How Do I Tell My Wife I Want Her To Fuck Other Men

[Paul Ramsey]

I need help. I am 54 and my wife is 51, and she is still very hot. We have been married 25 years. How can I raise this topic with her for the first time in a way that will not leave me cringing in shame (or her thinking I am insane) if she reacts negatively? I have fantasized about this for years, but am getting more desperate about screwing up the courage to raise it.

[1stexhub]

If your wife is someone who is totally committed to you and your marriage I doubt anything short of you dying would make her want another man for sex. If on the other hand she is feeling older and maybe not as attractive tell her how lucky you are to have her as your wife. Then plant the seed and say I bet a lot of guys would want to be with you, adding you have noticed how other men look at her when you are out.

[toolman2c]

I need help. I am 54 and my wife is 51, and she is still very hot. We have been married 25 years. How can I raise this topic with her for the first time in a way that will not leave me cringing in shame (or her thinking I am insane) if she reacts negatively? I have fantasized about this for years, but am getting more desperate about screwing up the courage to raise it.

 

[jcarringtonintx]

I started off by having her discuss past lovers she had before me while we had sex. Then i would tell her when we were out how other men looked at her, i also encouraged her to get phone numbers when she went out with her girlfriends. Finally it led to me telling her how much it turned me on hearing about her past and how much i wanted another man to fuck her

[toolman2c]

hello paul ramsey, good read, tell us more or me more in private if u wish.  U remind me of a hot fantasy i have of my wife,  she is very uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu, and what few hints i dropped taught me not to go there again.. 

[UK_EX]

If your wife is someone who is totally committed to you and your marriage I doubt anything short of you dying would make her want another man for sex. If on the other hand she is feeling older and maybe not as attractive tell her how lucky you are to have her as your wife. Then plant the seed and say I bet a lot of guys would want to be with you, adding you have noticed how other men look at her when you are out.

Sounds like a good approach.   I was lucky, when our best friend got  divorced, we started getting frisky with my wife - he started caressing her whenever I was out of the way.  Eventually, after we talked about it for many weeks, she wanted him so much and asked me if she could have him.

 

As you say, being part of a well settled marriage she probably won't be thinking about sex with someone else, but given the right encouragement, and the right new partner, she may well fulfill your fantasy.

 

You need to talk to her, about your fantasy, and about hers.  She will be more willing if you are not trying to force her to have someone else for your own pleasure, you need to be seen as wanting her to have pleasure with someone else, something you cannot or are unwilling to provide her perhaps?

 

Good luck

 

Bryan

[jimboslut]

Your asking the wrong person. What I did was after many years I got the courage and came right out and told her what I wanted. Many fights later and my still asking her occasionally I know now she knows it would be ok for her to fuck another man with my approval. Her initial reaction was I just wanted her to cheat so I could fuck another woman. I understand this is a very common reaction. As you and I both know that isn't the case. I think all women are different so good luck keep us informed.

[kumar412]

I need help. I am 54 and my wife is 51, and she is still very hot. We have been married 25 years. How can I raise this topic with her for the first time in a way that will not leave me cringing in shame (or her thinking I am insane) if she reacts negatively? I have fantasized about this for years, but am getting more desperate about screwing up the courage to raise it.

 

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[Oldercuck2]

My wife was 18 and I was 25 when we got married. She was not a virgin by any means but not a whore either. After a couple of years we started watching a lot of porn (8mm film back then) and when there was mfm sex on the screen I would play it up asking how she would like to have two cocks at once, one in her pussy and one in her mouth. I made sure she was very worked up wanting to get fucked before I played on the talk. I'd ask if another guy were here right now would you fuck him... As horny and hot as she was she would usually say yes she would fuck us both. Then there would be more similar talk as we screwed. After many such sessions I added that if she wanted she could fuck anyone she wanted to. And after some time of letting her know it was ok for her fuck around one night in bed when I told her it was ok to fuck someone else... she said "I did" and she didn't stop .  She fucked my best friend, she fucked her boss, she fucked my boss, she tended bar and would fuck guys after work then come home and sit on my face and make me clean her Cum filled cunt.  She turned into my personal porn star.   I loved it.......   

[mikefmBklyn]

I need help. I am 54 and my wife is 51, and she is still very hot. We have been married 25 years. How can I raise this topic with her for the first time in a way that will not leave me cringing in shame (or her thinking I am insane) if she reacts negatively? I have fantasized about this for years, but am getting more desperate about screwing up the courage to raise it.

Simplest way is to watch some MFM porn, or leave a porn mag or story about MFM. Then just mention that it sounds a bit exciting.

[Kaktuscpl]

How we ended up having a friend join us,and creampie my wife....was I would ask my wife about any fantasies she had ...and finally convinced her to tell me what they were.....Then I told her mine......I fantasized about sharing her with another man for a long time without telling her....because Ithought she would think I was fucked up/crazy....

 

I got really lucky,because her biggest fantasy was to be fucked by me and another man.....We chose a close friend to make it happen....we we're already sending him pics of my wife's boobs and pussy for about 6 or 7 months before anything happened....

