested in her (and she in him), that might speed things along.

As to the cock sucking, I would really love to try it again, but I also realize the chances are slim, at first. My wife probably wants his cock and his cum. Maybe later if he is indeed house-friend material, is in need of an orgasm but my wife is busy/away etc. Then I can help her boyfriend (lover?) by sucking his cock. But who knows, maybe my wife will expect it from me once the relationship between her and our date solidifies. 

[HotPaarTGD]

On 17-11-2017 at 3:33 PM, SirJohnWright said:

Sound great to me, i would also love to meet her.

Can i come in contact with you?

I see no reason why not, although for physical contact you'd need to live more or less in the area for it to be able to develop into  regular contact. And as I said, due to health issues, for now my wife is not interested in one night stands or such. 

[HotPaarTGD]

On 17-11-2017 at 6:35 PM, Seductive Thoughts said:

Sorry for the health issues but glad you've stood by your dear wife. Since you desire another child, and since your wife responds to other men, and since it seems natural for you to step aside as other men take your wife, would you be open to a virile, hung stud impregnating her?

Hi,

An interest for a virile, hung stud, especially if you can visit us regularly, is certainly there. We however have no impregnation fantasies. Getting pregnant has proven to be problematic, and especially the pregnancies. That's why we've had long hospital stays. That takes a lot of the fun and desire away. Our lusts in this regard are purely sexual and psychological, not at are regarding actual procreation. We have of course spoken about potential pregnancies. If it would happen, we would raise the child as our own. We wouldn't do a DNA test, just accept that my wife is pregnant. To be clear, although I, as you say, naturally and even happily step aside for other men, and really enjoy seeing my wife have sex with other men, I do also have sex with her myself. It wouldn't be unlikely that I would actually be the father anyway.

[HotPaarTGD]

19 hours ago, joelhwood said:

keep us posted --- enjoying your journey

To the first, I will!, To the second, I sure hope we will enjoy it too, but even if things turn out to be disappointing, I will report on it. Like I wrote, maybe somebody can learn from how we find our way to our fantasy. Or not, and learn from that. But I expect very exciting evenings!

[alexdumont]

Be 100% supportive, and they will be, both in restoring her faith in herself as a very desirable woman, and yours in an eager and hungry cuckold.

[Joys]

So, how did it go on November 22nd?? Please keep us posted

[HotPaarTGD]

Hi, a bit of bad luck, my wife developped sinusitus (forehead inflamation?) so we cancelled the date. Hopefully it is now on, next wednesday, the 6th of December! I will write about it when now it does happen.

[Joys]

On 12/1/2017 at 11:51 PM, HotPaarTGD said:

Hi, a bit of bad luck, my wife developped sinusitus (forehead inflamation?) so we cancelled the date. Hopefully it is now on, next wednesday, the 6th of December! I will write about it when now it does happen.

Hope she's well and hope to hear about it soon

[Hubby1000]

On 11/18/2017 at 5:13 PM, HotPaarTGD said:

Hi,

An interest for a virile, hung stud, especially if you can visit us regularly, is certainly there. We however have no impregnation fantasies. Getting pregnant has proven to be problematic, and especially the pregnancies. That's why we've had long hospital stays. That takes a lot of the fun and desire away. Our lusts in this regard are purely sexual and psychological, not at are regarding actual procreation. We have of course spoken about potential pregnancies. If it would happen, we would raise the child as our own. We wouldn't do a DNA test, just accept that my wife is pregnant. To be clear, although I, as you say, naturally and even happily step aside for other men, and really enjoy seeing my wife have sex with other men, I do also have sex with her myself. It wouldn't be unlikely that I would actually be the father anyway.

Using another man to impregnate your wife is hot and sometimes the only option for a baby..and of course you should be blessed to raise the child as your own..the one particular aspect that does come to mind is ensuring the the biofather understands that he is a sperm donor in this regard and that you and your wife have full legal custody of the child..with your name on the birth certificate and all...best to both of in the decisions you make...and always let your hotwife know you are there for her...no matter who she breeds with..

[UK_EX]

On 12/1/2017 at 8:51 PM, HotPaarTGD said:

Hi, a bit of bad luck, my wife developped sinusitus (forehead inflamation?) so we cancelled the date. Hopefully it is now on, next wednesday, the 6th of December! I will write about it when now it does happen.

