Louise Posted September 27, 2015 Report Share Posted September 27, 2015 Yes, the key is everyone has their own preferences. To me personally, I would not at all be comfortable with my wife meeting someone alone without me there. Of course I have a say in the matter, we are married and in this (and everything) together. We established early on that I had to be present when she hooked up with someone. At first even though she felt a LOT safer with me there, it was a little awkward for her to have me there in the room with them watching, so I watched from another room, however over time, she has not only become comfortable with me watching, she says it makes it a lot more exciting and a turn on for her. She often asks me "are you watching me baby, are you watching your naughty wife, things like that. Communication is the key and we communicate our feelings, needs & desires always Agreed Bellaazz, I liked the safety at first of him being there, but now I do love it when we exclude my husband knowing he cannot see us, so I can tell him afterwards just how good sex is with someone else as he licks me. We also use the 'are you watching' line when we are all in the same room - he likes being taunted and humiliated. 5 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rusty75 Posted September 28, 2015 Report Share Posted September 28, 2015 Agreed Bellaazz, I liked the safety at first of him being there, but now I do love it when we exclude my husband knowing he cannot see us, so I can tell him afterwards just how good sex is with someone else as he licks me. We also use the 'are you watching' line when we are all in the same room - he likes being taunted and humiliated. This is very similar for us. It's been truly wonderful to watch her grow in confidence over the years and it's quite amazing how far she's come with it all really. Hard to think now but she was quite timid with it all at first and I was always present and involved when we started playing around with this lifestyle, like Louise I think, due to the security of me being there but it's very different now! She makes all the arrangements with her guys, decides if I'm to be present or not, decides how long I'm to remain in chastity, everything really! It's everything that we both hoped for and more and to be around a super confident and assured woman in total control of her sexual needs is a total blessing for me. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bellaazz Posted September 28, 2015 Report Share Posted September 28, 2015 Yes ! Like I said Louise to each their own and whatever works as long as it is good for everyone, have at it ! Love to hear (and see) it !!! Good luck 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rusty75 Posted October 1, 2015 Report Share Posted October 1, 2015 It's certainly a whole different experience being banished to listen to them make love rather than watching them I find. You find yourself concentrating on every sound you hear - every moan, every sigh, every slap, every giggle, every gasp and imagining what they're doing. I like to try and work out the times that she's orgasming and then ask her afterwards to see if I was right! I can tell when she's cumming by watching but not always by listening. It's like a little game! 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rusty75 Posted October 5, 2015 Report Share Posted October 5, 2015 Can also add to above that when listening it really brings home just how long some guys can go for. When watching and taking part I just get caught up in it all but last Saturday afternoon when banished to listen in spare room I kept looking at the clock and just couldn't believe how long they were going for. Nearly an hour for the first session whereas round 2 was nearly double that! I could never last any more than a few minutes and so I'm just so happy that my gorgeous partner is getting the service that I just simply cannot provide. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bellaazz Posted October 6, 2015 Report Share Posted October 6, 2015 I know what you mean Rusty. I was absolutely amazed that my wife's first bull fucked her for over an hour before he came the first time ! As you, I maybe lasted 2, 3 minutes tops. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UK_EX Posted October 7, 2015 Report Share Posted October 7, 2015 I know what you mean Rusty. I was absolutely amazed that my wife's first bull fucked her for over an hour before he came the first time ! As you, I maybe lasted 2, 3 minutes tops. Me too Bellazz & Rusty, How did my dear wife put up with the few seconds of fucking I was able to provide for so long? Even she was surprised when our friend screwed her just how long he managed to keep going on top of her. It was nice to know that at last she was getting what she deserved, a better, bigger and longer lasting cock inside her. She was always so well stretched, and lubricated after she had been to bed with him, and very loose and sloppy seconds was heavenly for me. 2 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rusty75 Posted October 7, 2015 Report Share Posted October 7, 2015 I know what you mean Rusty. I was absolutely amazed that my wife's first bull fucked her for over an hour before he came the first time ! As you, I maybe lasted 2, 3 minutes tops. I used to think that just happened in porn films and that the actors took something to keep from cumming but I now know that there are guys who can just keep on going for long sessions before orgasming. Although I hope to be inside my partner again one day the thought of having to try and please her now is truly frightening after playing witness to what her other guys can do. Although it's tough going at times, I think my little dick is best locked away for now! 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joys Posted October 7, 2015 Report Share Posted October 7, 2015 I'm not an easy cummer myself. I can go on for hours most of the time. Sometimes, she gets tired from cumming and I get tired - still not have cum. even sometimes I can't even I want to cum. I'm not expecting a guy as long lasting for her (she likes to make a guy cum I know), but a quicky would be a real disappointment. