Scientific evidence

[Smokeymountaincuckold]

Cuckold

Is there any actual scientific data to explain why some of us actually enjoy the thought of our wives with another man? 

The arousal that comes from knowing she's with him, touching, kissing, coming, all that?

Or is it just a fetish?

[victorsev]

I found these two comments on the above subject which helped clarify your confusion and question I hope these help

“I think one reason I find white women who like big black men to be so attractive is that desiring big black men imbues white women with a type of primal animalistic femininity. She is following her primal mating urge and going after the alpha male to provide her with the best genes for her offspring. And she is doing this regardless of social taboos or cultural norms and financial security. She is simply following her basic instinct to mate with alpha males. To me, this makes her more sexual, feminine and attractive.”

 “Bringing black men into our relationship for my wife to enjoy socially and sexually opened up a whole new world to our life. It has allowed my wife to openly show and express her strong inner desires and needs to be with black men and experience the incredibly wonderful sexual pleasure that only black men can give to her. It gives her the opportunity to pleasure black men which she loves so much doing. For me it has provided the freedom and erotic pleasure to share my wife with black men. To see my wife with black men, which I love so much and watching her being totally satisfied sexually by the black lovers that she desires so much. All of that has made my wife and my sex life much more powerful....intense....relevant.”

[pflash99]

Yes, there is.  If you search the term "cuckold" you will find that it is not new.  That word goes back hundreds of years, although today's definition is slightly different.  

If you search "sperm competition" you will also find some interesting studies.  Many of which contribute that to cuckoldry.

[RobJohnson]

I don’t know about scientific evidence, but I personally have thought hard  about relationships and which ones have the best chance of long term success. 

We all have desires, and often for either one or both parties temptation comes into play. At that point honesty can go out with window, either by unfaithfulness or with unfaithful thoughts that the individual will keep to themselves. 

I think the strongest chance of long term success would come from a true cuckold relationship.

If the MALE truly gave themselves to his wife. If his thoughts were of her needs only. If he was restricted sexually and agreed that this is to the benefit of the marriage. If he concentrated on fulfilling his wife’s desires, and wholly accepted her needs. 

If the FEMALE was truly open about her desires and communicated her needs effectively. If she controlled her husband sexually, and allowed him limited sex that kept his desire towards her so strong. If she openly had lovers to highlight her strong sexuality to her husband. 

If the above happened, there would be no need for any dishonestly whatsoever. In addition the female would feel so much love towards her husband for giving so much to her, and he would feel so much love for her being so open and honest. All men love sexual women, and you would have that in abundance in this situation.

I apologise I haven’t written this well, but I hope you get what I mean here? The dynamic of a true cuckold relationship I believe gives so much more chance for a long and happy marriage if worked on correctly.

Of course every relationship is different, but I think it’s the honesty in the cuckold scenario that gives it the edge over other relationships. It takes so much effort by the male to make this work, the female would naturally appreciate his efforts and I am sure the relationship would be so much stronger.

Why would the female want anything else when she has everything she can ever want? She is allowed as much male attention as she ever needs and can openly discuss her needs, and more importantly have every need she craves.

Sorry it’s a bit rambled, but hopefully you get what I am saying. I just think relationships are built on honesty and trust and the true cuckold relationship lends itself to this perfectly. 

[subsucko]

I'm going to follow this because I've done a little reading into it but right now don't have the time to post everything I've found. But so far no actual studies have been conducted so everything is just doctors observations. But I'll get back when I have more time.  

[nhfun2]

On 6/1/2019 at 8:20 PM, victorsev said:

I found these two comments on the above subject which helped clarify your confusion and question I hope these help

“I think one reason I find white women who like big black men to be so attractive is that desiring big black men imbues white women with a type of primal animalistic femininity. She is following her primal mating urge and going after the alpha male to provide her with the best genes for her offspring. And she is doing this regardless of social taboos or cultural norms and financial security. She is simply following her basic instinct to mate with alpha males. To me, this makes her more sexual, feminine and attractive.”

