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So. Many couples have children of their own. I am wondering how you approach your kids when they start asking questions about anything they may see. From both the couples and bulls point of view. 

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I must say I haven't been a very active bull. Less than ten hotwives under my belt, so far. Most of them had kids, though. In my experience, the hotwife is very careful not to mix the two parts of her life. As far as I'm concerned, unless the children were toddlers and, hence, uncapable to understand the situation, I was asked to come over when they were away. Or we would schedule the meeting at an hotel or motel. If the children were teenager or above, the hotwife was even more careful since they might smell something even in awkward behaviours. So I rarely visited their place, unless the offspring was off to some vacation or similar.

In short, all precautions were taken in order to NOT involve the kids in the lifestyle.

The only situation that might be sort of relevant to your question was when a teenage asked the girl for whom I was acting as bull why she was out so many nights for work. She found it strange. The woman just pretended to have overseas clients she had to contact. Given the timezone difference she had to work by night.

I hope my contribution to this thread was on point.

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You are pretty much exactly on point. We usually hosted when then kids were younger but once they got a little older we either started getting a room or going to the guys house unless they weren’t going to be home.  Under no circumstances were there ever a chance of them finding out or even a clue. 

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Well i told my teenagers that I can't keep my wife happy so her bf does. Plus it's better if all of us our in it together instead of divorcing. They kind of have 2 dads now apart from their biological fathers. And the young ones, well we tell them that he helps with adults exercise.

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ok how do the kids handle the truth its one hell of a decision my kids wouldn't handle it  

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I have had 2 wives with kids.  One of them always met me outside her home except once when the whole family was away except her.  Her kids did know I existed, but only that I was a friend of their parents that they never met.  Kids were late teens.

 

My other hotwife also had 2 kids and as far as they were concerned I was someone who helped their parents with their home business from time to time who was also a friend.  Again I never was in the house the same time as the teens.  In their case the husband would take the kids on weekends away without mom, or she would come to me.  The only reason the kids even knew I existed was I actually did help them with their home based business from time to time and they would hear their parents talking to me on the phone.

Now if you are like Bill and your kids were all fathered by different men several of a different race you pretty much have to tell the kids they have two daddies, the one who helped create them and the one they live with that loves them.  I am not sure what that will do to them and I expect no one will know for another 20-40 years.

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We started when my girls were 9 and 4. At first being very careful and making sure sure they were asleep. As time went on and more guys started coming over it just became a part of our life. 

I don’t recall sitting them and explaining what we were doing but eventually it just became a part of their lives as well and still is to this day. 

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Had occasional sessions with an ex-GF who had since married and had kids. When it ws schools holidays the husband would take the kids out for the day

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I think the kids as they get older start to figure it out. Sometimes I wonder if it’s better to just tell them... 

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Once upon a time, we had arraigned to have our boys stay somewhere else due to a buddy coming to party with us. Boys were 13 and 11. The wife, my buddy and I were out in the swimming pool. We guys had been fucking the wife for nearly an hour on loungers, on the side of the pool, in the pool and bent over the diving board. I found out later that the folks who were supposed to be watching the boys had dropped them back at our house along with their two boys (12 and 11). We had no idea they were even in the house. The four kids had watched we two naked men working over the wife for a long time. I didn't find out about it for a couple months. Seems like one of the friends was sharing the story about what he saw. We got lots of funny looks afterwards and had to do some explaining (kinda).

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I knew of one couple who had a spare room off the side, next to the garage. They wife would "entertain" her guests in there while the husband babysat the kids. Went on for years without incident. 

With another couple, the wife and her BBC bull would spend the rest of the evening in the bedroom upstairs while hubby and the kid would "camp out" in in living room on weekends. The cuck would have breakfast waiting for all if them the next morning.

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I think when they grow up around it the act becomes natural to the kids. I know my girls just consider it their normal life and they adapted to it just fine. 

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They are now 19 and 15. We started when they were about and 9 and 5 and I’d say they became aware of it when the oldest was about 12. 

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We were shocked as well, especially after thinking back about everything we were doing. The word circulated among the kids at their school too. That all evolved into other activities which I can't provide here. My wife was most vulnerable to it.

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We managed to keep in within our walls. My wife is a principal and word of this getting out could easily cost her job. Trust that no one involved including my girls will take it outside of our walls. 

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