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bellaazz Posted October 7, 2015 Report Share Posted October 7, 2015 UK: You are so right, it was, and is, very nice knowing she gets what she deserves: bigger, better more longer lasting cock. One of my first thoughts after seeing how much she enjoyed their long fuck was how she put up with my 10 seconds for so long. No wonder she'd only want sex once a month ! 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rusty75 Posted October 8, 2015 Report Share Posted October 8, 2015 UK: You are so right, it was, and is, very nice knowing she gets what she deserves: bigger, better more longer lasting cock. One of my first thoughts after seeing how much she enjoyed their long fuck was how she put up with my 10 seconds for so long. No wonder she'd only want sex once a month ! It used to really ruin my confidence with women knowing that I can only last a few minutes during sex. That combined with having a very small cock meant that I always knew I'd struggle to satisfy women. That's why I'm so lucky in that I have this cuckold relationship now where I get to witness my partner being pleasured as she so richly deserves with both of us knowing that that is something I can't provide for her. Much better for me to step aside for other more sexually competent men than having her unfulfilled or start an affair or something. 4 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NicoRuth Posted September 8, 2016 Report Share Posted September 8, 2016 All of the above Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UK_EX Posted September 8, 2016 Report Share Posted September 8, 2016 It used to really ruin my confidence with women knowing that I can only last a few minutes during sex. That combined with having a very small cock meant that I always knew I'd struggle to satisfy women. That's why I'm so lucky in that I have this cuckold relationship now where I get to witness my partner being pleasured as she so richly deserves with both of us knowing that that is something I can't provide for her. Much better for me to step aside for other more sexually competent men than having her unfulfilled or start an affair or something. Totally agree there Rusty, I had (have) the same problems, so knowing she was getting a good 'seeing to' by our best friend brought us both (well all three of us actually) so much pleasure. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
twbacuck Posted September 14, 2016 Report Share Posted September 14, 2016 I'm always there when my wife has some fun safer and we both enjoy it I love to clean up 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stick55 Posted September 30, 2016 Report Share Posted September 30, 2016 Great topic Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1stexhub Posted September 30, 2016 Report Share Posted September 30, 2016 Lots of sexy good thoughts. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bamamoon Posted September 30, 2016 Report Share Posted September 30, 2016 I love watchin because I want to suck and clean the guy's cock. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Deadpig Posted September 30, 2016 Report Share Posted September 30, 2016 Never been allowed. In the room it always gets me more worked thinking about what could be happening. My wife's one lover goes for hours the record so far is 3 hours and 10 minutes 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
muskan Posted March 5, 2017 Report Share Posted March 5, 2017 hi we are new in cuckold never had black lover, is they stretch pussy well . i am soo tight that am afraid of having one. how was your wife experiance? 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kaktuscpl Posted March 5, 2017 Report Share Posted March 5, 2017 On 9/25/2015 at 0:02 PM, UK_EX said: With us, the bull was in fact our best friend, so I already knew I was comfortable with him. The only say I would have had would have been to veto the whole experience - and then possibly lose her when she decided to have him anyway. For us the communication came after he had left and I joined her in the bed for sloppy seconds and pussy sucking That's how it was for us..........we keep trying to set up another "play date" but finding a time when everyone can get together has not happened yet 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UK_EX Posted March 6, 2017 Report Share Posted March 6, 2017 9 hours ago, Kaktuscpl said: That's how it was for us..........we keep trying to set up another "play date" but finding a time when everyone can get together has not happened yet I left 'play times' to my wife, just told her that she could have him whenever and wherever she wanted him. It helped that he was on shift work, so he was able to come and bed her daily when I was at work, then I'd come home and have a good lick and some sloppy seconds. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Naughty Nicki Posted March 8, 2017 Report Share Posted March 8, 2017 It wasn't a matter of finding out for me, my wife and I have been swinging for roughly 14 yrs. and over the last year or so she has been pretty much limiting and letting me play less and less while she has continued quite often. And yes, I love being there to watch. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cagedinbrissy Posted March 9, 2017 Report Share Posted March 9, 2017 Remember once I told her the 1st time she could fuck him on her own.... The 2nd time it's was to be a 3sum......she only did him once there was never a 2nd time Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bellaazz Posted March 9, 2017 Report Share Posted March 9, 2017 What happened that there wasn't a second time ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kaktuscpl Posted March 9, 2017 Report Share Posted March 9, 2017 5 hours ago, bellaazz said: What happened that there wasn't a second time ? for us it has just been a timming issue...trying to make plans to make it happen again,,and film it this time,but getting everyone pined down to a date/time we all work different hours and jobs...and my job does not have any kind of set/regular schedule 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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