 “Bringing black men into our relationship for my wife to enjoy socially and sexually opened up a whole new world to our life. It has allowed my wife to openly show and express her strong inner desires and needs to be with black men and experience the incredibly wonderful sexual pleasure that only black men can give to her. It gives her the opportunity to pleasure black men which she loves so much doing. For me it has provided the freedom and erotic pleasure to share my wife with black men. To see my wife with black men, which I love so much and watching her being totally satisfied sexually by the black lovers that she desires so much. All of that has made my wife and my sex life much more powerful....intense....relevant.”

From what Iv read on many articles  its not the color its the alpha male that turns women  on . the husband is the one who wants to see her with a black guy 

[nhfun2]

Look up :   A Personal Map To The Sexual Market Place . on You Tube . It's  long but very interesting and you may have to listen to it more then one time . It covers cuckold and why they are part of the fabric in society's  , narcissistic, beta male  , alpha male , how some men just take what they want , some have a very high sex drives and others don't , violent drives to passive .

 

[Naughty Nicki]

To be honest, it has absolutely nothing to do with skin color, although I do love the contrast 😉,  but have everything to to with personality and attitude.   Size does play a little bit into it but that can be had no matter of skin tone.   I agree and disagree with some of the things said above  but that’s just my personal point of view.  

[lifeslayer696]

2 hours ago, Naughty Nicki said:

To be honest, it has absolutely nothing to do with skin color, although I do love the contrast 😉,  but have everything to to with personality and attitude.   Size does play a little bit into it but that can be had no matter of skin tone.   I agree and disagree with some of the things said above  but that’s just my personal point of view.  

Thank you so much for saying that!

[CuckoldFart]

Thank you for sharing💪

[Stonemtncouple]

Porn. Men who watch  a lot of it get their minds imprinted with it both consciously and subconsciously. They then develop a desire to act out in reality what they have seen.

Their wives, if of a subservient nature, are programed to please their husbands and comply with his sexual wishes to make him happy. The Husband has this desire to watch his wife with another man acting out the porn he has watched and orgasmed too so many times. He convinces his wife to give it a try. This gets the first time going. 

Getting fucked by a true alpha male the wife achieves a sexual high for the first time in her life and gets addicted to the “true bull” experience.

The Cuck lives out his fantasy the wife now addicted to great sex their Cuckolding marriage continues.   

This is our own story if not scientific.

[Clearwing178]

  As far as females wanting to sleep with other men I suspect it has some thing to do with genetic diversity. Especially wanting to sleep with black men.

 The more diverse the genes the stronger the offspring.

 

The genetic trait which makes us attracted to women or men with different accents and different traits is what made our genes strong.  Nothing can be more obviously diverse than someone with a different skin colour. I certainly don’t deny the attraction to alpha males but I think genetic diversity plays a  part.

 Another interesting fact is that from my perspective, is that my wife really wasn’t interested in infidelity until after we had our children.  And at that point she became  interested in men completely different from me.

 Thats when she started to become fascinated with black cock .Now there’s no denying that when she got her first taste that her desire to be a queen of spades stemmed at least partially from physical satisfaction.  Once her tight white pussy learned what orgasms while being filled with a thick black rod were like.... well there was no turning back.  But I think the initial attraction was her Instinct to spread her genetics around and increase  the likelihood of her survival  through diversity.

Initially her mind was looking for pleasure but I think the main  driver was her desire to breed.

Thus the craving to fuck black men bareback and be filled with their cum and her pregnancy fantasies 

 

 

 

[Naughty Nicki]

41 minutes ago, Stonemtncouple said:

Porn. Men who watch  a lot of it get their minds imprinted consciously and subconsciously with a desire to act out in reality with they have seen.

Their wives are programed to please their husbands and comply with his wishes to make him happy. This gets the first time going. 

Then I believe the wife has so much fun and achieves such a sexual high they get addicted to the Alpha male or a “true bull” experience.

The Cuck lives out his fantasy and it continues.   

I do agree with porn being a possible trigger to a lot of fantasies,  but women are not programmed to please or comply,  and it only works to start the conversation about the possibilities.  there is way more involved than the husband watching porn, snaps he’s fingers and the wife is in bed with someone else.  There has to be a level of comfort and trust way before anything.  We have been in one form or another of the life style for 16 years now and have yet to have a  “Alpha male” or “true bull” experience”.      There is some Validity to what you’ve said,  but there is a lot of holes in it as well. 

