They need patience, nothing worse than a hot wife walking in after a date or fucking to her cuck bombarding her with questions, let her tell you the details!
If she doesn't tell you something you want to know then ask after but let her tell you what she wants you to know and if she doesn't tell you the first time of asking, don't keep asking!
Also it's important to ask her what she wants you to do, ask her if she needs licking clean, if she wants a nice bath, a hot shower etc! Show her you're supporting her lifestyle and she'll reward you