Kaktuscpl

If I have it twisted....straighten me out!!!!

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First off,I apologize if I have things fucked off,,,I am extremely high right now....

 

Now here is my thoughts on this.I have never understood the "humiliation/degrading/DISRESPECT" aspect associated with hotwife/cuckold lifestyle

 

All this "Alpha male/ macho douche bag shit" ... I.E. "I'm here to fuck your wife,little man".   

Dude get it straight,,,you are here so SHE can fuck you....(if SHE wants to)and then go the fuck home...

 

This lifestyle,IMO,is about RESPECT...." I respect and love my wife enough,to step aside,and let someone else give her pleasure(again...only if she wants it)

I am not the baddest motherfucker to ever walk this planet,but I can hold my own...plus some...

And to INVITE someone to join you and your wife in the adventure of a lifetime....only to be mocked/ridiculed /DISRESPECTED......Hell No...

 

 

So tell me ..Am I wrong here or what 

 

Again sorry for this coming off as rant 

 

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makes perfect sense Kak.  but it takes all kinds.  i personally never understood people who get off being beaten.  but not important if i understand, i just try not to judge

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And that my friend......IS WHY YOU'RE AWESOME....thank you for that ...oh and for the amazing pics/videos

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we have never done the humiliation stuff,

. Love watching my wife fuck friends, also like to go seconds or 3rds. It is all about her getting off, so good seeing her have huge orgasms. Yes I take second place or sometimes no place at all. We can fuck other times.  She has even had BFs that are "secret" least they think I don't know. All part of an erotic extended sex life that has made our marriage work. I dislike the word slut, she is just a lady that likes sex, a lot,. She would never belittle me, if a guy gets a bit too dominant he is unlikely to get invited again. We never do pain or anal. But that is us, if others like to play a different way well that is their business. We won't get involved with that sort of stuff as we don't find it a turn on. Guys that get in my wifes panties (she doesn't wear any) are always respectful, funny, charming gentlemen.

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 Thanks for letting me vent,and replying.Now that I've had time to calm down,and look at this with a clear head...

 

I understand that some people/cucks get off on humiliation(Do You)  as Jag said... "Not my place to judge...nor do I want/mean to"

I was wondering if there were a way to "hhhhhhhhh" ,but in a respectful way.... ??

 

Damn,this sounded better,and made more sense in my head......

 

 

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I have mostly had cuck couples where the male did not get off on humiliation.  Most of my cuck couples the woman was deeply submissive and the husband could not deliver on dominating in any aspect of the relationship.  So usually the woman is submissive and the male is vanilla in my past situations.

I had one situation where the male was also submissive, but he was not into humiliation.  Being submissive is not the same as wanting to be humiliated.

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Such a much better time when two guys enjoy pleasing one woman equally, love it when I share and it is all about pleasure and not humiliation...but for some folks that is what gives them pleasure, we are all wired a little different...to each their own I always say!

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I had a deeply submissive wife last night.  Her husband is vanilla, limp, and disinterested.  Has not touched her in 8 years.  I expect no contact with him ever.

She on the other hand had a deep need to be dominated, commanded, controlled, and taken hard.  This is very much in line with several other wives I have had.

 

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My goal is to get my wife to enjoy herself.  I love to see her get off with me or her toys, that's what turns me on.   She cum easily & often so if she can be shared with other guys, then she can cum even more.   If I can double team her with another guy great, then she can double her pleasure.  Since I am her only partner she doesn't know what she's been missing.

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Spot on! Humiliation works when it's wanted. Bulls and those who want to be need to understand that they are a tool used in fulfulling the couples fantasy. It's a privilege not a right to be with our women. The only one that gets to hhhhhhhhh me is our long term! 

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Love to do that, just have to get her to relax & go with the flow.  She definitely needs to see what she has been missing.

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