[maryann660ac]

how about DP

[Oldercuck2]

In my opinion too much is made about a black male with your white wife.  Yes, I have known white women that prefer sex with black men but also those that are indifferent or are not at all interested in them.  Over the years my wife has had sex with 30 to 40 different men and a few women.  Black, brown and white men made up the mix and for her there was no preference.  I once asked her what she enjoyed most about her sexual freedom and she told me it was the variety of her partners.  Each one was different than the last and I guess that a lot of men would tell you the same about the women they bed.  And I guess you could attribute that to spreading the gene pool....  

I do not believe that I'm a true cuckold as defined by the book and I don't think many here are.  I'm not into humiliation being used or abused by a bull.  I'm not deprived of sexual contact or restricted from having sex with women other than my wife.  What I am is someone who enjoys knowing and watching his wife having sex with other men.  With all the different situations it's no wonder there is no scientific explanation for why we enjoy sharing our wives.... 

[Naughty Nicki]

56 minutes ago, Oldercuck2 said:

In my opinion too much is made about a black male with your white wife.  Yes, I have known white women that prefer sex with black men but also those that are indifferent or are not at all interested in them.  Over the years my wife has had sex with 30 to 40 different men and a few women.  Black, brown and white men made up the mix and for her there was no preference.  I once asked her what she enjoyed most about her sexual freedom and she told me it was the variety of her partners.  Each one was different than the last and I guess that a lot of men would tell you the same about the women they bed.  And I guess you could attribute that to spreading the gene pool....  

I do not believe that I'm a true cuckold as defined by the book and I don't think many here are.  I'm not into humiliation being used or abused by a bull.  I'm not deprived of sexual contact or restricted from having sex with women other than my wife.  What I am is someone who enjoys knowing and watching his wife having sex with other men.  With all the different situations it's no wonder there is no scientific explanation for why we enjoy sharing our wives.... 

Very well said.   You guys sound a lot like my husband and I.  

[Stonemtncouple]

On 6/21/2019 at 8:54 AM, Clearwing178 said:

  As far as the emails wanting to sleep with other men I suspect it has some thing to do with genetic diversity. Especially black men.

 The more diverse the genes the stronger the offspring.

 

The genetic trait which makes us attracted to  women or men with different accents and different traits is what made our genes strong.  Nothing can be more obviously diverse than someone with a different skin colour. I certainly don’t deny the attraction to alpha males but I think genetic diversity plays a  part.

 Another interesting fact it from my perspective why is that my wife really wasn’t interested in infidelity until after we had our children.  And at that point she was interested in men completely different from me.

 It was at that point that she started to become fascinated with black cock .Now there’s no denying that when she got her first taste that her desire to be a queen of spades stems at least partially from physical satisfaction.  Once that tight white pussy learned what orgasms while being filled with a thick black rod were like there was no turning back.  But I think the initial attraction was her Instinct  to spread her genetics around to increase  the likelihood of survival  and diversity.

Initially her mind was looking for pleasure but I think the main  driver was her desire to breed.

This the craving to fuck  black men bareback and be filled with their cum and the pregnancy fantasy

 

 

 

This makes since to me and explains the desire for non-monogamy in women and men. 

[Stonemtncouple]

On 6/21/2019 at 8:55 AM, Naughty Nicki said:

I do agree with porn being a possible trigger to a lot of fantasies,  but women are not programmed to please or comply,  and it only works to start the conversation about the possibilities.  there is way more involved than the husband watching porn, snaps he’s fingers and the wife is in bed with someone else.  There has to be a level of comfort and trust way before anything.  We have been in one form or another of the life style for 16 years now and have yet to have a  “Alpha male” or “true bull” experience”.      There is some Validity to what you’ve said,  but there is a lot of holes in it as well. 

The wife that is of a subservient nature will try her best to please, same is true for a subservient husband. That very sad  to me that after 16 years she hasn’t been with a Alpha Male.

   

[Naughty Nicki]

I find it very hard for a “subservient wife”  as you put it,  to to be an actual cuckdress considering by definition they’d be in a female led relationship making her more of a dominant figure.   And although my husband loves for me to play with other men and even watch, he is the ALPHA MALE  in which I’m married too. That being said, yes I very much do enjoy very dominant and assertive men when I am playing.  

[CuckoldFart]

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[Smokeymountaincuckold]

This thread certainly took on a life of its own