We were in the process of setting up a "playdate"with a friend from the internet wife was real into the idea......until I got pushy and tried to MAKE her pick a date we could get together that worked for all of us...
Well because I was being pushy and trying to force the issue she got pissed and "squashed" the issue...wouldn't even discuss the idea or even role play about having another guy join/fuck her....
This all happened about 2weeeks ago......I am lucky I didn't permanently fuck things up for myself and whoever .......she finally started discussing the idea of someone joining us/fucking her as I watch(hopefully film)the action.....
HAVE PATIENCE ......DON'T TRY TO FORCE THE ISSUE
She informed me that if I had not pushed the issue,,,it would have already happened ...
Lesson Learned