 

Trying to hook up with him was a pain in the ass,as we lived in different towns,,,,,,the more I fantasized about the more turned on I/we got........my wife LOVES the feeling of cum shooting into her pussy....the deeper the better........We decided that if we were really go through with this that WE WANTED HIM TO CUM INSIDE HER PUSSY,

the more I read cuckold stories and watched videos........I started fantasizing about HER making me eat his cum from her pussy .....and got so excited and turned on by the idea.......I started thinking that if SHE asked/told me to,and our friend was OK with it...I would have cleaned him off too.........

 

I have always been straight....I don't know if it makes me bi-sexual or not.......most of the time I just want to watch thecum run out of her pussy......I never fantasize about another man...except the few times I have fantasized about her forcing me suck another cock/clean her cum filled pussy......I'm not sure if I would be able to go through with sucking a cock,,,,but I TRULY enjoy eating the cum from her pussy......I enjoy eating my own cum from her sometimes,,,,,but I sometimes loose the will to eat her creampie,even though that was the only thingI wanted to do while we were fucking......but after shooting my load ,I sort of felt guilty about it.....not ssure why because I love to eat pussy almost more than anything .....

 

Sorry if I rambled too much or if it doesn't help you......

 

Just talk to her and let her know how much you love her ......

I hope this answers your question and helps you and your wife....

 

As long as you DO NOT get jealous It will make you two closer,,,,at least it did for me and my wife

[Paul Ramsey]

Thanks everyone for your tips so far. I decided that I should just try the start out slowly route. My wife and I attended the PGA this morning at Baltusrol and she had on a fairly (but not too) short skirt. I told her a couple times that she looked really sexy, which she seemed to appreciate. I also told her a few times that guys were looking at her and checking her out. She seemed to like that. Anyway a start of sorts.   

 

Kaktuscpl: Thanks for your reply-I want my wife to fuck strangers not people we know. And I doubt that even if I ever got her into this she is going to let another man cum in her (nor would it be safe).  But if she ever did, I would certainly clean her up if she asked me too.. The main thing is I want to see her take a bigger cock than mine. I am 7" and fairly thick but a thick 8 or 9 incher would be awesome to watch her take.   

[Charrosexy]

Hi there future desperate cuck 2 be!

You need to tell her...when she´s the horniest...while fucking her...when she´s about to cum...tell her right then...that you want to watch...as she cums...all over a strange cock! ´D love to fuck her w/my big, dark cock! Mmm!

[SooRight]

If anyone is interested in trying to mentally seduce my gf through txt...   msg me.

Lets chat and figure out a plan of action.

 

Thanks

[Ray277737]

Reading the posts and thank to kulmar for the coaching manual too. but so many different ways and each woman is different. I had a girl friend who we started of as a normal couple (sure) but in two years I was encouraging andw atching her play around. My second wife different approach but when I confessed the situation with the girl friend she got quite interested. both cases a lot of pillow talk andno forcing.

[falcon50]

I need help. I am 54 and my wife is 51, and she is still very hot. We have been married 25 years. How can I raise this topic with her for the first time in a way that will not leave me cringing in shame (or her thinking I am insane) if she reacts negatively? I have fantasized about this for years, but am getting more desperate about screwing up the courage to raise it.

first try letting her watch porno, if she gets hot looking at another guys dick, ask her questions such as, would u like to try that, or do u think u could take that big hard dick.   if she answers yes to these, keep up the questions and after awhile, slowly bring the topic of u wanting to see her with that dick in her/.  

[bicouple]

My wife told me she wanted other mens cock

[RaggedyMan]

maybe you should just download a bunch of cuckold porn into your computer, stash it somewhere, and have her "accidentally" find it sometime, but i mean ALOT. Download videos, pictures, etc, and try to find actresses that kinda look like her. Hell even try to photoshop her face onto some of the pics, that should show her you have this fantasy with her. I'm sure she'll maybe listen

[dj190]

My wife told me she wanted other mens cock

Your wife has a nice looking ass, wish that was my cock fucking her.

[bilmarjen]

She will like the freedom to fuck other men, my wife does

[jcarringtonintx]

I would ask my wife about her past lovers while we had sex and she knew how excited i got so it was a natural progression asking her to fuck other guys

[NicoRuth]

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[sloppy1960]

Hi it has taken me two years to talk my wife into making me a cuckold, you have got to take it slowly.when I first told her I wanted her to puck another man she thought I had lost my mind or was saying it cos I wanted to fuck another woman.Now she has agreed she can't wait and she is the one that is always talking about when and where and who she is going to fuck, we both can't wait.

[SooRight]

If anyone can help me with my gf...  pm me or give me your kik info

[Madmajor]

On 26 July 2016 at 6:58 PM, Paul Ramsey said:

I need help. I am 54 and my wife is 51, and she is still very hot. We have been married 25 years. How can I raise this topic with her for the first time in a way that will not leave me cringing in shame (or her thinking I am insane) if she reacts negatively? I have fantasized about this for years, but am getting more desperate about screwing up the courage to raise it.

You will fail......l if you don't try.  So have a few drinks and then mention you read about it on the Internet and can see why couples let their wife have fun with other men.  Tell her the article said it was better than cheating on each other and a good way to rekindle a sexy steamy relationship with others.  Say it stated you must decide rules.  Ask her what rules she would insist on....