So, any update over December and January?

[Marty]

How did it go

[CuckoldFart]

 

[HotPaarTGD]

Sometimes you lose momentum. Luckily a good fantasy doesn't just die off but just keeps coming back

Although it didn't come to a date yet, my wife and I have been talking more and more about it and she is really getting more into the fantasie as well! Foremost being that she would really like to be used as a sex object by some man. Her ultimate fantasie being blindfolded and having her hands tied behind her back and me letting an (to her) unknown number of men into the room. Hinting at a maximum of about  5 men. First she has to give them all a blowjob and have them cum in her mouth and then the rules are off, just letting them use her anyway they like, without her ever knowing who they are. At some time her hands are untied so she can satisfy more men at the same time but she'd like the blindfold to stay on. Also I'm not allowed to join in, just watch. Then, when all the men are all spend, all the men leave, I take off her blindfold and I finally get the chance to reclaim her.  

We're pretty far from that ultimate fantasy to happen haha! But it is a hot fantasy I'd really like to see happen some day!

Another interesting shift in fantasies is that I would really like to suck a cock until it comes in my mouth, and to be honest, to my surprise, my wife admitted she would really like to see that. So I asked her what she would like more, see me suck a cock untill I get a mouthfull or lick her clean after another man fucked her. I was a bit shocked that she would much prefer the latter. Which is really surprising to me because she doesn't like to have her pussy licked (not just by me, also her ex's), she says it's just to sensitive for her. On the one hand I was really happy because I would really like to really lick her pussy (which I haven't been able to because of said sensitivity), on the other hand, the thought of licking another man's cum from her pussy does somehow not really appeal to me at the moment. Which also confuses me a little because I do like the fantasy of a man cumming in my mouth. Mixed feelings there that I do not really understand. 

Meanwhile I have found another man living nearby who would really like to use my wife, let me suck him dry AND have me clean them both up after they have fucked... I'm hoping to set up a date next week so that my wife gets to know him, if she's game, it's on! So hopefully it really is a man living nearby, because thusfar we only had contact online. Keeping my fingers crossed.

Just trying to get the fantasy into a reality

[HotPaarTGD]

A hopefull development, the man I mentioned in the above post, send a picture and my wife wasn't displeased at all! She could totally agree with him having her. I also send him a picture of us and he also wasn't turned of by us, which is also quite important.

Interestingly enough however, my wife still seems to interpret the whole adventure as a fantasy. As if I just took a picture from someone on the internet and proposed a fantasy. When I noticed this I told her I really contacted the guy and as far as I can tell, he is real. My wife reacted only with: "you really want this don't you?" And I said "Yes!, don't you?" She admitted she also finds it very hot if the fantasy becomes reality. At the same time, I sensed some kind of inhibition, or irritation from her, and she said "but now I just want you to want me". I feel we reached a tipping point here. She wants it, but is also afraid I'm not attracted to her somehow, only to the fantasy. Which is partly true. The fantasy is so strong, it has a high attraction rate. But it's not as if I find my wife less attractive, to the contrary. 

Any tips, or help are of course welcome!

Hopefully we will be able to have our real first date next week or the week after that, assuming my wife still wants to continue, despite said doubts, and the guy is indeed real and not just a picture.

I will update when things develop

 

[joelhwood]

keep at it- slowly- and surely-- watch cuckold porn-- maybe a visit to an AMT  with gloryoles --- its all good--- go slow and steady--- keep us posted - you are so lucky and hot- wish i was there to help you and service both of you 

[Joys]

22 hours ago, HotPaarTGD said:

At the same time, I sensed some kind of inhibition, or irritation from her, and she said "but now I just want you to want me". I feel we reached a tipping point here. She wants it, but is also afraid I'm not attracted to her somehow, only to the fantasy. Which is partly true. The fantasy is so strong, it has a high attraction rate. But it's not as if I find my wife less attractive, to the contrary. 

This sounds so much familiar to me, "but now I just want you to want me"... When I discussed this with my wife, she also thought it was because I didn't want her anymore and because I didn't want to have sex with her, I wanted her to find someone else. It took a lot of persuasion to convince her that was not the case. She also wants it as fantasy but afraid to make it happen. We should find a way to convince our wives, that we still find them attractive and this would make it much more